Whenever I'm on here, or out there in the world, like my church, I'm probably trying too hard. Trying too hard to meet a girl and show them the real me.

 

Think about it:

 

I've told myself that I'm probably immune to shipping, then someone tells me that I'm not.

 

I ask in a thread to see if any girl would like to do a Date RP with me.

 

In my mind, I've been wanting to get a girl to set their member title to finish this sentence, which I set the first part as my Member Title at one point: "When I come to, let us meet..." And then the girl would set theirs to: "...With our usual words on our usual street."

 

I even proposed a little dance in this one status, but only male members replied, and of course said "No."

 

 

But after this much effort with little to no progress, I've realized I'm thinking too much about doing this. Haha, guess a Veemon like me couldn't really be observed as a fine gentleman very easily just by doing things that others probably have done and succeeded in.

 

Jealousy might be the term for this. But also honesty. Yes, I admit, seeing my friends, in fact, even my brother trying to get a girlfriend DID make me a little jealous, but in all honesty, I'm really happy for them all.

 

Here, I shall reveal what my true goal(s) are on this here KH13! Whether they come true or not, this is no lie.

 

I want to be in a Group of friends, 3 to be exact.

The group consists of Me and two other people, a trinity if you will.

A friend that's a boy, a friend that's a girl.

We will stick together for as long as we can!

(Friend that is a boy has no real love interest for my friend that's a girl.)

 

 

It's a long hard path for me alone, but as a team, we'd be unstoppable.

 

 

I'm not sure what you all really feel about this, and call me crazy if you must, but I certainly am not gonna just leave this feeling alone. It's time I carve my own path.

 

Thank you all so much for reading this. If this doesn't seem all that serious to you, please refrain from treating it as a joke. I've heard many people complain of how their Random topics they were serious about weren't taken very seriously like they were hoping. So, yeah. Nothing personal, really.

 

 

Rock on!

There should be a KH dating site, y'know?

There should be a KH dating site, y'know?

They have a Disney dating site I believe. Never really tried a 'dating site' let alone real dating. But I have done a Date RP with a girl a while ago. But it didn't really feel 'official' y'know?

Dude don't worry about it; a LOT of people know how you feel, including me. I always wanted to sort of have my own 'crew' as well as a male in that crew being my soulmate/boyfriend. I'm happy to say although I don't have a boyfriend, I am apart of a happy little group of buddies. Not in real life sadly though.

 

Look, you can try as hard as you can but its not going to guarantee anything; it comes to you when you least expect it. Every important relationship I have (my best friend, my awesome crew, etc) all game unexpectedly. I never knew this person was gonna become my best friend. I've tried all my life to have something like that, and it took years. You're completely normal for feeling this way. I feel the same too. I've always wanted to be in a sort of trio just like Sora Riku and Kairi and go on adventures and the like. I'm happy to say now that I do have a best friend and a group that is like that but again; I didn't try for it to happen. It just did. Someday you're going to have a girlfriend that'll love you with all your heart. It will come to you.

My number one piece of advice to you, whether it's a girl or just a close group of friends you're seeking is to just be yourself. Don't think about it too much, don't try too hard, just be yourself. The people who like you for you will gravitate towards you naturally, you won't have to chase after them. And like was already said, they'll come to you when you least expect it. Also remember that close knit friendships and relationships take time to develop, you can't expect results overnight.

 

So yeah, just don't worry too much about it, just be yourself. I wish you luck and I'm sure someday you'll find what you're looking for.  

My number one piece of advice to you, whether it's a girl or just a close group of friends you're seeking is to just be yourself. Don't think about it too much, don't try too hard, just be yourself. The people who like you for you will gravitate towards you naturally, you won't have to chase after them. And like was already said, they'll come to you when you least expect it. Also remember that close knit friendships and relationships take time to develop, you can't expect results overnight.

 

So yeah, just don't worry too much about it, just be yourself. I wish you luck and I'm sure someday you'll find what you're looking for.

 

Wakeless speaks the truth.

