is it possible to have 2 girlfriends and does it work out well cuz i have 2 right now one thinks im awesome and loves me and stuff, but the other one thought i was all that she thought i would be andmore and that made her really happy and loves me.

 

please help this is my 2nd and 3rd girlfriends please help and discuss.

um, no, 2 girlfriends does not work out, not at all....... Wait, do they know each other in any way, and does either of them know that you're dating 2 girls? Becuase, honestly, it's not really good to have 2 girlfriends..... You might/ probably will have to choose one of them over the other, which would be kinda bad and awkward for you :L Sorry to have to be the one to say that

it doesn't work. unless they believe in polygamy(a guy having lots of women) it doesn't work. you will have to choose between the two inevitably.

yes they both know each other, they live an hour outside where i live and go to the same school, and aww, its hard cuz really im grade 11 dating both a grade 9 and 10 girl, god so hard

Having 2 girlfriends does not work. Unless they don't mind dating someone that is with another, then it looks like you'll have to choose. Sorry.

 

Says me the woman..

agrees with her the woman..

Whoa man, that won't work.

You gotta choose one of them you can't have two...

No! That's called cheating! When both of them find out they will both dump you and probably slap you, maybe even pour strange chemicals on your head that burn in the sunlight. Scratch one or keep the other. Why you starting dating two in the first place is beyond me!

... How do I put this.... Well it won't work unless, like the others said. They believe like Paligamist. Also it is considered cheating if the do not. You will have to choose between them in the future. IDK man, alot of options...

That's not right at all. :// Eventually, they both WILL find out. They'll dump you, and both be pretty heart-broken. If the girl's feelings aren't enough, you'll still be marked a cheater, which is a definate turn off. You shouldn't be doing this to those girls--just think of how sad they'll be because you lied to them.

Unless you choose one quickly, they'll find out and BOTH will leave you. it's a BAD thing to do dat...

well thats the thing, the new one knows im dating the other cuz she hooked me up with her, and now well its a 1 relationship every one knows im in then the other is like a secret one between me and her with only you guys now know

still you've got to decide. it's nothing funny when the one that doesn't know anything finds out. she will have her feelings hurt and you might get slapped (and it's not a good thing). so to avoid any of that to happen you have to come clean and decide. it's a tough choice, I know, but you have to make it. unless you like hurting other people's feelings.

its just i been threw alot got dumped by my ex twice and pushed away from someone, and now this

Wait are you OFFICIALLY with both of them? Or do you just have feelings for them and hang out alot? I know that alot of people said I had a "Girlfriend" and she was just a friend I ALWAYS hung out with.

Why did you say guys only? Whenever someone does this it only makes the other gender read the thread anyway... Besides, the question can go for either gender.

 

Whether you're a male or a female, having two girlfriends/boyfriends is NOT a very good idea. If anything, you won't end up with either of them. They would both more than likely break up with you, so you'll end up alone. If you like the both of them, it may be really difficult for you to chose Nick, I'd suggest if you can't pick one over the other then at least break up with the both of them and not hurt them as worse as it could be if they were to find out you're cheating on the both of them. It may hurt to tell them both that you can't be with either of them, but honestly better to that then to keep going out with BOTH of them.

 

I would think hard though. Which one do you have stronger feelings for? Think about it though, the choice you make will be very difficult and one might take it differently than the other one.

all i can say is fair plate man nice two girls friends at once got to give up props

?_?... ^ That seems very ignorant of the girls' feelings towards him. D;

 

all i can say is fair plate man nice two girls friends at once got to give up props

 

Why are you congratulating them? Cheaters are what I refer to as infedelic heathens. Mostly because I like how the two words sound and they fit.

 

But no, it's not cool to have two girlfriends at once. It disgust me really, especially being the old fashioned person I am.

 

I'd probably be saying a lot of nasty things right now but I'm too tired to come up with something insulting but won't get me banned.

 

 

I don't know what to say, I think the poorly of the OP for dating two girls and as for one of the girls for being ok with it, not the brightest bulb on the Christmas tree.

 

Oh well, justice will come in due time, whether it's today or 30 years from now. Things will even out eventually oh yes they will.

all i can say is fair plate man nice two girls friends at once got to give up props

 

ewww, that's pretty bad if you really think that.....

And it is cheating if the one girl doesn't know you are dating the other, how would you feel if she cheated on you, pretty bad right, so don't do that to her, either break up with her, break up with the other girl, or break up with both, those are your only options in this situation....

:(:(:(:(yes im with both and i told the 1i felt like a 2 timer and i didnt want to be, and another thing i said i loved them both, but i love the one more its just srry for my language but my lifes firetrucked up.:(:(:( i get the good looking girls but i have to choose between the 2

Well chose the nicest, smartest and more beautiful girl dude.

Though I'm probably the last person who should be giving relationship advice, it's generally a pretty bad idea to have two girlfriends. Unless BOTH of them are already aware that you're dating someone else, you will have to choose.

 

So go with whoever you think you have a closer bond with, don't do something stupid like "Derp, which one is hotter?".

ok thanks everyone, ill put somethought into it and tell you guys when i choose

I'd strongly sugest thinking it over and fast. I've actaully been cheated on before and damn it hurts. You don't wanna put someone you care for though that.

 

And WTF to the dude that gave congrats to Nick? I hate to sound like a bitch, but don't you care for girls feelings? That's just cold dude...

I don't really have any advice for this, But You do have to choose someone having 2 relationships won't turn out well, and when you do decide let the one down easy, I hope all goes well for you.