So, I am 18 and there is this 15 year old girl who is/was trying to screw up my life. Well, here is the deal. She started to talk bad about me at her birthday party to MY friends about how I seem "awkward, unsocial, and ect." the thing is, she doesn't even know me really. I am quiet at school because all the preppy bitches (the ones who are rude) and jocks are not NICE people to talk to or befriend because they talk so bad about people and get drunk and have sex like every weekend and I am not like that at all. I have friends outside of school. Anywho, this girl has thought she has been pregnant twice this year and tells EVERYONE about it. Well, even her friends are gettin sick of it... I did not want to invite her to go bowling because she is really not my friend and she talks bad about people. So I asked my two friends to go bowling and the crazy girl sends me a text today saying "Are you seriously going to the bowling alley tonight?" and I am like "Yeah, so what if I am?" and then we get into dumb fight and then she begins to insult me and say to me things like "At least I don't have friends who pretend they are my friends and then they joke about me and mimic my nervous habit ans etd" I have a nervous habit where I rub my hands against my knees but I have not done that in years. and I said "At least I am not a shady 15 year old who cannot take care of herself and thinks she is pregnant two times in a row in one year". I cannot trust anyone at my school. It is quiet sad and I don't care anymore about that crap. I am finished being pushed around by people and hearing cruel things. There are so many backstabbers in my town and my school. I am just going to keep to myself, my family, my boyfriend, and close friends.

 

So, is anyone else dealing with drama and what not? Maybe this can turn into an advice thread or something. If this is in the wrong place then please move the topic where it best suits its category.

 

EDIT: oh yeah, the girl and I are never going to be friends. No one should associate themselves with selfish younger teens, especially the ones who talk behind your back. It is not a good outcome.

School starts in two days......

And of course there's going to be useless drama, which I tend to ignore most of the time.

Of course, I'd rather not express my dramas online. Never do anything online you wouldn't do in real life, I guess. :

 

Wait..if you hate that girl so much..then why does she have your number?? o.O

woah...that was kinda an overload...but i know people who are like that.

Hey, I know! We should make our own school that's just the people on kh13! That would be so awesome!

what? like kingdom academy? oh and i hear you cricket. thank god i live in california where if someone is talking about you you cant understand what theyre saying (spanish joke).

Cali rocks!!! The olny drama now are the idiots at my school...Most of the boys who aren't my friends tend to call me names.And by names,I mean King Kong or Victoria's Secret.They'll say something dumb like"Hey Victoria,I know your secret." or whisper "King Kong".

 

Last year I had to talk with our old vice prez,Mr.Jenkins.These boys were constantly making fun of me and my friend Jeni.(She changed her name in 6th grade because kids were making fun of her.That's another reason we're best friends.Her old name was Virginia.)

 

Now it's getting worse,b/c my brother is now enrolled at my school,and I'm afraid they'll make fun of him.I'm really tired of having to listen to them.....Any ideas?

Wait..if you hate that girl so much..then why does she have your number?? o.O

 

...why DOES she have your number?

and i pretty much agree with you

though i bearly started high school a week ago

it's pretty dramatic

it's annoying

and it's even more annoying to see stupid kids picking on other kids.

@tori

well...just like keep ignoring them

they'll see that you and your brother and your friend don't care about what they say and they'll have to stop sooner or later

unless they REALLY like picking on you and they'll never stop

then that'll just be plain stupid....

anyway hope my advice helps you X3

i know how you guys feel sadly X3

How does she have your number? Is she a stalker?

 

And why is a 15 year old picking on you if you're 18? You've got to stand up and tell her what's for! Tell her that you are sick of her and why she's even picking on you in the first place! And "Because you're a loser" or anything of the sort doesn't count.

 

Pregnant two times in a row? Oh, gawd. How sick. She's 15 and she actually thought she was pregnant? Seriously. She needs to GET A LIFE that doesn't involve any of that crap.

 

And so what if you're "unsocial?" So am I, according to my mother. She thinks I'm "unsocial" but I'm just shy. It's kinda sad that my own mother doesn't even know me at all...

 

But yeah, there's nothing wrong with being "anti-social." We don't talk to a lot of people. That's bad...? If she weren't so social, she wouldn't think she was pregnant twice, now would she?

 

Don't let her get to you. If there are any problems, you should post them up here. Talking about them where people will listen will get all your anger out. We're all here for you.

man epic helper status for the win Lee!

dude-then keep her out of ur life.dont invite her to parties or sleep-overs or stuff like that.then well see whose the "unsocial" one .

man epic helper status for the win Lee!

 

Hehe thanks! I just hope it helps Cricket.

Thank you jenyflo,your advice just might work. And cricket,you don't have to put up with that chick anymore.I say just try to ignore her and delete her number.Seriously,why does she have your number? Nevermind but thanks for listening to my tale too.

She got my number from me about a year ago. I don't know why I gave it to her, maybe because she seemed a bit nice back then? We never really communicated though. And all of you are right about how she can't pick on me, because she is immature and whatnot. I am not gonna put up with her anymore and there is no reason why I should hang out with her and she is younger than me.

Awesome, Cricket! Just let it all go and pretend it all never happened! Be the bigger person!

your welcome tori ^^

everything that lee said...

is the best explanation ever X3

we all know how you feel and yeah you're right cricket

about not paying attention to some 15 year old while you're like 3 years older than her

that's what kh people are here for <3

Exactly! KH people help one another! Not just with video games and whatnot, but with any problem!

 

We're our own Organization! You mess with one of us, you mess with all of us!

amen,bro.Well spoken.

I'm just saying...we are all friends here. All my friends go to me for advice (I'm the advice friend throughout my whole grade) and I tell them what I think they should do.

 

So I'm just giving advice and saying what I think is right. Let her get to you or ignore her and live life to the fullest. It's the simplest choice.

 

We're always here for you, Cricket. KH13 friends are here forever!

All of you are so nice!!!! :] Thanks for listening to my problem. She turned one of my friends against me but oh well, that's life and she must have not been a good friend if she turned against me. Just people don't let drama run your life! D: D:

D: I feel so sorry for you Cricket. <3

Some girls can be flat out bitches, especially if they're in high school. I don't know how to explain it. It's like some girls have this idea in their head to act like that (okay well..SOME guys sometimes tend to be bitchy too.. I just see a bunch of girls mostly hereO-o ), and sometimes they don't even realize what they're causing. Sometimes it comes back to bite them in the ass.

I've watched my sisters go through crap throughout high school, and sadly that's caused me to have a few friendships lost (especially last year o.o oh my god that was insane.) , but I just walk away from anyone, who tries to do shit to me most of the time. It's just my nature. I don't have time to pick silly fights with people, unless they keep asking for it, then I'll unleash my fury. q:

But really in all honesty, my view on it is the people in high school you're friends with, unless they're super close and a true friend, the chances of you seeing them on a normal "friendship" basis after high school is rare (usually for girls than guys... sort of thing if that makes sense. ). My sister's basically lost most of their high school friends and have college friends now. The sad thing is I can tell who I'll still be friends with in college. /shot

 

But yeah, high school's a bitch, and it's fun at the exact same time. You just gotta live through it, and try to make the best out of things. If some turns against you, they're probably not that great of a friend. I would try hanging out with other people for a while. Maybe they'll turn out to be great friends. x3 <3

 

But this is all just my opinion.

O-o If I don't make any sense at all... meh. I fail then.