Okay, I'm tired of making friends. Every time I do, I just seem to get hurt. I mean I love meeting new people and everything, but it seems like my BEST friends are turning into backstabbers and everything. It's getting more difficult for me to trust my friends. It's funny..I seem to always be the one in the background watching all the others have fun and laugh. All my girlfriends seem to have a boyfriend OR some guy that likes them. I mean, I don't mind it really, as long as they are happy BUT I hate it when my friends try to mess around with the guy that I like or am interested in. I have a best friend since elementary and I have liked this guy for a while, well she decides to get drunk and mess around with him, but he being a gentlemen didn't let that happen and took her home. WTF. I can't believe my friend did this! I mean sure she was drunk but don't give me that as an excuse, geez... OH and another thing that happened, she also introduced me to this other guy not so long ago and he was pretty nice and I took a liking to him..Well, she got with him the NEXT day. Just wow...forget it. It doesn't bother me that I do not have someone, plus I have plenty of time and I want a guy to find me. I'm tired of searching. The thing that hurt me the most, was my trust and my friend's actions. It just makes me seem like she is TRYING to make my life even more miserable. I just don't know what to do.. She also texts me stuff like what happened with a guy and etc. I DON'T CARE. What should I do? I love her and she is someone I have grown up with since I was like 3 years old.

Have you asked her to stop if soo then idk.

If this continues then like tell the teacher or something or tell her to STFU

Well if you really feel like she's doing all of this on purpose... confront her. Because if she's trying to hurt you, she's not a real friend. It might be hard to let go, but if you think she's hurting you then it'll be for the best.

Just know that we're here for you <3

i know you've probably heard a bunch of times, "don't let a guy get between friends blah blah", but in this discussion, it's kinda different.

 

see, the thing is, you don't even have the guy in the first place for you to actually have a chance with him before your friend sweeps in and takes him away from you.

 

you know, years don't really matter between a friendship if it means she's not giving you the trust or respect you deserve. a true friend doesn't hurt his/her friend by doing all of these things you've talked about, cricket.

 

you need to put your foot down and talk to her straight with the truth. you cannot let yourself get trampled all over like that because you only end up hurting yourself ;~;

 

this is my advice. pretty corny and whatnot, but that's what i'd do if i was in a situation like that i wish you the best cricket ?

i know you've probably heard a bunch of times, "don't let a guy get between friends blah blah", but in this discussion, it's kinda different.

 

see, the thing is, you don't even have the guy in the first place for you to actually have a chance with him before your friend sweeps in and takes him away from you.

 

you know, years don't really matter between a friendship if it means she's not giving you the trust or respect you deserve. a true friend doesn't hurt his/her friend by doing all of these things you've talked about, cricket.

 

you need to put your foot down and talk to her straight with the truth. you cannot let yourself get trampled all over like that because you only end up hurting yourself ;~;

 

this is my advice. pretty corny and whatnot, but that's what i'd do if i was in a situation like that i wish you the best cricket ?

 

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I completely agree with this.

 

Like Jenny said, you need to confront her about this, otherwise nothing will get solved and it will continue. Continuously enabling these actions from a so-called friend will only continue to hurt you, and I doubt most of us want to see you like that.

you could try it 2 ways, 1. jenyflo's way(whichh is the smart way)

or 2.ignoring her till she gets the point that you dont want to be with her(its always a 50-50 chance that it works for me) your decition, truthful, or regretfull, both are good decitions though

i know you've probably heard a bunch of times, "don't let a guy get between friends blah blah", but in this discussion, it's kinda different.

 

see, the thing is, you don't even have the guy in the first place for you to actually have a chance with him before your friend sweeps in and takes him away from you.

 

you know, years don't really matter between a friendship if it means she's not giving you the trust or respect you deserve. a true friend doesn't hurt his/her friend by doing all of these things you've talked about, cricket.

 

you need to put your foot down and talk to her straight with the truth. you cannot let yourself get trampled all over like that because you only end up hurting yourself ;~;

 

this is my advice. pretty corny and whatnot, but that's what i'd do if i was in a situation like that i wish you the best cricket ?

 

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I couldn't have put that any better myself

ITHIRDTHISMOTION!!!

Sounds like your friend just wants ****-buddies. I have no experience in this situation so I'm no help.

Hey thank you for your advice and support everyone. I told her the truth and how I felt. To every last detail, I told her how much of a friend she wasn't being to me. We got in an argument and didn't talk for a while, but she apologized to me. she is still talking to the guy that I was interested in, but hey...I want to see her happy and the guy wasn't really that great. They are both kind of fast people and hey whatever floats their boat. I just hope she doesn't do this to me again. She has tried to make up for it and has been finding time to hang out with me. I'll just see how things go for now, but thank you for being there and caring for me.

ok, we'll be around if u ever need help even though i have no other choice on serten days in a good way, lol

i'm very glad everything worked out for you, cricket : D if she ever does do that again, it'd be better not to talk to her again. friends don't do mistakes over and over again D:

Good to know that things turned out ok for you in the end, Brittany. ^__^

I'm glad she apologized and things are better Ever need to talk, we're here for you, kay?