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And she is dependent....

FKEFHJEFHJKE

Is he a druggie or alcoholic?

He's got the account that her savings are going in

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Which would be for a house

......

Talk about control

So, she earns money of her own, yes?

Yes

But he controls that as well?

She's a teacher

W—

I'm not sure how it works exactly

But, he sounds controlling

Co-sign
Two names on an account

A bit like what spouses do

There ya go..

She also thinks he might be bipolar because his mother was

It's like a trust test.

Bad idea before marriage, though

Medication?

Well there's no medication

It's just an inkling

Unfortunately

....

A sign he probably would be someone that would be put on medication

You know he sounds like the type of guy who’d say

“Not all men!”

Just sayin...

Keyword: Guy

Not acting like a real man

Ugh this is a horrible situation

So far only my 2 other sisters and myself know

M doesn't want our mum to find out for some reason

My mum is smart though, she can tell very quickly is something is wrong