Hey, guys. I have been reading some personal problems that some of you guys post (I don’t need to say names, they all know who they are) and I have been thinking that I could do the same with a problem that’s going on in my life.

Okay, we all have some kind of rough situation that we are going trough. It’s part of life. But carry on…

 

(I am not going to use real names on this).

 

This situation has started a loooooooooooong time ago, but, of course, I am resuming this.

 

A girl named Sylvia (she is fifthteen) met a boy who is two years older than her (do the maths). His name is Andrew.

They were in love, but in those relationships that you know that it won’t last for long. I don’t know if they kinda understood that but me and my friends noticed right away.

 

They were happy, you could see it, but they were always have arguments over nothing and that ended up in break ups, although after 3 days they were always back to each other.

 

One very irrelevant thing for the story: He is veeeeery jealous. And when I mean very jealous, I mean that is a sick person of jealously.

 

Last week, after arguments and more arguments and break-ups, Sylvia had decided that this was the real end. He was being jealous again over a boy of our class that is her desk partner and also her best friend. He said that he was ‘going to f*ck all his face and bones’ (sorry for the bad vocabulary) and he was going to do his grave. She walked away from him and never said anything anymore. “It is over.”

 

Personally, I never really liked him. He didn’t inspire me trust or anything like that. He always seemed a bad guy to me (not that I judge people by his face or something, it was just… a feeling that I had). And I was not the only one who thought like that, indeed. Everybody of my class just felt this was going waaay to abnormal.

 

The next day, everyone was chatting happily in the bar of our school to trying to cheer up on her when, suddently, Andrew

appears. ‘Come with me’ he said. We all stopped to look at him. The silence was uncomfortable. He smirked and grabbed her by the arm with an enormous strength that she hissed in pain.

 

‘I am just going to have a private discussion with her.’ – Andrew affirmed.

 

‘Are you going to be okay?’ – Ricardo, one of my friends, asked looking at her.

 

She nodded and went away with her still grabbing her arm. He all looked at each other and felt very uneasy. We didn’t know what this guy had in mind after all.

 

10 minutes went by, 15, 25, 30… No sign of her. This was killing me.

 

‘I am going to look for her.’ – I blurted out.

‘Yeah, we better all go. It has been 30 minutes since she left. It’s taking too long for her return.’ – Flavio agreed and we all went looking for her.

>>It was a Friday afternoon and we all have free afternoon, so we usually stay in school until 4 p.m. when the others students are already at their homes.

 

We splited up in groups for it to be more easy to find her since the school still is quite big. I was with more three girls when we found them and the sight was not good at all. She was fallen in the ground holding on to her right cheek, crying. He yelled like an animal at her and grabbed her hair, like he wanted to rip it off. The next thing I knew, I was pushing him aside (I dunno how but I succeeded) and throwing him off of her.

 

‘Get. Off. The. Way.’ – he told us.

 

‘What are you doing, Andrew? You are not on your mind right now! Please, stop and breath deeply!’ – I said.

 

Sylvia was clenching at our arms and sobbing like hell. I didn’t move a muscle. I was not going to allow this guy beat her!! He smirked at us and cracked his fingers. He was adding towards us. I felt like all blood had drained off of my face and my heart stopped beating. HE WAS GONNA BEAT US!

 

Then, all the boys came shouting and running and I saw punches and kicks and… I was paralyzed with terror. I… Felt very useless back there… I didn’t anything, but what could have I done? If I tried to break the fight, I would be knocked out for sure.

 

The boys of my class were holding him by the arms and, that instant, a school worker found us. We all tried to calm down and the worker took us to the director. We explained the situation. Andrew got expelled for 2 weeks and Sylvia had to go to the hospital for treating some cuts he had done to her. He managed to hurt some boys of my class too but it was just bruises or little cuts.

 

Nobody was expecting him to come on Monday to school, however, he was waiting in the park, and two girls of my class that were going home by foot, got injured because of him. (Those two were the girls that along with me found Sylvia).