How about be you instead of forcefully trying to make an impression?

I think others covered this well, but truthfully I think that the right girl will come when the time is right.  True love and such things don't occur because we want them to; they happen due to circumstances within our life, often times out of our own control.  I found my significant other without trying and in the most unexpected of ways and I couldn't be happier with the outcome, but I know this would *not* have happened had I been trying to do everything on my own.  Regarding friends . . . .  Admittedly I have tried to have a small group of friends as well, and it's never truly worked.  Without trying I have made a number of wonderful friends on this site, and a few in real life as well (which I moved away from, but hey : P).

 

What I'm trying to say is just be yourself, stay calm, and allow the relationships to unfold naturally in time.  Like Wakeless, Aqua, and others said, just be yourself and do not try too terribly hard.  I firmly believe we all have soulmates out there and that God will allow us to meet them when the situation is right. : )  Good luck, and I wish you all the best.

Yeah, I'm gonna go with everybody else on here. Just, well, be yourself. There's a somebody for everybody, and as long as you be yourself, you'll find that somebody! Like, take me for instance. I don't exactly have the best opinions in the world, but I stuck by them. And eventually, I met my current boyfriend, whom I've been dating for about a year and 8 months. #humblebrag.

 

Anyways, you be you. You seem like a cool dood. And chicks dig the cool doods. I mean, probably. I dunno, my gay brain doesn't know too much about what females like in a man, despite some people saying otherwise. Just, uh, yeah. Be yourself, man!

 

Also, since this is as good a time as any to say this. You remind me a lot of either Sanji from One Piece or Brock from the Pokemon anime. You love women, but you always have that sense of respect for them. I like that.

It seems that everyone else on here has said what I think, so I'll just say that I agree with them.

 

I know how you feel though, because I'm going through a very similar thing (except I want a boyfriend) I guess unlike you though, I'm just too shy to try to get friends or a boyfriend. As much as I really want friends and a soulmate, I'm too afraid that I'll mess up and say something stupid or hurtful, and I don't want people to get angry at me or think that I'm annoying or stupid. While its a little easier to talk to people online, I'm still too nervous to start a private conversation with someone or add people as friends because I don't wanna look clingy or desperate.

 

But, I'm working on my shyness little by little. So, hopefully we'll both find some friends and a soulmate, so good luck!

It seems that everyone else on here has said what I think, so I'll just say that I agree with them.I know how you feel though, because I'm going through a very similar thing (except I want a boyfriend) I guess unlike you though, I'm just too shy to try to get friends or a boyfriend. As much as I really want friends and a soulmate, I'm too afraid that I'll mess up and say something stupid or hurtful, and I don't want people to get angry at me or think that I'm annoying or stupid. While its a little easier to talk to people online, I'm still too nervous to start a private conversation with someone or add people as friends because I don't wanna look clingy or desperate.But, I'm working on my shyness little by little. So, hopefully we'll both find some friends and a soulmate, so good luck!

Whoa, you're going through a similar situation? Actually, I've been meaning to say this to the right person, and I think I've finally found them. I feel like I can really trust you with this knowledge, Mag77.

I act totally different in real life than from what I act like on the site. I'm outgoing and upbeat on the website, but I'm shy and quiet in real life. I guess you could say that I'm really afraid of using all of my 'real voice' on the internet. So instead of using the tired, depressed and silent side of my voice, I only use my more cheerful, upbeat side.

"Clingy", "Desperate"... This is what I've become? When I wished to broaden my horizons, and nothing happened, I became desperate? When I refused to want to hear opinions of others who opposed mine, did I end up "Clinging" onto my choice? Mag77. Thank you. I pray that the two of us will one day conquer our own battles against these worriesome feelings. Oh, and one more thing, Mag77:

You can send me a PM whenever you just feel like you need someone from the outside who understands you to talk to. I've heard that two people who are shy stay shy to each other until they both learn they are both shy, then they apparently get along a lot better. :DBut if I end up needing someone to talk to, maybe this time I'll send you a PM first.

Rock on!