KeybladeLordCheeseCurd 1,542 Posted April 18, 2015 Ever since my dad died, all my brother and mom have been doing were arguing with each other practically every minute, and my brother has been causing them. My dad has always been the one who would keep them from arguing with each other, and now that he's gone, they have been yelling at each other all the time. And now my mother has supposedly called the cops on my brother because he keeps stealing from her. I blame my dad's death for all of this. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Aqua7KH 5,395 Posted April 18, 2015 I'm really sorry to hear about that friend. I'm even more sorry to hear that your dad has past. Sadly, you can't really do anything other than trying to stop the fighting yourself, but that might cause more emotional stress than you already have. I really hope it gets better soon for you. 2 Neptune Vasilias and Yuya Sakaki reacted to this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
KeybladeLordCheeseCurd 1,542 Posted April 18, 2015 I'm really sorry to hear about that friend. I'm even more sorry to hear that your dad has past. Sadly, you can't really do anything other than trying to stop the fighting yourself, but that might cause more emotional stress than you already have. I really hope it gets better soon for you.Thank you, and I hope it does get better. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Robbie the Wise 5,050 Posted April 19, 2015 I'm sorry you have to go through that but don't blame your father for something that's beyond his control. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
KeybladeLordCheeseCurd 1,542 Posted April 19, 2015 I'm sorry you have to go through that but don't blame your father for something that's beyond his control.He was the guy who kept them from yelling at each other, and I'm not blaming him. I'm blaming his death. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
The Transcendent Key 12,109 Posted April 19, 2015 It's never easy to accept the passing of a family member, especially when it's a parental figure. I'm truly sorry for your loss, and I'm truly sorry that things aren't going well between your mother and your brother. I pray that things will get better soon! And well, in the end, death is something that never warns anyone, so even though you blame death, there's nothing that can be done. All you can do is try to see if you can help out with the situation, but if you see that things are way too out of control, do what you think is best for your safety and that of your family's. Good luck. 1 Aang reacted to this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Jake 1,488 Posted April 19, 2015 Sorry to hear about this troubling times you've had with your family. Good luck and I hope everything fixes soon! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Geralt 4,874 Posted April 19, 2015 I'm so sorry to heart about such an unfortunate event. But perhaps you should try to get them to settle it out somehow? Maybe they can sit down and have a nice chat or something and put aside their differences. The fact that your dad died may have also put even more weight on them and such things are hard to handle. So, just see if you can help work it out between them to, if that doesn't work maybe time will tell. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nick Sideris 1,551 Posted April 19, 2015 First of all ,don't take this personally but you really should not post stuff like those .I know that this is also the personal forum but let's just not make it that personal.Secondly , I am not sure if there's something you can do about your case.I am sorry for your loss .I hope everything works out for you eventually . Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Aang 649 Posted April 19, 2015 Ever since my dad died, all my brother and mom have been doing were arguing with each other practically every minute, and my brother has been causing them. My dad has always been the one who would keep them from arguing with each other, and now that he's gone, they have been yelling at each other all the time. And now my mother has supposedly called the cops on my brother because he keeps stealing from her. I blame my dad's death for all of this. Keyblade, Firstly I am truly sorry for you loss. Similar things have happened in my family and I know how you feel. Like many above have said, don't blame death. Death is something that occurs in our lives. Nothing we can do to stop it. Your mother and brother appear to have lost guidance, and guidance is something they obviously need. I will keep you, and your family in my prayers. Cheers, -Aang 1 KeybladeLordCheeseCurd reacted to this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Neptune Vasilias 340 Posted April 19, 2015 Sorry to hear that, hope things get better. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Songbird Rebel 151 Posted April 20, 2015 I'm so sorry to hear about this *hug* Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites