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Are you born gay or you become gay?

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So me and my sis ? Are talking about being gay , she says that you become gay as you get older i say we are born gay . Do NOT say anything mean please.

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Sad to say but this just proves my point, ya know ?

 

Ikr. :/ I felt really bad, because he always says how he's not the kind of person to fall in love and he doesn't plan on getting married. Well, we both live in NC and after that bill got passed he said that he actually was annoyed by that, because even though he doesn't have plans for that kind of thing right now, he'd have liked to have been given the option to change his mind. :(

Wasn't the TC just asking if you're born gay or become gay? What's with all these it's (not) a choice comments?

 

Does one choose to be heterosexual?

 

Oddly enough I saw this exact same debate on TV about a year ago and one man said he was gay then went to therapy. Now he has a wife and two kids. Maybe some people do...

Oddly enough I saw this exact same debate on TV about a year ago and one man said he was gay then went to therapy. Now he has a wife and two kids. Maybe some people do...

 

 

You do know that the type of therapy you're referring to is akin to brainwashing, you can trick the mind into to doing anything if you condition it right.

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Wasn't the TC just asking if you're born gay or become gay? What's with all these it's (not) a choice comments?

 

 

 

Oddly enough I saw this exact same debate on TV about a year ago and one man said he was gay then went to therapy. Now he has a wife and two kids. Maybe some people do...

 

I meant from birth. When you are born (not you specifically) do you choose to be attracted to the opposite sex?

You do know that the type of therapy you're referring to is akin to brainwashing, you can trick the mind into to doing anything if you condition it right.

 

Why are you telling me this? I don't care what or how he did it. It's his life and if he's ok with being "brainwashed" so be it.

Why are you telling me this? I don't care what or how he did it. It's his life and if he's ok with being "brainwashed" so be it.

 

Doesn't make the actual doing of the "brainwashing" right.

Doesn't make the actual doing of the "brainwashing" right.

 

Didn't say it did. Just that it's his life.

Uh...

Feeding in order to survive isn't a sexuality

Also, wouldn't that mean that anybody who drinks milk from a store is committing bestiality?

 

If thats the case then how come we are not going to jail because a typical bylaw is any sexual contact with beasteality even drinking milk we go straight to jail and get punishment besides no one ever asked you to drink milk or even bring that idea up, and we choose to go gay straight bisexual lesbian or anyof the choice because we do it by feeling and a wanting need to love and servive, but seen as it is a feeling thing we go with it would also be a choice to choose because logically to go with your feelings you must CHOOSE which feeling to go with so it technically and logically a choice of lifestyle you go with but its just the part of people actually accepting to for you to show it off

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If thats the case then how come we are not going to jail because a typical bylaw is any sexual contact with beasteality even drinking milk we go straight to jail and get punishment besides no one ever asked you to drink milk or even bring that idea up, and we choose to go gay straight bisexual lesbian or anyof the choice because we do it by feeling and a wanting need to love and servive, but seen as it is a feeling thing we go with it would also be a choice to choose because logically to go with your feelings you must CHOOSE which feeling to go with so it technically and logically a choice of lifestyle you go with but its just the part of people actually accepting to for you to show it off

 

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it doesn't matter if it's a choice or not

who thefiretruck cares

if it doesn't affect your life then who the firetruck cares whether or not someone is born gay or chooses to be

people are born gay its scientifically proven ( not gonna post it look yourself lol) i know people tht were gay way before gay was a "thing" and sometimes it can be your environment but more often then not its just your genes :)

I honestly kind of think it's both?

 

99% of the time, you're just born that way, and you have no control over it, and that's fine.

 

But there are a lot of people who feel like they have to be gay. For instance, for some reason, calling yourself bisexual is considered really cool at my school. So a bunch of kids are telling themselves they're bisexual, when a good majority have admitted they really aren't, they're just saying they are because everyone else does. But if you live a lie long enough, sometimes you become it.

I think both? Some are born that way and some just decide to be somehow .-.

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