Today, my brother won the dance championship and came home with a medal and a trophy that he has to keep for a week. If you don't get the point, i was not excited that he win. I just stay myself.

Why not be happy for him and be supportive ? Hes your family .

Well, I guess the appropriate thing to do is congratulate your brother for winning. Even if you don't like the fact that he won, you should still show good sportsmanship.

Why not be happy for him and be supportive ? Hes your family .

 

because then the topic would be "yay bro won" or "i have feelings"

Why aren't you happy that your brother won? Even if you aren't you should still tell them good job.

Congratulations?

 

Try to be supportive but it doesn't work. Don't know why. Are guys are suppose to have feelings ?

Why not be happy for him and be supportive ? Hes your family .

 

Sometimes it hard to be a good older sibling

You just didn't care. It's no big deal. Sometimes we just don't care. It's human. Somebody could say on the News that somebody has helped a group of orphans but you switch the channel to Family Guy. It's just normal human emotions.

You just didn't care. It's no big deal. Sometimes we just don't care. It's human. Somebody could say on the News that somebody has helped a group of orphans but you switch the channel to Family Guy. It's just normal human emotions.

 

This.

 

The same happened to me when my sister participated in a fashion show.

 

I just went there because my cousin was there, or else I would stay here

It's alright, it's completely normal, just sometimes the feelings aren't there and it's not really interesting to you, but it would still be nice to say congratulations to him even if you weren't excited.

Yeah, I really don't feel much unless it's really severe. Most of the time, my second thoughts have to slap the first, emotionless thoughts.