Posted March 31, 201213 yr I would NEVER ask for help with my baby sis. But I don't know what to do. She don't eat. She eats like what once a day and she gets mad and beats me up. Everybody yells at her to eat but she don't! I try telling her to eat but she don't want to. She gets mad when she don't eat and she yells and makes everybody's day hell. Now my mom and dad left for a few days so we're staying at my grandma and grandpa's Now she crying cause she not with mom. She always does this when she not with mom, I mean ALWAYS! And she won't stop and I don 't know what to do. I try calming her down but she always start yelling and then I have to leave the room. And she only TEN! TEN YEARS OLD!!! I really really need help with her! Helpppppppp
March 31, 201213 yr Ok, Uncle Dolan is here to save the day. First: You give her the daily anal pills I will be sending you (btw, pm me yo address so I can send dem) Second: She will learn to obey Uncl-I mean you and everything should be ok. Hope this helps.
March 31, 201213 yr Maybe that's just it, she feels depressed because she isn't with her mom. Yelling at her will only make her feel worse. She won't starve herself, she's 10, she probably knows better than that. She'll eat when she's hungry, the more you force her the more upset she'll get, which might lead to her throwing up the only items left in her stomach. I only say this because this has happened to my brother, and sort of to me(not as bad, I was just way too upset to eat.).
March 31, 201213 yr Author Maybe that's just it, she feels depressed because she isn't with her mom. Yelling at her will only make her feel worse. She won't starve herself, she's 10, she probably knows better than that. She'll eat when she's hungry, the more you force her the more upset she'll get, which might lead to her throwing up the only items left in her stomach. I only say this because this has happened to my brother, and sort of to me(not as bad, I was just way too upset to eat.). No. Her not eating have been going on for about a year now.
March 31, 201213 yr How long has this eating thing not been going on? She could be starving herself just for a petty reason when she really doesn't need to. It happens a lot to people, even to guys if it gets to a certain point. And about the mom thing... I have no clue she just must not want to be without her mother. Something could contribute to it but I don't know.
March 31, 201213 yr Author Ok, Uncle Dolan is here to save the day. First: You give her the daily anal pills I will be sending you (btw, pm me yo address so I can send dem) Second: She will learn to obey Uncl-I mean you and everything should be ok. Hope this helps. ,,,,, Really????????
March 31, 201213 yr When I was her age, I would act out like that b/c I was stressed about something (ie, someone making fun of me). Maybe you should talk to her and see if she's sad/stressed about something maybe at school/somewhere else your family goes that might give her stress/fitting into some type of stereotype/wanting to be popular (or trying to stay popular)/I don't know her but these are just some common ones I find with kids her age. Edited March 31, 201213 yr by Spiney
March 31, 201213 yr There's something bad going on. It's probably that she's worried about her figure. Starving yourself doesn't help get slimmer, it only helps you get more weight *insert gasp here*. If that's the problem you have to talk to the school and stuff. But it's more likely that she just wants to eat something she wants (judging the fact she's ten). In that case, give it to her. But on the condition that she eats more food. Tell her I love her too cause she's way more awesomer than her older sister.
March 31, 201213 yr Author When I was her age, I would act out like that b/c I was stressed about something (ie, someone making fun of me). Maybe you should talk to her and see if she's sad/stressed about something maybe at school. Can't be. She homeschooled.
March 31, 201213 yr I would find an activity that you know for certain she enjoys. Try doing the activity with her, children respond well to having stimulation that interests them and to have someone do it with them. Find a movie she likes or a game and even if you don't enjoy playing it try to make yourself seem to be having fun. Give her a good reaction to things she likes and you can bond over something new. But also you have to be stern with children, she has to know that she can't beat you up, but do not physically punish her as you aren't a parent. Try refusing to give her something she wants when you babysit, if you can handle her trying to beat you up again, you could hide it in a place that she won't know where it is and eventually she'll want it back so she will have to be good. Be responsible but also kind. Children react well to having a posative enviroment. So in conclusion, entertain her with something you know she likes even if you don't like it, you could bond or at least get her to calm down for a bit. As for eating I'd suggest making something seem delicious that you're eating in front of her, kids want things that seem good that they don't have. You could also give her milk, milk will help her be full but does not replace food. Try getting her to eat small snacks like fruit snacks or cheeze its, those are kid favorites and she probably will like it. Start small then work your way up to meals. Children have to slowly build up to something bigger. Hope I helped in some way!
