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Okay so like I'm so annoyed right now more than anything.

First off if anyone read or know how my mom acts then you can understand how frustrating she is. For those that don't, she is crazy. Like she believes in superstitions and believes in the wisdom of older people.

I got a birthday cake today and I was really looking forward to it doing my little birthday candle-blowing fun times and taking pics and everything and next thing you know she tells me she can't do my birthday. I'm like "Why?" and she told me because its bad luck? And that I can't do my birthday until 4 days later because these are bad luck days?

The thing is this whole superstitious shit has been building up and I was like "so why the hell can't I blow the candles on my birthday?"

Some old lady who visits my house and cooks for us is soooo stupid as hell (she is those type of old ladies that believe that doctors are trying to harm you) feeds some sort of stupid info into my mom constantly and constantly. This is the same old lady that apparently steals from the downstairs people and my mom knows that yet she is acting like she is some kind of all knowing guru? The old lady tells my mom to give her the slice of cake because she wanted too. My mom did just that. My dad calls and even lets it happen. And then my mom decides to eat it herself. Later on she gives it to me and tells me "okay here is your cake".

We didn't blow no candles, no pics, nothing. Its like "well heres your damn cake" while they ate it before. I got so fed up with her shit and started calling her out on it and all she does is laugh at me and tells me we'll just order another cake next week if I want it so much?

This argument isn't even mainly about the cake its more about her thinking of only herself and not giving a shit how her children feel.

On top of that, she is actually talking shit behind my back and acting so sly about it like I don't firetrucking hear her firetrucking siren-ass voice.

 

Like I'm not sad, just so fed up.

She can go firetruck herself at this point, like she wants to be all so guilt tripping and the whole "oh woes me" yet she doesn't really care about us and only herself but I wont buy it.

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Awwwww Shana .I'm sorry to hear that. ****Hugs*** and Happy Birthday! You are truly a wonderful person!

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Awwwww Shana .I'm sorry to hear that. ****Hugs*** and Happy Birthday! You are truly a wonderful person!

 

Thanks Lea and Merry Christmas!

If anything comes good out of this, its a good excuse to not follow those annoying routines she puts me through.

Thanks Lea and Merry Christmas!

If anything comes good out of this, its a good excuse to not follow those annoying routines she puts me through.

 

Merry Christmas.It's hard to give much advice bc I know your mom is so irrational.But know you are loved and cared about!

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Merry Christmas.It's hard to give much advice bc I know your mom is so irrational.But know you are loved and cared about!

 

I know this is mean but she said she was gonna order another cake and if she does i told my brother puts all the badluck things she hates give it to her as her late-christmas gift and have it in her name and signed by the devil.

I know this is mean but she said she was gonna order another cake and if she does i told my brother puts all the badluck things she hates give it to her as her late-christmas gift and have it in her name and signed by the devil.

 

You live a very interesting life Shaners.LOL

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HAPPY BIRTHDAY SHANA-CHAN !!!!!!

 

For what it's worth, Happy Birthday/Holidays!

 

Thanks guys lmao merry christmas!

Happy-ish birthday! If it's any consolation my Christmas kinda blew (it's usually just boring but this year was more irritating than it needed to be). Sorry your mom is so frustrating. The most I can say is to throw your own birthday gig away from her. If my actual birthday falls on an inconvenient day, I just wait before I actually celebrate it. Because it's not the date, it's the activity. If your mom gets in the way of that then, like you said, firetruck her. Not much to do to remedy the situation than to just get away from her.

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Happy-ish birthday! If it's any consolation my Christmas kinda blew (it's usually just boring but this year was more irritating than it needed to be). Sorry your mom is so frustrating. The most I can say is to throw your own birthday gig away from her. If my actual birthday falls on an inconvenient day, I just wait before I actually celebrate it. Because it's not the date, it's the activity. If your mom gets in the way of that then, like you said, firetruck her. Not much to do to remedy the situation than to just get away from her.

 

I try to get away from her as much as I can but its my mom, she's in my house. And its not like I can move out, I'm 16 right now. Just two more years before I am able to do so. :/ And even then, money is a huge concern. I'm hoping to go get a dorm but she probably wont make that happen.

But thanks. Merry Christmas even if it was irritating. What made it so irritating?

I try to get away from her as much as I can but its my mom, she's in my house. And its not like I can move out, I'm 16 right now. Just two more years before I am able to do so. :/ And even then, money is a huge concern. I'm hoping to go get a dorm but she probably wont make that happen.

But thanks. Merry Christmas even if it was irritating. What made it so irritating?

 

I'm not saying you needed to move out since I know that's not an option for you right now. I was more thinking hang out with some buddies somewhere fun, either cheap or free (the park or someone's house). Since there's not much you can do to change the situation, there are probably little ways to make it slightly better. Christmas was irritating because some relatives my mom pretty much hates kinda sprung a visit/dinner on her, and even though she hates their guts she's too polite to tell them no. So the spent the entire day stewing and cursing the relatives out while we all helped her with preparations, and her attitude dampened what little emotion we generally put into the holiday to begin with (we're pretty boring :P). Point was she spent the whole day in some cycle of anger she made zero effort to bring herself out of, and it made the holiday harder than it needed to be.

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I'm not saying you needed to move out since I know that's not an option for you right now. I was more thinking hang out with some buddies somewhere fun, either cheap or free (the park or someone's house). Since there's not much you can do to change the situation, there are probably little ways to make it slightly better. Christmas was irritating because some relatives my mom pretty much hates kinda sprung a visit/dinner on her, and even though she hates their guts she's too polite to tell them no. So the spent the entire day stewing and cursing the relatives out while we all helped her with preparations, and her attitude dampened what little emotion we generally put into the holiday to begin with (we're pretty boring :P). Point was she spent the whole day in some cycle of anger she made zero effort to bring herself out of, and it made the holiday harder than it needed to be.

 

The problem is that is over protecting and doesn't allow me to go outside. I'd have to lie but I do that after school since its much easier to make an excuse as to why I am not coming home for the next hour or two.

That sucks so much, your mom needs to learn how to control her anger.

That's terrible Shana.  Here, you can have this cake:

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Merry Christmas and Happy birthday!

The problem is that is over protecting and doesn't allow me to go outside. I'd have to lie but I do that after school since its much easier to make an excuse as to why I am not coming home for the next hour or two.

That sucks so much, your mom needs to learn how to control her anger.

 

Hopefully you'll find some way to have a proper birthday bash with better company. :)

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That's terrible Shana.  Here, you can have this cake:

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Merry Christmas and Happy birthday!

 

Lmao thanks, merry christmas to you too!

 

 

Hopefully you'll find some way to have a proper birthday bash with better company. :)

 

Lmao I went to see the Hobbit today so it wasn't too bad, I really enjoyed that. 

Lmao thanks, merry christmas to you too!

 

 

 

Lmao I went to see the Hobbit today so it wasn't too bad, I really enjoyed that. 

Glad to hear you got to have a little fun.

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