Complicated sums it up: I really, really like my best friend (a guy, obviously, before anyone complains) and he lives right behind me, and we've been hanging out since we were five or six, and everytime we fought I brought him a peanut butter and jelly sandwhich and we made up. But now he's moving away and he and his sister don't know where to and there phone number's changing and their dad won't tell me. What do I do?

Aww. I thought it would be related to periods.

 

But why girls only? Guys can have nice input on these things too.

 

--- Anyways. Does he have an e-mail? Like his own personal one? You can use that to stay in touch. maybe even talk him into joining this site if you must. ;3 /shot

You can contact him through the internet, or give him your e-mail and tell him to write to you. You're like best friends after all, if he feels the same way, he'll try to stay in contact with you too hopefully. -- But just try your best. Or even ask your friend to learn his address once they get there and send you a letter.

 

What Kaiso said Me too D8

 

Just try anyway to keep in touch -w- He is your best friend after all.

maybe you should try telling him your feelings for him :'o you never know, he might feel the same way.

 

why would his dad not want to give you his phone number...o_o? that's pretty mean of him D:

 

you should try doing what kaiso said :'3 hopefully, he has email. or maybe he can secretly get his phone number for you.

 

i wish you the best <3

Here's a classic way: How about you send actual letter's back in forth? Thats a fun way to do things. Or you can just email him. I hope things work out for you <3

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tbh, with problems like this you're generally better asking a boy, we know about boys

 

either you friend and/or their dad doesn't like you.

 

if it's your friend, just do what you usually do with him and ask a few times subtly

 

if it's their dad, you're screwed, try to see if one of his other friends knows his new adress/number

Really you have to learn, if it says Girls Only we come running lol.

 

Is their Dad in the army? Is it Work related? Why dont you ask their Mum?

Kinda weird that the dad is not saying much, but you need to ask a guy or a close friend of theirs what the number is changing to and also ask him his email address, online contact information, before he goes away. Just tell the guy or his sister if you can, that you care for them and just want to keep in touch when they move away. D;

Really you have to learn, if it says Girls Only we come running lol.

 

Is their Dad in the army? Is it Work related? Why dont you ask their Mum?

 

Their dad doesn't like me because, get this, I'm not apparently what he expects "of an almost-thirteen-year-old girl". Seriously, what's wrong with shorts and spaghetti straps? He was fine with me when I was six! Anyway, their mom gave up all rights to them when they were born. (twins), and he doesn't have an e-mail. His dad won't let him call me anymore, even though he hasn't moved yet. Like I said: complicated! And, to top it off, I'm too much of a wimp to tell him I like him with his dad standing right there. I think he likes me too, but I'm not sure if it's just a best-friend-kind of like, or bf-gf kind of like.

ask your friend or maybe email

d'aww i know how it feels to not be able to tell the guy you like your feelings for him...

 

hm. well, try practicing maybe? or like...just breath in a lot when you try to tell him and don't freak out. think of maybe the happy outcomes you two will have instead of the bad things. (which i doubt there will be bad things).

d'aww i know how it feels to not be able to tell the guy you like your feelings for him...

 

hm. well, try practicing maybe? or like...just breath in a lot when you try to tell him and don't freak out. think of maybe the happy outcomes you two will have instead of the bad things. (which i doubt there will be bad things).

 

THANK YOU JENY!!!!!! I went to his house and, okay, I only practiced a little because I was so nervous/excited. He said he liked me too! And then he said he'd make an e-mail account and hide it from his dad. Then he said he'd make the subject title THEBOURNEULTMATUMOPERATIONE-MAIL so i didn't delete it. I thought he might tell me he didn't like me or walk away or something. I'm so happy! Then his dad came and made me go back home, but that doesn't spoil it! THANK YOU!!!!!

Well that's great that he likes you and you'll be able to keep in touch

(Yes, Ivan is a girl, despite the constant fact she mostly refers to herself in male pronouns because of the masculine voice in her head, so she can post on here >D)

Yaaay, I'm happy everything worked out for you ^-^. The last few days have been a downer, so it brings a smile to my face to hear good news : ). I just wish I had some sunflowers to hand out

(because you know everyone loves sunflowers~)

THANK YOU JENY!!!!!! I went to his house and, okay, I only practiced a little because I was so nervous/excited. He said he liked me too! And then he said he'd make an e-mail account and hide it from his dad. Then he said he'd make the subject title THEBOURNEULTMATUMOPERATIONE-MAIL so i didn't delete it. I thought he might tell me he didn't like me or walk away or something. I'm so happy! Then his dad came and made me go back home, but that doesn't spoil it! THANK YOU!!!!!

 

that is amazing news <33! i'm so glad everything worked out the way you wanted x3!

 

does that mean you two are an item now, haha? that is so cute <33

Got the e-mail! Yaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay! Thanks everyone.