Hey guys do you think it is bullying if your friend says somthing to you (but not indirect but he was implying it) and you get offended should i be upset idk i feel anxiety though! HELP! And yes he was trying to get on my nerves

Maybe you should talk to your friend, and tell him that he said something that offended you.. And tell him to lay off, a true friend would do that.

You're kidding me right?

That's not bullying. That's bothering.

Sounds like trolling to me. Idk talk to him

If it bothers you tell him it isn't okay and not to do it again, simple.

Maybe you should talk to your friend, and tell him that he said something that offended you.. And tell him to lay off, a true friend would do that.

 

yeah but in my school your a "Pussy" if you do that.

 

You're kidding me right?

That's not bullying. That's bothering.

 

your right i guess but hey im still offended and infront of the whole class noless but then again no one knew it was me he was talking about

yeah but in my school your a "Pussy" if you do that.

 

who cares, if it bothers you, you have every right to stand up yourself

i don't see what's so weak about standing up for yourself

who cares, if it bothers you, you have every right to stand up yourself

i don't see what's so weak about standing up for yourself

 

What the boss said, If people think your a pussy, show them you got some balls to defend yourself

 

If it bothers you that much, then talk with your friend about it. If he doesn't stop then its bullying. Who cares if its called being a "pussy" if you do that. Wouldn't it being it called a "pussy" for not standing up for your self and letting your self taking the heat of your friend? I am not here to insult you btw. Just talk to him, if he says sorry or in some way shape or form tells you that he wont do it again, then good. But why exactly would he say that?

 

If it bothers you that much, then talk with your friend about it. If he doesn't stop then its bullying. Who cares if its called being a "pussy" if you do that. Wouldn't it being it called a "pussy" for not standing up for your self and letting your self taking the heat of your friend? I am not here to insult you btw. Just talk to him, if he says sorry or in some way shape or form tells you that he wont do it again, then good. But why exactly would he say that?

 

Yeah im texting him now and settling it and dont you think its sad i cant be myself in school i gotta fit in too. thank god for this website or else i couldnt express myself and trust me i dont act like this all the time its just that when ever i get hurt i bottle it up (being a teenage boy).

yeah but in my school your a "Pussy" if you do that.

 

Oh don't tell me it's this I-need-to-be-cool stunt.

 

Just grow a set, and stand up to him, like a champ. Look him in the eyes and say, "Hey. Guess what? Shut up."

 

Frankly, I wish this wasn't this vague, because we can't exactly help you. I personally want more than just my friend offended me.

Yeah im texting him now and settling it and dont you think its sad i cant be myself in school i gotta fit in too. thank god for this website or else i couldnt express myself and trust me i dont act like this all the time its just that when ever i get hurt i bottle it up (being a teenage boy).

 

I think it should be face to face...but alright.

You should be who you want to be, if its for the greater good that you need to fit in then go ahead. No need to hide your true self from others.

Oh don't tell me it's this I-need-to-be-cool stunt.

 

Just grow a set, and stand up to him, like a champ. Look him in the eyes and say, "Hey. Guess what? Shut up."

 

Frankly, I wish this wasn't this vague, because we can't exactly help you. I personally want more than just my friend offended me.

 

How is my parents are divorced (miss my dad alot), i got bullyied alot in elemtry school (phycological damage) and on top of that i had a shitty day?

How is my parents are divorced (miss my dad alot), i got bullyied alot in elemtry school (phycological damage) and on top of that i had a shitty day?

 

You can't let things like that be your excuse forever

One day you need to stand up for yourself and learn to look past that.

I'm on a similar boat as you, and I've never been happier since the day I decided not to take shit anymore and not let my past affect my present.

So don't use excuses, just stand up for yourself, if someone pisses you off or offends you or attacks you, you have every freaking right to tell them to stop.

How is my parents are divorced (miss my dad alot), i got bullyied alot in elemtry school (phycological damage) and on top of that i had a shitty day?

 

Ok, well your parents divorced has nothing to really do with this, so sorry for that? That's not really what I meant with vagueness.

 

I don't mean to be a douche, but bullying can stop you know. Just got to stand up and do what's right.

 

I have a shitty day every day. Welcome to my world. Have fun in it.

For something to be bullying it has to occur more than once.

How is my parents are divorced (miss my dad alot), i got bullyied alot in elemtry school (phycological damage) and on top of that i had a shitty day?

 

Im sorry to hear that...but what does that have to do with bullying? That does not mean your supposed to not fight for yourself just because of a shitty day you had. You must atleast have some dignity left in you to stop it. I agree with Koko and Tom. I had many shitty days as well, either I ignored it or I just fought it. And trust me fighting it is way better.