March 31, 201213 yr Can't be. She homeschooled. i wasn't talking about school only. Stress can come from anywhere.
March 31, 201213 yr Author i wasn't talking about school only. Stress can come from anywhere. Can't be that. She never ever gets stress over anything. I think it because everybody in my family use to say she eats everything.(Witch she did but was always skinny.)And always use to say she a fatass.
March 31, 201213 yr Can't be that. She never ever gets stress over anything. I think it because everybody in my family use to say she eats everything.(Witch she did but was always skinny.) And always use to say she a fatass. Young people generally stress over many things and don't tell anyone about it or show anyone. A lot of people with clinical deppression or bi polar disorder start out with it as children and then progressivly get more open with it. Many parents disregard it as just children being tempermental but it could be more than that. I would sit down and talk with her when she is in a calm state or before she is going to bed. And that is another sign of deppression and body image distortion because she has it in her mind she is fat from being told that possibly. I would have her dress up in something pretty one day and you take her out. Or try doing her makeup or hair, if you make her feel beautiful then she will have higher self esteem. Btw I'm not saying she has those disorders, just that it might be a possibillity but I don't know the whole situation.
March 31, 201213 yr Author Young people generally stress over many things and don't tell anyone about it or show anyone. A lot of people with clinical deppression or bi polar disorder start out with it as children and then progressivly get more open with it. Many parents disregard it as just children being tempermental but it could be more than that. I would sit down and talk with her when she is in a calm state or before she is going to bed. And that is another sign of deppression and body image distortion because she has it in her mind she is fat from being told that possibly. I would have her dress up in something pretty one day and you take her out. Or try doing her makeup or hair, if you make her feel beautiful then she will have higher self esteem. Btw I'm not saying she has those disorders, just that it might be a possibillity but I don't know the whole situation. She hates makeup and doing her hair. I tried talking to her many times. I'll try again tho.
March 31, 201213 yr She hates makeup and doing her hair. I tried talking to her many times. I'll try again tho. Well it has to be consistant. Don't give up if she doesn't talk to you the first time. You have to try talking to her over and over again. She has to know you aren't worried because you have to be but because you care about her. If she sees you are constantly trying to help her and figure out what's wrong then most likely she will be more willing to open up to you. But its gradual and probably won't happen over night. But who knows, maybe you'll be her bond in your family.
March 31, 201213 yr a lot of kids starve themselves, my brother did it and my cousin did it. for some reason they don't like being forced to eat. if she's that hungry, she'll eat. just try your best to make sure she can eat when she's hungry. if it's been going on for a year and she's still fine enough to cry and scream, then she's eating enough to stay healthy. don't worry too much about it.
March 31, 201213 yr Author Hit the B!tch.. Nuff Said... -punch you in the face- You said hit the bitch. C:
March 31, 201213 yr -punch you in the face- You said hit the bitch. C: The OTHERRR ONEEE http://kh13.com/forum/public/style_emoticons/default/happy.png
March 31, 201213 yr Author The OTHERRR ONEEE http://kh13.com/forum/public/style_emoticons/default/happy.png -Punch you again.- There no other bitch. Only you. C: Piz READ the topic and I really do need help with my little sis.
March 31, 201213 yr -Punch you again.- There no other bitch. Only you. C: Piz READ the topic and I really do need help with my little sis. Ignore herrr, she has to eat sometime, and if she cries she-ll get tired eventually, just put some headphones onn & problem solved http://kh13.com/forum/public/style_emoticons/default/happy.png , works everytime, or you can hit her.....
March 31, 201213 yr Author Ignore herrr, she has to eat sometime, and if she cries she-ll get tired eventually, just put some headphones onn & problem solved http://kh13.com/forum/public/style_emoticons/default/happy.png , works everytime, or you can hit her..... ........ Do you have a heart?
I would NEVER ask for help with my baby sis. But I don't know what to do.
She don't eat. She eats like what once a day and she gets mad and beats me up. Everybody yells at her to eat but she don't!
I try telling her to eat but she don't want to. She gets mad when she don't eat and she yells and makes everybody's day hell.
Now my mom and dad left for a few days so we're staying at my grandma and grandpa's
Now she crying cause she not with mom. She always does this when she not with mom,
I mean ALWAYS! And she won't stop and I don 't know what to do. I try calming her down but she always start yelling and then I have to leave the room.
And she only TEN! TEN YEARS OLD!!!
I really really need help with her!
Helpppppppp