I've always thought that if I waited long enough, I would find love at the right time.  Yeah, that hasn't worked out, or has it?  I meet this one guy in one of my classes.  I really liked talking to him and looked forward to seeing him everyday.  I didn't think much of it until I had a dream that he was my very first kiss.  By that time, we weren't in any classes together, but I did see him every once in a while and I started wondering if I liked him.  The thing was, I could really see him as a boyfriend.  Then my friend started have boyfriend trouble (legal trouble) and I just let the whole idea go.  That was about 3 and a half years ago.  I'd never felt that way about a guy before and I've never felt that way since.  Now I'm kinda thinking he might have been the one and that I've totally missed my chance at love.  I still have his address and his phone number.  The people who I've talked to say that I shouldn't contact him, but I'm afraid that if I don't, I'm going to miss out.

I've always thought that if I waited long enough, I would find love at the right time.  Yeah, that hasn't worked out, or has it?  I meet this one guy in one of my classes.  I really liked talking to him and looked forward to seeing him everyday.  I didn't think much of it until I had a dream that he was my very first kiss.  By that time, we weren't in any classes together, but I did see him every once in a while and I started wondering if I liked him.  The thing was, I could really see him as a boyfriend.  Then my friend started have boyfriend trouble (legal trouble) and I just let the whole idea go.  That was about 3 and a half years ago.  I'd never felt that way about a guy before and I've never felt that way since.  Now I'm kinda thinking he might have been the one and that I've totally missed my chance at love.  I still have his address and his phone number.  The people who I've talked to say that I shouldn't contact him, but I'm afraid that if I don't, I'm going to miss out.

Do what you feel is right. Don't listen to your doubts. Call him, meet up with him and give it a shot. If it doesn't work out than it just wasn't meant to be. Though doing nothing will amount to nothing. If you do nothing you will forever live with regret, and anguish. There is nothing wrong in doing so.

Edited July 16, 201411 yr by Aang

You should contact him. This may sound clichè, but if your heart thinks hes the right one you should at least try. But also, if the people you've talked to are your friends maybe there's a reason they don't want you to contact him.

Ultimately it's your decision. But if you feel that that you really do love him, then I say go for it, If he decides to start talking to you again, then that's great, I hope you do start talking again if that's the case ^_^ 

I've always thought that if I waited long enough, I would find love at the right time.  Yeah, that hasn't worked out, or has it?  I meet this one guy in one of my classes.  I really liked talking to him and looked forward to seeing him everyday.  I didn't think much of it until I had a dream that he was my very first kiss.  By that time, we weren't in any classes together, but I did see him every once in a while and I started wondering if I liked him.  The thing was, I could really see him as a boyfriend.  Then my friend started have boyfriend trouble (legal trouble) and I just let the whole idea go.  That was about 3 and a half years ago.  I'd never felt that way about a guy before and I've never felt that way since.  Now I'm kinda thinking he might have been the one and that I've totally missed my chance at love.  I still have his address and his phone number.  The people who I've talked to say that I shouldn't contact him, but I'm afraid that if I don't, I'm going to miss out.

 

My tremendous intuitive sense of the female creature informs me that you are deeply troubled.

Yeah I think the others pretty much covered up what needed to be said, I am just posting to show I was here. Anyway, yeah, just follow your hea- *Chokes violently by cheap generic advice.* Just... do it if you feel like it's the correct path.

Well, in my opinion, it's better to do something your afraid of doing than not doing it and regretting it down the line.  When you find that one true love, you always think of that person, and you come to love that person deeply.  Since after all this time you still think of him, that means he's definitely the one.  Do what you think is right.  Do what your heart tells you.  Remember that life is short, so take your chances, because when your older, you might regret not having contacted him.  So go for it Joan!

Do NOT contact him . A life without special relationships is a life without responsibilities .

 

 

 

But , hey , it's clearly your choice .

Contact him, you have literally nothing to lose and a friend gets reintroduced into your life, maybe as something more. That said, when you do so you should talk to him for a bit and get a feel of how things are between you two. I wouldn't jump straight in and confess before you scare him away. 

 

It just doesn't make sense not to. Do it if you want to live a life with no regrets. 

Thanks guys.  I tried to contact him but I haven't heard back.  Oh well.  At least I tried.

omg do it girl!!! this is what life is all about take a risk shake up your life!!!!

if anything itll be a funny story to tell your friends years from now!!!

 

you said you havent contacted him in years right??

so like, if he doesnt wanna talk to you, then no loss really right??

 

getting hurt is a part of life, and unfortunately its the only way to achieving happiness 

 

unless you liek apples a lot like me

then buying an apple is all you need to do

 

HAHAHAA  GL SWEETIE

Edited July 18, 201411 yr by marukyu

Go for it!

You can do this. Just go for it .