I'm going through a bad part of life, which is very disturbing to me, puberty.

It's seriously annoying. I get random voice cracks, I can't sing anymore like used to, and some things are just plain DISTURBING.

My sister keeps commenting on things like masturbation because she knows it makes me feel akward and I never want to talk about these things, especially with someone like HER, who'd probably use these things to mock me for ever.

This whole thing is annoying. Also, when people mock or joke about gays I just feel bad, because I really haven't told anyone in real life yet that I'm Bisexual.

I just go "haha" and get very offended.

Also a bunch of bad things have been happening to me. vacation ends in 3 days and all.

I've been extremely bad lately.

Unrelated to the topic: How can I be good at something when I never get a chance to try it out? I miss all opportunities and stuff.

just needed to rant about that...

 

I'm going through a bad part of life, which is very disturbing to me, puberty.

 

It's seriously annoying. I get random voice cracks, I can't sing anymore like used to, and some things are just plain DISTURBING.

 

My sister keeps commenting on things like masturbation because she knows it makes me feel akward and I never want to talk about these things, especially with someone like HER, who'd probably use these things to mock me for ever.

 

This whole thing is annoying. Also, when people mock or joke about gays I just feel bad, because I really haven't told anyone in real life yet that I'm Bisexual.

 

I just go "haha" and get very offended.

 

Also a bunch of bad things have been happening to me. vacation ends in 3 days and all.

 

I've been extremely bad lately.

 

Unrelated to the topic: How can I be good at something when I never get a chance to try it out? I miss all opportunities and stuff.

 

just needed to rant about that...

 

 

Slurs and Bigotry are a part of the world we live in. It is unfortunate, but you shouldn't let it get to you. Stand tall and be proud of who you are. On your unrelated note, some times you just need to stick your foot in the door. Try to not stand on the outskirts while everyone else piles in line, be the first one in line. Im speaking metaphorically of course. I hope i helped as I am not at all clear on everything your going through.

That voice cracking happened to me as well, and people mocked me for that.

And about your sister's mocking, just ignore it, she'll give up.

This bisexual thing, you have to wait for the best moment for them to know. Because if you do the same as my friend did (he said that on Facebook), everyone mocked him the day after he said that he was bisexual.

Voice cracking is unfortunate and there's nothing that can be done about it. It should go away soon, within a few months at the most.

Sister, I'm presuming older, is just trying to push your buttons. Act like you don't care about what she's saying. Joke with her if you can, once the fun's taken out it she'll probably stop.

Bisexuality. People do make fun of gays, apparently. To be honest, I haven't met with too much abuse, thankfully. But, just let it wash over you or if you can't do that. Tell the people to stop. But do it carefully, if you don't want people to know your orientation.

Welcome to Puberty Part 1!

 

As for everything else just go with it. Don't get offended by harmless jokes.

Well, all I can say is that the pain of puberty does not last forever. (Thank goodness.) Eventually you're voice will even back out again. It won't sound the way it used to, but it won't crack and I'm sure you'll be able to sing just as well. (: Being one myself, your sister is just trying to annoy you. Just try to ignore her the best you can for now--if she can't get any kind of reaction out of you, then she'll get bored and eventually let it go.

 

You don't have to tell anyone that you're bisexual, but if their jokes bother you, you can tell them that. My friends used to make crude jokes around me, and thought everything was alright. I let them know that it upset me, and now they only say those jokes in private, and have real discussions with me. Just tell them that it bothers you--gay jokes bother me, too, but I'm not gay. If they're really your friends they'll help you out. (:

Thanks guys, It will take a while for me to get used to this http://kh13.com/forum/public/style_emoticons/default/ohmy.png

Puberty is awful, but it'll be over soon enough.

 

About the biseuxal thing, I can definitely sympathize. Homophobic families are the bestt. [/sarcasm] Best thing you can do is just try and shrug them off for now and not think too hard about it.

 

And if there's stuff you want to try out, then just do it~ Plan ahead and try to fit them into your schedule.