Ever since I just admitted to myself I was bi, I keep looking at guys like " Oh, nice", even at inopportune moments, like in a store or what not.I admit, it bothers me a little, because i'd love to date this guy who works at our local pet store, only a year older than me, but with the move, it'd be a waste of time. Same with girls: why bother, when I'd just move out from under them in a few months? And college starting means I'll probably meet someone...Basicly, this was just to let out some steam: if you read all this, thanks.Yeah, bye.

 

It's normal, man.

If you mean you're moving away to college in a bit where's the point, why not have some months of fun until you leave.  No one said every relationship should be treated as the one that'll lead to marriage

If you mean you're moving away to college in a bit where's the point, why not have some months of fun until you leave.  No one said every relationship should be treated as the one that'll lead to marriage

I'm moving to a different town 6 hours away in two months; I meant there wasn't really a reason to start a thing and crush someone like that. 

My advice, Have some fun while your young, I'm 26 (gay) never been in a relationship and I regret it. I mean I've had casual encounters with friends, but none where there were emotions involved or even where the other guy wasn't just experimenting. 

 

I would suggest having a couple of light I guess would be the word? Light relationships. Relationships where you go out have fun, have "fun" but aren't necessarily thinking about the future. You may get your heart broken, but it'll only make you stronger and better prepared for a long term relationship in the long run.

 

I get that you don't want to hurt anyone and respect that, but at the very least you should tell him how you feel. Hwo knows? He may not care that your moving soon, he may just want to be with you while he can. 

 

But, like I said, I have 0 experience in relationships so what do I know.

Edited February 9, 201411 yr by Isamu_Kuno

My advice, Have some fun while your young, I'm 26 (gay) never been in a relationship and I regret it. I mean I've had casual encounters with friends, but none where there were emotions involved or where the other guy wasn't just experimenting. 

 

I would suggest having a couple of light I guess would be the word? Light relationships. Relationships where you go out have fun, have "fun" but aren't necessarily thinking about the future. You may get your heart broken, but it'll only make you stronger and better prepared for a long term relationship in the long run.

Best advice ever, my friend. 

Fool. It could work out. I moved two states away for college, and my girlfriend and I are still together.

Fool. It could work out. I moved two states away for college, and my girlfriend and I are still together.

Then i'll ask him next time I see him.

im bi and i dont feel bothered by thinking that girls r attartive just dont feel bothered by it at all. its good to be bi because you're still deciding who is the one just be social try to make friends thats how relationships start. i hope i helped

im bi and i dont feel bothered by thinking that girls r attartive just dont feel bothered by it at all. its good to be bi because you're still deciding who is the one just be social try to make friends thats how relationships start. i hope i helped

you did.

Thanks.

I imagine it's hard to find a homosexual relationship considering that, naturally, the majority of the worlds population is heterosexual.

Don't think I'm homophobic because I said naturally, because most people being heterosexual is just the way the world works, considering the whole reproduction thing.

I imagine it's hard to find a homosexual relationship considering that, naturally, the majority of the worlds population is heterosexual.Don't think I'm homophobic because I said naturally, because most people being heterosexual is just the way the world works, considering the whole reproduction thing.

I'm not gay. 

I'm not gay.

dating another dude is a homosexual relationship, is it not?

dating another dude is a homosexual relationship, is it not?

I'm bi: look it up.

I'm bi: look it up.

I never said you weren't bi, I was saying that dating another dude is a homosexual relationship, which is a fact. Anyways, I'd make sure they were interested in guys before you asked them out.

honestly I've never had a relationship that's lasted for more than 2 months or so (currently I've been waiting for a girl for about 8 months ) I'd say you might as well give it a shot what have you got to lose? you're moving away anyways so go for it if it doesn't go the way you plan don't let it get you down, you'll find the right person

Well , good luck with the "dating problems" .