So I rarely post personal stuff on here but ya this is kinda serious.

 

Since October 2014 ish, I think, My sister's boyfriend from South Dakota has been living with us here in Georgia. He got engaged to my sister...started his first job down here...had a baby with my sister...and moved to South Georgia with us.

Well he is leaving. Tomorrow. Suddenly. He called up his mom and they are both going to South Dakota. Leaving my sister without a fiancee and leaving his kid behind.

I don't really know how to feel about this or what to do. I mean that is my big sister...and my first nephew.

The only reason why he is really leaving is because he can't get a job down here and he is basically wasting his life down here. He is 25 years old, doesn't have any motive to do anything at all. He is borderline autistic and refuses to get any help from anyone.

I just don't know what to do. He is supposed to be leaving...well tomorrow.

 

 

Edit- My sister has been in the mental hospital twice basically due to him and was literally in the mental hospital last week. She has bipolar but I don't want her to hurt herself.

Edited November 19, 20168 yr by Madam Ciel Nekohive

That's really unfortunate. I really hope things work out for your sister and her fiance. If you ever need to talk to anyone, you've got us.

My sister is actually leaving too-- Just got word of that. 

Well human, this is a tough one...normally I'd think of something funny to say, but this is something more serious!

 

Now, if I were a human, what would I do...? *Snaps fingers.* I got it! How about you and your Mom sit down with your sister and talk things out carefully, find out how things are going to be handled? Because without communication, there's nothing but messes!  And try to see if you can contact the fiancee! There seems to be a lot to talk about! He can't leave his gal and kid just like that!

Be by your sister's side all the time.Try and talk to her about the matter , maybe that way you can kinda settle things .As for your sister's fiancee he should've known that family means lots of responsibilities even if he has some mental issues . I really hope everything works out for you and your family in the end.Be strong .

I'm sorry to hear of the conflict in your family.  However, I am gladdened that your sister is going with her fiance back to his home state.  I would've been just appalled if he went alone without her, especially since he also has a child to think about.  I pray that they are able to start their new lives successfully in the new state, and who knows?  Maybe in time after he gets a job they'll both be able to return home to you guys.

 

Growing up is a tough time, and sometimes we can make strange decisions that lead up to our ultimate happiness.  At other times we make mistakes, too, but in those mistakes we normally get stronger.  I'm sure that your sister has thought long and hard about this decision, and if they truly care for one another I'm sure that they want to stick together through thick and thin, and that's a good thing.   I'm sure that it will be challenging for all of you, as you are undoubtedly close to your sister and it will be hard not having her there every day.  In the end I think everyone will end up happy and doing what is best for them, and I wish you all of the best through this difficult time!