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[Koko 3,944]

Hey guys, can we keep this for SERIOUS problems pls

[DarkAngle 17]

if any of you guy's need help, i can help just inbox me, pm me whatever it's called, or just comment back, i am here to listen and help ill do everything in my power to help, i am also a good listener, you're not alone.

[Majesticrose 2]

Hey uhm, I was looking through the personal threads and I found this. Now, I'm one to always give advice to others. I actually want to become a therapist. But today, I find myself being the one that needs help.

I'm actually kinda nervous to post it on here... I mean its online for everyone to see. I mean I would love to post it on here. To get feedback from as many people. But, do you guys think its safe to post personal info on here? I mean... I don't want it to get back to the people I know. I feel like i can't confide in any of my friends right now, and i really really need to let it out. I don't feel comfortable private messaging someone i don't know either. i would rather just post it on here, if you guys think its a good idea?

[Koko 3,944]

If you're worried about someone you know finding the information, then just message someone privately, that's really all you can do if you're that paranoid! Though to be honest, you shouldn't have any worries as long no one you know personally snoops through your accounts and what you post.

[4Everbee 1,365]

My friend Luan and I are fighting. (Once again.) I keep saying sorry over and over and over again it been 3-4 months now and he still hasn't reply.

I don't know if I should just wait longer or just give up.

[Koko 3,944]

My friend Luan and I are fighting. (Once again.) I keep saying sorry over and over and over again it been 3-4 months now and he still hasn't reply.

I don't know if I should just wait longer or just give up.

 

Depends on what you're fighting about? If it's over silly stuff, then I'd say not to let that destroy a friendship. But if it's serious, just let it go.

[Lady Aleister 1,677]

My life is so missed up. I am the middle oldest of three other sibilings. I have Celiac deasese and am 72 pounds at the age of 13. I am allergic to gluten and cannot eat certain things. My friends are all freakin lesbians and will not stop fallowing me. My boyfriend betrayed me and the bullies are after me again because they can't bug my boyfriend. They fallow me in the halls and call me twig and helpless. They pick on me because they THINK I cant do anything to them. People underestimate me. I DESPISE it. People also bug me because I have advanced vocabulary and my reflexes and heaing is a bit advanced.

[FireRubies1 1,325]

No, my mom thinks I'm fat. She comments about how much bigger I am compared to her and my sister. She makes me feel bad for eating anything at all.

And calories actually have a big role.

About two days ago, I only had 900 calories, without working out and in that day I did not get the recommended amount of nutrients.

Also, workout programs on TV tend to make it seem so easy and lie a lot.

I can't eat a big breakfast since I don't have time, I eat a small lunch and I either eat a teeny dinner or no dinner.

Working out excessively is just as bad as not eating enough too

Thanks for your input, I'm glad to know one person doesn't think I'm fat

 

I was just browsing and found this

It kinda gives me feels reading this and remembering how you are now.....

[FireRubies1 1,325]

So I started high school and I sort of hate everything there. I like doing the work for some reason. But I don't like everything else. I remember last year I was depressed from loving somebody too much... and now I can't seem to like people at all. I can't be comfortable in class because I can't feel like people are trustworthy anymore. And being in a place where I'm still in the closet to nearly everyone makes it uncomfortable for me to express myself. I need help finding friends right now . I dunno how I could get to know people

[Koko 3,944]

So I started high school and I sort of hate everything there. I like doing the work for some reason. But I don't like everything else. I remember last year I was depressed from loving somebody too much... and now I can't seem to like people at all. I can't be comfortable in class because I can't feel like people are trustworthy anymore. And being in a place where I'm still in the closet to nearly everyone makes it uncomfortable for me to express myself. I need help finding friends right now . I dunno how I could get to know peopler

 

I'm gonna sound like a hippie, but usually I go by vibes. If someone gives off a good vibe and seems nice, I usually try to talk to them casually (whether it's asking about something for a class or complimenting their clothes) and then just kind of building a friendship from there. That's how I go about making friends.

It's good to have friends, but if you don't feel comfortable then you don't have to imo??? Just kind of start talking to people, and if they rub you the wrong way then just tell them to firetruck off ??? Idk I have bad advice f or this

[kalnet 1,198]

So I started high school and I sort of hate everything there. I like doing the work for some reason. But I don't like everything else. I remember last year I was depressed from loving somebody too much... and now I can't seem to like people at all. I can't be comfortable in class because I can't feel like people are trustworthy anymore. And being in a place where I'm still in the closet to nearly everyone makes it uncomfortable for me to express myself. I need help finding friends right now . I dunno how I could get to know people

 

Things will come around for you soon enough. Be yourself as always and be comfortable with yourself first before being comfortable with people around you. Like what Koko said, have a good vibe. Try not to be shy around people or they won't approach you. Don't think too much and go with the flow. Don't force yourself to do things you don't really want. Face forward, be confident, smile, and always think that it is going to be a good day today.

[FireRubies1 1,325]

Gawrsh I'm stupid

Edited October 16, 2012 by FireRubies1

[FireRubies1 1,325]

So I notice that a lot of my posts weren't really problems... I guess.

I feel like a lot of them were from my wild imagination that was filled with all these 'if' circumstances.......

and I want to apologize for my stupid "problems"....

I feel like I wasted your time .___.

Edited October 16, 2012 by FireRubies1

[kalnet 1,198]

So I notice that a lot of my posts weren't really problems... I guess.

I feel like a lot of them were from my wild imagination that was filled with all these 'if' circumstances.......

and I want to apologize for my stupid "problems"....

I feel like I wasted your time .___.

 

Stupid or not, Just let it all out so you can feel better. No point on keeping it inside.