I'd prefer if the mature [age wise] members reply but everyone's welcome.

 

I've been going out with my girlfriend for a few months now and I've been wondering if we should have intercoarse. We've talked about it a little but none of us decided to. So Im wondering does sex matter or not? Cause I already feel happy and comfortable with her and she says girls arent interested in sex that much...

^ The thirteen-year-olds on this thread have the best advice.

 

God created sex as a thing for a married man & woman to share.

 

tbh, I think it's a bad idea. You've got the rest of your lives. You're not even married. Why should you even really be thinking about this kind of thing, no matter how old you are.

 

But, meh, it's your lives.

 

 

forgive me father for I have sinned..............alot

I think its safe to say everyone is doing it!

 

But anyways, I think you should see if your girlfriend wants to do it first. If she says yes, then it is time for your decision. As long as you are a Trojan man, you won't have to worry about anything.

 

Card please don't post saying your going to do it.

I'm still getting over Aaron saying he did it.

 

Would you like to hear a story...of two people....doing it?

 

You might like it, as it contains contains an age gap that would shock many people...

 

pm that story to me

Girls not interested in sex??? LAIZ

If they're not interested, then why would there be so many -insert the term for girls who do sex with many men to earn money-

Yeah, girls definitely are interested in sex, even if it's just a little bit.

 

But really, I wouldn't go all the way until marriage or at least until you know that you want to get married. -shrug- It's not hard to just stop at 3rd base. c:

Girls not interested in sex??? LAIZ

If they're not interested, then why would there be so many -insert the term for girls who do sex with many men to earn money-

 

Probably for the money.

You don't really need sex to carry on a healthy relationship. Plus, it can lead to many consequences, namely Premarital/teen pregnancy, Sexually Transmitted Disease, a bad habit, and... more likely then not... guilt.

It's probably best to save it for once you're married, or better yet, once married and when you KNOW you can support another mouth to feed.

But, that's just the way I see it. But I'm not the boss of you, so do what you feel you should, or what you feel you have to.

 

And yeah, I'm only thirteen, but regardless... this is a touchy subject for me. I like to throw my two cents in when I can.

 

 

 

If you do go for it, at least use protection... whether you use a condom, or have her on the pill, just try to make sure you have something to help prevent an... er... accident.

 

Honestly, this isn't a thing two people should be discussing, if you ask me

I mean you can't just decide "Yup, we're gonna have sex!" and then decide a date?

That's kinda .. odd

 

If it happens, it happens .. And it probably will someday in the future ^^

 

And Ran-sama

many people gets forced into protitution~

 

 

And on a third note: .. People who think people should wait untill they're married, I did not think I'd live to the day I'll see a person who actually thinks that!

You don't really need sex to carry on a healthy relationship.

 

 

Your right, you don't.

 

But it makes it so much better.

 

You don't really need sex to carry on a healthy relationship.

 

 

Your right, you don't.

 

But it makes it so much better.

 

Kinda funny how girls and guys seem to view sex in different ways.

But well, guys dont have any risks to get pregnant, or get as emotionally scarred as girls usually become when their lover break up with them~ (But that depends on the guy)

 

 

You don't really need sex to carry on a healthy relationship.

 

 

Your right, you don't.

 

But it makes it so much better.

 

Kinda funny how girls and guys seem to view sex in different ways.

But well, guys dont have any risks to get pregnant, or get as emotionally scarred as girls usually become when their lover break up with them~ (But that depends on the guy)

 

I resent that comment

If my Boyfriend left me I'd be utterly crushed.

 

 

 

You don't really need sex to carry on a healthy relationship.

 

 

Your right, you don't.

 

But it makes it so much better.

 

Kinda funny how girls and guys seem to view sex in different ways.

But well, guys dont have any risks to get pregnant, or get as emotionally scarred as girls usually become when their lover break up with them~ (But that depends on the guy)

 

I resent that comment

If my Boyfriend left me I'd be utterly crushed.

 

Told ya! Depends on the guy!

 

 

 

 

You don't really need sex to carry on a healthy relationship.

 

 

Your right, you don't.

 

But it makes it so much better.

 

Kinda funny how girls and guys seem to view sex in different ways.

But well, guys dont have any risks to get pregnant, or get as emotionally scarred as girls usually become when their lover break up with them~ (But that depends on the guy)

 

I resent that comment

If my Boyfriend left me I'd be utterly crushed.

 

Told ya! Depends on the guy!

 

Doesnt work like that straight or gay if a fella has any emotional investment he'll be crushed

 

 

 

 

 

You don't really need sex to carry on a healthy relationship.

 

 

Your right, you don't.

 

But it makes it so much better.

 

Kinda funny how girls and guys seem to view sex in different ways.

But well, guys dont have any risks to get pregnant, or get as emotionally scarred as girls usually become when their lover break up with them~ (But that depends on the guy)

 

I resent that comment

If my Boyfriend left me I'd be utterly crushed.

