A few years ago I told a girl in my school I liked her and asked her out, I took months to pluck up the courage, but all she did was avoid me leaving me wondering *does she like me?" Because she told all her friends and they all came to me saying *do you like her?*

Of course this put me under the impression that she liked me but her continuing to ignore me just confused me, why would she tell her friends I like her and the come and annoy me and then the blokes in my year annoyed me about it.

Untill eventually after trying to get her attention for a while she has the school counsellor after me to talk to me about her saying I sexually harassed her, needless to say she hammered to point home she doesn't like me.

I was perplexed why she couldn't come right out and say she didn't like me, why go through all that trouble to hurt me? I tried really hard for the rest of the day not to cry until I got home.

After that anytime I liked a girl, I kept it inside rather than go through that pain for a fifth time. Anyone ?

Wow.That girl is an idiot.

To be honest i thought your girl trouble had to do with that time of the month

To be honest i thought your girl trouble had to do with that time of the month

 

O rly.

I can asure you I'm a boy.

This has been bothering me for ages I needed to get it off my chest.

I suppose now you're abreast of the people who think I'm a girl,

As a girl myself I have friends that do that and its pointless to go through all this trouble of telling teachers instead of saying a simple NO... Like myself, if a guy ask me out I either say I have a boyfriend or im sorry I don't like you like that and they say "OK" and leave me alone and we talk still and stuff... So, really the girls that do that are usally stuck up or don't like you but don't worry theres other fish in the sea.

AH i see! you fell for it!

i know because girls do that to friends and boyfriends to get a kick out of it. and i was one of those friends that it happened to alot

you see:

She didnt like you to begin with and wanted to play a game. She accepts to be your girlfriend and then you are fooled by this. They then begin to go all sweet for about 3 days and then start commenting at or avoiding you. Her friends asked you that out of MOCKING and wanted to know if you have "given up yet" if you dont give up after a while they will do something to shake you off; you rather get so hurt by this that you leave or you let it fly.

after a while of not giving up they decide to terrorize you worse by doing something horrible (my former friends spread a rumor that i way gay and after her; which i was not) and of course they hide behind teachers and counselors and create you into a bad person and then when everyone rejects you, you feel like killing yourself. (i stared at the ground for about a year)

and THEN they dump you.

 

 

i had to be pulled out of school but now im back and (thank God) no one thinks im a lesbien or a stalker

yes, THAT is their game (ive been a victem to it before and i know what they do)

 

To be honest i thought your girl trouble had to do with that time of the month

 

O rly.

I can asure you I'm a boy.

This has been bothering me for ages I needed to get it off my chest.

I suppose now you're abreast of the people who think I'm a girl,

 

dude no offense but those ppl sound like total dumbasses

that always happens i like this hot as girl and her friends go do you like her do you like her if she liked you she would say it as long as you told her you liked her

She seems confused and weirded out probably by your actions.

Best to say just to back off away before she takes things the wrong way.

You got to pick the right timings to just admit you like agirl

like seriously, if a girl doesnt like you obviously she's gonna be all surprised on how to act towards you.

 

Don't assume that the girl likes you back cause that's stupid. Know your facts.

But what am I to say im just a young teenager haha.

Wow. She sounds like a bitch waste of your time...

 

there's lots of girls like that at my school. They do stuff like that for attention and whatnot. I think they outgrow it eventually, so if you REALLY like her you could always - ask her out in ten years?

That girl is a waste of time. Just don't bother of ever asking her out again or just wait a few years or months when she has a mature mind. It is good that you admitted your feelings to her, but you have to be confident with what you say and your actions. She obviously did not carry the same feelings for you since her friends pestered you; however, don't let her friends get to you or those little immature pranks she pulled about you harassing her. That's what they do- they beat your confidence down and down until they break the wall and see you crack. Just ignore them, and never ever leave a school because of some stupid dumba** kids who think they are better than you, because no one is better than anybody not you or me. This has happened to me before and I left the school because of those people and then I went back and you know what they have tried to screw my life over many times, but I never let them get to me and no one in my class is my best friend or any of my friends really, because I found better friends elsewhere. Confidence is the key. I hope you find a girl who cares for you and accepts your feelings and returns them back to you. :] You seem like a good person.