 

We have different time tables and it’s not everytime that we can go home together. That worries me since I go home by foot too. Luckily, or not, I didn’t go by foot that day.

 

Mind blow!! Seriously, sorry guys for all the trouble you had in reading this huge post. But, I guess, I needed to let this all out. It was stuck inside. I just wanna know now your opinion.

 

Thank you all. *signs*

Call the police, thats bullying, harassment, etc... Your school should be involving the police if he keeps hurting people.

 

And im sorry :c

Edited March 14, 201213 yr by Wolfgang

Call the police, thats bullying, harassment, etc... Your school should be involving the police if he keeps hurting people.

 

And im sorry :c

 

Yes. But the director have expelled him, like you read, and since he is out of school, the school says that 'He is out of school, we can't do anything."

 

Thank you. *w*

You don't need the schools permission to call police on him if he harasses people.. =/

Call the police, thats bullying, harassment, etc... Your school should be involving the police if he keeps hurting people.

 

And im sorry :c

 

I agree with Wolfgang. But this isn't bullying; it seems almost murderous, and definitely is classified as abuse.

 

I don't know what he did to the two other girls, so I can't judge if what he did to hurt was enough to charge him. An assault charge sounds good...

 

But I would check with someone with authority before making the next move. The girls he attacked might be able to get restraining orders, but I don't know about you because he technically didn't do anything to you. He might though, so be on your toes.

 

Don't walk home alone; have a parent or someone else drop you off. It may be inconvienient, but better safe than sorry.

 

I would tell your parents. They might have an idea what to do.

 

Good luck!

I agree with Wolfgang. But this isn't bullying; it seems almost murderous, and definitely is classified as abuse.

 

I don't know what he did to the two other girls, so I can't judge if what he did to hurt was enough to charge him. An assault charge sounds good...

 

But I would check with someone with authority before making the next move. The girls he attacked might be able to get restraining orders, but I don't know about you because he technically didn't do anything to you. He might though, so be on your toes.

 

Don't walk home alone; have a parent or someone else drop you off. It may be inconvienient, but better safe than sorry.

 

I would tell your parents. They might have an idea what to do.

 

Good luck!

 

Thank you! Made a much better point of what i was saying

You don't need the schools permission to call police on him if he harasses people.. =/

 

I know right. We actually make clear that we would call the police if he do more... I just don't know if he understood that.

My personal feeling is he doesn't deserve that warning. But i wish you the best of luck Marely, I hope everything works out =/

 

I agree with Wolfgang. But this isn't bullying; it seems almost murderous, and definitely is classified as abuse.

 

I don't know what he did to the two other girls, so I can't judge if what he did to hurt was enough to charge him. An assault charge sounds good...

 

But I would check with someone with authority before making the next move. The girls he attacked might be able to get restraining orders, but I don't know about you because he technically didn't do anything to you. He might though, so be on your toes.

 

Don't walk home alone; have a parent or someone else drop you off. It may be inconvienient, but better safe than sorry.

 

I would tell your parents. They might have an idea what to do.

 

Good luck!

 

My parents already know, but they're very busy to drop me or something. They insist, until the situation is over, that I take a cab. But I dunno. Still have to see if someone can drop me off like one of my friend's parents.

 

He might try tracking me down. The girls have bruises all over their bodies and, aparently, almost broke the arm of one girl.

 

If he makes any move again, the police will certanly hear from me.

 

Thank you. *w*

wow, that was a huge mind blow. i hope everything goes okay from here. I would've been like very stunned if i experienced that

wow, that was a huge mind blow. i hope everything goes okay from here. I would've been like very stunned if i experienced that

 

Thank you, Gumi. *w*

 

Yeah, it was kinda marking.

