I feel so lonely, and let down. I thought he was here for me but he's not....and its making me have panic attacks. Please someone, anyone help me.

 

ok my boyfriend said he loved me and i belived him for the second time and then he hurt me recently. That's what i mean when i say the stuff at the top. :blink:

"The first time someone shows you who they are, believe them."

— Maya Angelou

 

In other words: don't waste your time and energy on people who are not worth it. I know, easier said than done, but it's really the only thing you can do.

ok i know exactly what your going through my ex has had the same problem and still have the same problem with this asshole ex of hers one minute hes all i love you ill never hurt you than bam hes being all controling and hurting her he even slapped her once and that just dont fly with me. i know someone whos going through what your going through and i try to help her but idk if it helps at all and if you need someone ill be happy to help

I feel so lonely, and let down. I thought he was here for me but he's not....and its making me have panic attacks. Please someone, anyone help me.

 

ok my boyfriend said he loved me and i belived him for the second time and then he hurt me recently. That's what i mean when i say the stuff at the top. :blink:

 

All I can say is, if you love someone, you must remember there is a fine line between love and hurt, and it can swap over at the drop of a hat sometimes. In other words, to love someone is to put yourself in a vulnerable position, where you have a greater chance to get hurt. Likewise if someone loves you, you also have a greater chance of hurting them.

You should never expect one without any of the other. Never.

 

so why do people do it?

 

Because loving and hurting is part of being alive. If you focus on the good parts, the parts that made you richer and stronger as a person, then the hurt does not matter. Everything changes and eventually ends and so it is important to make the most of what happens and also make your mark on the world. Even if you get betrayed or hurt; yeah it sucks, but it's better to feel that, and feel the good parts that come with it, then it is to never feel anything.

 

And you shouldn't worry about things too much, because you are still young, and there will be many more adventures for you to come.

ok i know exactly what your going through my ex has had the same problem and still have the same problem with this asshole ex of hers one minute hes all i love you ill never hurt you than bam hes being all controling and hurting her he even slapped her once and that just dont fly with me. i know someone whos going through what your going through and i try to help her but idk if it helps at all and if you need someone ill be happy to help

 

Thank you

Your friends are here for you

trust me, i know how you feel. i feel that way often, just take things one step at a time and deal with who you can and discard who is not worth it.

fool. I'm here. I love everybody.

fool. I'm here. I love everybody.

 

U love me?

I'll keep it simple. just let out feelings and talk to your friends about your problems. panic attacks won't solve anything. fight it out. being lonely just because of one guy sounds ridiculous. Don't keep things to yourself and let it out.

I know how that's like...

And a bit worse, in my opinion.

We're all here for you!

 

ok my boyfriend said he loved me and i belived him for the second time and then he hurt me recently. That's what i mean when i say the stuff at the top. :blink:

 

If he did that over and over that means it's incurable, just break up with him

 

 

I feel so lonely, and let down. I thought he was here for me but he's not....and its making me have panic attacks. Please someone, anyone help me.

Hang out with your other friends, he's not the only person in this world

U love me?

 

fool. Yes

All youre friends are here to comfort you so dont feel lonely, Okay? love ya