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I have like

A really burning question about trans... Stuff

Oh boy

That I feel like I would be crucified for if I asked

But like ?

Depends on how you ask it

Isn't it kinda... Regressive (?) that people say "I knew I was a girl because I liked playing with dolls and liked makeup"

Well... That can be a form of masculinity too y'know?

Well

It's not like that for everyone

Well

That's more of a social thing

A friend of mine who's trans from boy to girl wasn't really that type of person

She was just more comfortable being a girl

being yourself is what matters really

Oh yeah, isn't just saying trans offensive? Or is that wrong

Not sure

I know trap is

Okay well, here's a better example

Growing up I absolutely hated being a girl, like legitimately, I've read up on a lot of people's transitions and the kinda mirror almost totally 1:1 what I went through as a child

Like I would try to just kinda... Flatten my chest sometimes too ?? I really really wanted to be a boy

but I did grow out of that

I mean, if you still feel it then that's something else

Not everyone does

I feel like if I grew up now, I might not be given that space to figure things out

Oh of course

It's not necessarily a "phase" for everyone