 

Told ya! Depends on the guy!

 

Doesnt work like that straight or gay if a fella has any emotional investment he'll be crushed

 

Yeah, I ended up reacting stupidly at something my ex told me even though I still don't know how I should have reacted about the situation, and 'beat' myself up for days, I still feel stupid about it.

the turth is all of you are going at this the worng way if your a vergin dont loss it unless you really fell like you like her more than your old girl freinds or if you want her to be the on you loss it to becosu after that you cant have that lost moment ever again (god i wish i could have that momnet again)anyway yeah if you like her dont force it on her let her aske you

 

 

You don't really need sex to carry on a healthy relationship.

 

 

Your right, you don't.

 

But it makes it so much better.

 

Kinda funny how girls and guys seem to view sex in different ways.

But well, guys dont have any risks to get pregnant, or get as emotionally scarred as girls usually become when their lover break up with them~ (But that depends on the guy)

 

 

Who do you think is paying for child support when the girl gets pregnant? It may not seem like it at first, but things like that really do screw up a guys life as well.

 

 

 

You don't really need sex to carry on a healthy relationship.

 

 

Your right, you don't.

 

But it makes it so much better.

 

Kinda funny how girls and guys seem to view sex in different ways.

But well, guys dont have any risks to get pregnant, or get as emotionally scarred as girls usually become when their lover break up with them~ (But that depends on the guy)

 

 

Who do you think is paying for child support when the girl gets pregnant? It may not seem like it at first, but things like that really do screw up a guys life as well.

 

At least we don't have to squeeze something the size of a watermelon out of a hole the size of a lemon

 

 

 

 

You don't really need sex to carry on a healthy relationship.

 

 

Your right, you don't.

 

But it makes it so much better.

 

Kinda funny how girls and guys seem to view sex in different ways.

But well, guys dont have any risks to get pregnant, or get as emotionally scarred as girls usually become when their lover break up with them~ (But that depends on the guy)

 

 

Who do you think is paying for child support when the girl gets pregnant? It may not seem like it at first, but things like that really do screw up a guys life as well.

 

At least we don't have to squeeze something the size of a watermelon out of a hole the size of a lemon

 

Well not exactly. With Kidney Stones we get to squeeze something half the size of your fist through a passage only about one to two inches wide.

 

 

 

You don't really need sex to carry on a healthy relationship.

 

 

Your right, you don't.

 

But it makes it so much better.

 

Kinda funny how girls and guys seem to view sex in different ways.

But well, guys dont have any risks to get pregnant, or get as emotionally scarred as girls usually become when their lover break up with them~ (But that depends on the guy)

 

 

Who do you think is paying for child support when the girl gets pregnant? It may not seem like it at first, but things like that really do screw up a guys life as well.

 

And then we have those who just run away, and let the mother pay for the child support.

 

And Fred, I honestly don't think you're the right person to tell another person that kidneystones is worse than giving birth (No offence) ._.

 

 

 

 

You don't really need sex to carry on a healthy relationship.

 

 

Your right, you don't.

 

But it makes it so much better.

 

Kinda funny how girls and guys seem to view sex in different ways.

But well, guys dont have any risks to get pregnant, or get as emotionally scarred as girls usually become when their lover break up with them~ (But that depends on the guy)

 

 

Who do you think is paying for child support when the girl gets pregnant? It may not seem like it at first, but things like that really do screw up a guys life as well.

 

And then we have those who just run away, and let the mother pay for the child support.

 

And Fred, I honestly don't think you're the right person to tell another person that kidneystones is worse than giving birth (No offence) ._.

 

you have no idea.............

^

YOU, sir, have no idea about the pain of giving birth.

^

YOU, sir, have no idea about the pain of giving birth.

 

You're 15, so you don't either.

 

Eterna wins!

My sister had a kidney stone after giving birth to a child; kidney stones are worse.

 

Anyway, back on topic everyone...

 

Sex comes with a great responsibility of course, you should only do it if you are emotionally ready, not because of urges from the get go.

 

^

YOU, sir, have no idea about the pain of giving birth.

 

You're 15, so you don't either.

 

Eterna wins!

 

Your on a roll today Eterna!

 

^

YOU, sir, have no idea about the pain of giving birth.

 

You're 15, so you don't either.

 

Eterna wins!

 

Well, unless girls can have kidney stones (I personally don't have the slightest clue Dx) then neither can know which is worse, it also all depends on how big the baby or the kidney stone is, and how many there are, and if the person in mention has some sort of health issue that will make it harder to come out *shudders*, however, I'm sure kidney stones can be prevented just as easily as pregnancy (You know I'm right.)

Yeah, girls definitely are interested in sex, even if it's just a little bit.

 

But really, I wouldn't go all the way until marriage or at least until you know that you want to get married. -shrug- It's not hard to just stop at 3rd base. c:

 

Speaking from experience are you?

 

hehe. >