Im big-bone so im not like the really preety girls from shows and video games. Hey ill prabibly never have a boyfriend in my life. I have been called fat and ugly. And i just got used to it. i dont do the cool flips and tricks and the monkey bars like normal kids do. i cant jump high cause i might hurt my anckles (i have really weak anckles that i sprained 3 times in my life) i cant wear awesome bathing suits like the normal girls wear. Every girl in every movie or show or videogame is preety and dresses in shorts. Last year boys were saying "Hey! theres your girlfriend1' and the other boys would say "Hell no!" im even made fun of kids that are younger than me. im a people pleaser (picked it up from my mom) and kids ask for my food and i cant help but say fine. I love to climb but i cant without some boy making fun of me when i do climp some rock or something. People would be shocked if i do a flip or something (even though im too much of a wuss when i do one) I cant go wear the cool shorts or skirts. Its like i have a life uniform: Long baggy pants and a long baggy shirt. Everyone runs faster than me and i cant even go outside in caprise with out someone looking at me in a funny way or just me feelling embarressed. I want to cosplay so bad but i fell like i have to be diffrent. If i cosplay i would prabibly only be good as a Pence.And bacicly to own a facebook i have to be a certain "requirement" that way i wont be a target of ridicule for the next 5 years of my life. People treat me like im a diffrent sort of species. Its like discrimination almost. I wish i dont have to feel embarresed by wearing a dress. I dont starve myself but as soon as i say im not hungry i get a lecture about how i dont have to starve myself and to eat healty and other crap.

First of all, dont get used to those comments, in my own experience, it was my first mistake. It makes you blind. Is like when someone abuses of you and you get used to it. Thats not right. Second, show them all that you dont care about what they say. You have to respect you first, respect your body, your human being.How you want to be respected if even yourself feel embarrased of your body? My third piece of advice, show them the beautiful person that is inside you.Dont let all those comments affect you. Surely all those who make fun of you are inmature persons that think they are all perfect. Fourth, speak to someone about this. Fifth, try to change you habits, I mean, try to loss some weight. This have two functions: people will see that you care about yourself and people will also see that you are capable of doing whatever you propose.

 

Sorry, but I feel very angry when reading this because this was also my situation.

 

If it makes you feel better, as far as I know you, I would be glad to be your friend.=D

"this is just stupid" Yes. Yes, it is.

I've never experienced this, but I know I would never want for anyone to go through it. I am very sorry and don't let those bullies bother you. Bullies are insecure themselves, and they take it out on others. Unfortunately, I can't stop them, even though I wish I could....but, I just make sure not to hurt anyone's feelings....that is the most any of us can do. That, and hope and pray others don't go through that. It's a shame how cruel the world can be...

I was in the same boat as you, although I didn't exactly buy the same ticket. (Going on boat metaphors here.)

 

I'm kinda heavy, although my height kinda evens me out. My problem was I was just socially withdrawn. I changed schools every year until high school and had no idea how to really make friends, not to mention that's a VERY bad time to be insecure and quiet. Honestly, I found a group of people who I liked and clung to them. I found comfort in what they had to say to me and shut out everyone else. I'm still no good around people. (It's hard to make friends in college...) But the people I do meet, whether they're in my classes or just here online, they're what help me along.

 

The morale of the story is: screw those guys. Listen to your friends, and your heart. As long as you have those, you're untouchable.

 

(... Hey, I dropped the boat metaphors...)

the elementry years are spent complaining when one is picked one, Well If you want it to get better you should do more activities to keep you more active and to show them you are active, and another thing to do is ignore what they say words may come out of there mouths but physical pain is felt when one falls or stumbles.

My advice is to ignore them and not care what they say. Don't let them control ur life! I used to get bullied for being light(only 70 pounds) and ppl would say that I was anarecsic and I was like "who cares wat u think I like my body the way it is!" And now I don't get bullied anymore!

 

Ps if u need a friend I'm here for ya!

Im big-bone so im not like the really preety girls from shows and video games. Hey ill prabibly never have a boyfriend in my life. I have been called fat and ugly. And i just got used to it. i dont do the cool flips and tricks and the monkey bars like normal kids do. i cant jump high cause i might hurt my anckles (i have really weak anckles that i sprained 3 times in my life) i cant wear awesome bathing suits like the normal girls wear. Every girl in every movie or show or videogame is preety and dresses in shorts. Last year boys were saying "Hey! theres your girlfriend1' and the other boys would say "Hell no!" im even made fun of kids that are younger than me. im a people pleaser (picked it up from my mom) and kids ask for my food and i cant help but say fine. I love to climb but i cant without some boy making fun of me when i do climp some rock or something. People would be shocked if i do a flip or something (even though im too much of a wuss when i do one) I cant go wear the cool shorts or skirts. Its like i have a life uniform: Long baggy pants and a long baggy shirt. Everyone runs faster than me and i cant even go outside in caprise with out someone looking at me in a funny way or just me feelling embarressed. I want to cosplay so bad but i fell like i have to be diffrent. If i cosplay i would prabibly only be good as a Pence.And bacicly to own a facebook i have to be a certain "requirement" that way i wont be a target of ridicule for the next 5 years of my life. People treat me like im a diffrent sort of species. Its like discrimination almost. I wish i dont have to feel embarresed by wearing a dress. I dont starve myself but as soon as i say im not hungry i get a lecture about how i dont have to starve myself and to eat healty and other crap.

 

You're not Ugly. Just be yourself, one day somebody will love you just for being you. Ignore your peers, as hard as it may be you have to keep in mind that they are arrogant little snots.

thanks everyone

thanks everyone

 

Yw

This is kinda what happened to me with the weight thing but, it is a little different because I am a guy so it's a little different. I cared about the people who didn't like me. It gave me warped since of the world. The best thing I could say is find kids who are big like you a cling to them. And like the rest said ignore them. Easier said than done right. I lost a TON of weight and I became a snob. But then I gained it all back. Then I lost the people I wanted to be again. It's not worth being their friendship.

f the haters aqua who cares what they say and live your life the way you want its your life not thiers and just flick thme off if they make fun of you