okay there is this girl who likes me i used to like her but i don't anymore i don't want to reject her but i don't feel bad if i reject her because she rejected me before but now she likes me i don't know should i go out with her because i'm desperate but that's not cool or should i reject her and be a jerk please i need help guys since i don't have feelings anymore

Edited April 23, 201213 yr by verdesthe

Nicely state that your not looking for a relationship at the moment but you can remain friends.

 

Things change; if you like her then give it a chance

If not, then just politely end it now.

i say give going out with her a try, it might work out

okay there is this girl who likes me i used to like her but i don't anymore i don't want to reject her but i don't feel bad if i reject her because she rejected me before but now she likes me i don't know should i go out with her because i'm desperate but that's not cool or should i reject her and be a jerk please i need help guys since i don't have feelings anymore

 

If you honestly feel like the relationship can work, then you should go out with her. If you're dead set on not being with her tell her straight up that you're not interested, BUT DON'T BE A D**K ABOUT IT! Just politely tell her that you're not interested in her that way and that she better off with another guy. Be honest no matter how hard it may seem. Girls like honesty and she should respect your decision.

She clearly stated that she wasn't into you, and now she's into you? Tell her to move on.

Nicely state that your not looking for a relationship at the moment but you can remain friends.

 

Things change; if you like her then give it a chance

If not, then just politely end it now.

 

This.

 

She clearly stated that she wasn't into you, and now she's into you? Tell her to move on.

 

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Edited April 23, 201213 yr by 4Everbee

if you like her

go for it

if you don't, then say no

it's not that hard

I had a similar situation happen with one of my friends. She liked me, I liked her, we were together, she went after another guy, guy dumped her, she went back to me.

 

Go with what Wolfgang said. THAT IS THE BEST ANSWER.

 

Or do what I did and go after another girl because she abandoned you first.

Of course, now I hate her because she played mind games with me about which girls liked me and had me try to figure out which girl I liked the most.

And she claims I rejected her first.

thanks guys i figure out what to do tomorrow because i found it like she rejected me and then because i began to 'ignore her and that whenever she looked at me i looked coool and she wish she didn't do that but she told me to think about it" so i guess i'll figure out what to do ith your advice thanks everyone