uhhhhhh... well right now I have a crush on this girl at school but I don't know what to say to her. She's real nice and pretty and easy to talk to. She's also a Kingdom Hearts fan(although I'm pretty sure she doesn't have an account on here). I don't know why but for some reason I can't talk to her. I'm usually not nervous,sad,happy,or really any emotion whatsoever but now its like my voice just disappears into a cloud of smoke whenever I see her. So I really would appreciate any positive advice you have to offer. thx in advance.

Well for a situation like this, the best thing to do is clear up your thoughts. Even if you're thinking of something important, just whosh it away. I believe it should work. Just make sure your calm.

 

If that doesn't work....maybe consider writing notes rather than speaking?

And what? Read from the notes right in front of her while speaking to her? Just try to think of some quick question... I KNOW! Pretend your taking a survey...a schoolwide survey! Noticing the best video game in a poll! Go to her, ask her if she likes any of the following games, and if she says KH then W()()T! Bring up a conversation like "Oh KH huh? That's a cool game. Whos your favorite Organization member?" or something idk. Why am I even suggesting this? Idk about girls, never been to a school dance or had a girlfriend, hopefully someday will T_T

i know it may sound like a chicken's approach, but i asked my girlfriend out on facebook, so much easier. but when i noticed i got a message back i almost peed myself

 

but thats just me, if you don't like the chicken's way then listen to the other guys.

 

btw, sorage i want your sigs to marry me, what program to you use to make it again?

Looks like lots of people are faling in love these days. VIRTS, just try to be friends with her, them when your sure she likes you ask her out, it's simple, but never go at the first time and ask.That's just what I think, since I'm a girl.

heh..maybe. anyway thx for the advice guys.

i know it may sound like a chicken's approach, but i asked my girlfriend out on facebook, so much easier. but when i noticed i got a message back i almost peed myself

 

but thats just me, if you don't like the chicken's way then listen to the other guys.

 

btw, sorage i want your sigs to marry me, what program to you use to make it again?

 

Pivot. Look it up on google, free to download and use 100% it just has a few bugs in it.

Punch her in the baby. That's a sign of true love.

Oh yeah, sure is.:dodgy:

Punch her in the baby. That's a sign of true love.

 

uhh I think I'll pass Tumor, thx anyway not really

look i made thread about being nervous and i got great advice the title is "im scared"btw im going with her now because of it

So you did it Sora? Didn't take too long as I can see.

 

Punch her in the baby. That's a sign of true love.

 

uhh I think I'll pass Tumor, thx anyway not really

 

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look i made thread about being nervous and i got great advice the title is "im scared"btw im going with her now because of it

 

awesome dude. hope you guys enjoy your time as a couple.

i think yu should just tell her how yu feel.

Just talk with her and hang out, try talking about KH since she likes it too. And once you get to know here just ask her.

as much of a geeky KH fan I am, I have a few words to say (not that I've ever actually had a girlfriend *violin plays*)... speaking about KH is a good first basis but when talking to girls you have to try and talk to them about other stuff like good music or make them laugh. You can't base a friendship/relationship off one video game franchise (the greatest ever *cracks a whip*) I nearly got the girl I like to go to prom with me by being myself and hanging out with her, having a laugh and building up a friendship - but not tooooo deep a friendship as that's where you'll stay, FOREVER. Sadly she was taken but the confidence boost I got from trying was fantastic.

I hope I helped (even a bit =P)

Make a good luck charm like the one Kairi gave Sora in KH1. Put it in her locker if you feel so shy.

Success: I have finally asked her out today. She said yes!

Failure: After school I got jumped by her old boyfriend and his friends so my arm hurts now

At least she accepted, you knew that she had a boyfriend VIRTS?

actually no. Not until he said so before punching me in my stomach in the parking lot. He said something about her never going to get over him even though she dumped him and he and his friends tried to beat me up and I fought back. The fight ended after she showed up because he didn't want to make a "bad impression".

Saved y your new girlfriend? That's funny. Just kidding.