Hey no problems, You had to say what you wanted to say in order to let out all of those pent up emotions you had and maybe still have but that's not the point at the moment as this guy sounds like a scumbag if not a complete and utter one though im very glad by the fact that you didn't abandon your friend right then and there because if you did then you and your other friends would have be no better then that idiotic child so please allow me to say now that whenever you are online can you come and talk to me whenever you feel like it if you want to so you can get any problems bugging you off your chest and that i am proud if not very to call you my friend either in real life or on the computer online or both and that you can count on me to at least try and comfort in anyway possible that's both within my reach and power for this is my honest opinion if not very.

Hey no problems, You had to say what you wanted to say in order to let out all of those pent up emotions you had and maybe still have but that's not the point at the moment as this guy sounds like a scumbag if not a complete and utter one though im very glad by the fact that you didn't abandon your friend right then and there because if you did then you and your other friends would have be no better then that idiotic child so please allow me to say now that whenever you are online can you come and talk to me whenever you feel like it if you want to so you can get any problems bugging you off your chest and that i am proud if not very to call you my friend either in real life or on the computer online or both and that you can count on me to at least try and comfort in anyway possible that's both within my reach and power for this is my honest opinion if not very.

 

Thank you for the kind words. *w*

 

I'll keep them in mind.

Thank you for the kind words. *w*

 

I'll keep them in mind.

 

Hey im just glad to help, Being honest here :] and sorry if my words sound corny at all.

 

 

Hey im just glad to help, Being honest here :] and sorry if my words sound corny at all.

 

Don't worry about the talking.

 

Your honesty is very appreciated, thanks. *w*

Don't worry about the talking.

 

Your honesty is very appreciated, thanks. *w*

 

It's just that i won't say why but i have gone through enough problems to see others have their own problems so that's why i want to help them, So that only my problems can be left to be done.

 

 

It's just that i won't say why but i have gone through enough problems to see others have their own problems so that's why i want to help them, So that only my problems can be left to be done.

 

That's very kind.

 

But the others can help you too. Just open your heart to someone you trust and everything can be solved.

That's very kind.

 

But the others can help you too. Just open your heart to someone you trust and everything can be solved.

 

I know, Not all problems can be solved with friends but not all problems can be solved without friends either :].

 

 

I know, Not all problems can be solved with friends but not all problems can be solved without friends either :].

 

It's better to solve them with friends than anyone. =]

It's better to solve them with friends than anyone. =]

 

How true if not very :].

OMG! I'm so sorry that something like this happen to your friends and you. :'(

 

Marley like the others members have said you should call the police don't let something else happen.

 

BTW what you did there was very brave, I don't know what I would do in a situation like that.

 

Good Luck to you and your friends!

Edited March 14, 201213 yr by Luna☆

OMG! I'm so sorry that something like this happen to your friends and you. :'(

 

Marley like the others members have said you should call the police don't let something else happen.

 

BTW what you did there was very brave, I don't what I would do in a situation like that.

 

Good Luck to you and your friends!

 

Thank you, my dear!

 

I didn't think even thought, I just acted. It was kinda of impulse. Not braveness, I guess.

Thank you, my dear!

 

I didn't think even thought, I just acted. It was kinda of impulse. Not braveness, I guess.

 

Well I think you can consider that as brave.

wow, just wow. well it's good that you stood up to him though!

wow, just wow. well it's good that you stood up to him though!

 

It really is kinda of '*http://kh13.com/forum/public/style_emoticons/default/ohmy.png* How is there people like this in the world?'

 

Ah... Thank you? http://kh13.com/forum/public/style_emoticons/default/smiley-confuse.png

I wish I could have done something more...

It really is kinda of '* http://kh13.com/forum/public/style_emoticons/default/ohmy.png* How is there people like this in the world?'

 

Ah... Thank you? http://kh13.com/forum/public/style_emoticons/default/smiley-confuse.png

I wish I could have done something more...

 

you've done all you can for now Marley, i know how ya feel. Since he is expelled though you should be careful. People with that kind of mentality can only cause more harm.