Remember when I said the girl said yes and we were going out? well, turns out it was all a joke to see my face. I can't explain how sad i am. It's like I got shot down and don't want to get up. I feel even more depressed then I did a few days ago. Maybe I knew this was going to happen. That's why I was so sad. I can't take this anymore, it's like this "love" I feel is just an illusion that always turns me down. It was my first day of school and I was too sad... but I managed to make my family not notice it. I don't know if what I felt really was love, or just attraction.

Ow... I'm feeling very sorry for you man. It's not your fault, nor it is an illusion, it's just that girl is a jerk that's all. Attraction and love is the same thing, it's just well, slightly differ. Don't think to hard about it, cheer up with a sip of tea.

jeez, what a dick, kick her in the face for me (on second thoughts, maybe not)

 

but seriously, that sucks. wou wouldn't want to go out with someone who would do that

Oh and she asked for us to keep being friends after that WTF. I definitely said no and I'm trying to avoid any contact with her

Hmm, this has happend to me before, most of the time its either A. to play you, B. just a fat joke, or C. they really did liek you but some one managed to convince her to say no. And sorry to hear that bud, no matter who it is it always sucks to get denied, even if its a friend.

Hmm, this has happend to me before, most of the time its either A. to play you, B. just a fat joke, or C. they really did liek you but some one managed to convince her to say no. And sorry to hear that bud, no matter who it is it always sucks to get denied, even if its a friend.

 

but for him it sucks, since he got accepted, but then found out that he didn't.

 

@ Kinode good choice saying no to being friends, don't let her screw you over any more

what an assjerkdickheadotherswearingwords she is feel rly sorry for you kinode

She needs a nice flaming bag of poo on her doorstep

^I'd be happy to provide it.

 

I'm really sorry to hear that, man. Maybe eat some ice cream?

Well I want you to know that, even though she probably made you look like a fool, you're not a fool. The really fool is her for doing something ignorant like that and now she lost a precious gift that should've meant something to her and that was friendship.

I know that you will find someone who won't do that to you, it's just not the right time for it yet. But it still doesn't make it right for what she did to you....

I should punch her in he nose for wanting me not to send "offensive notes" in middle of the class. yeah right. go to hell, bitch.

I should punch her in he nose for wanting me not to send "offensive notes" in middle of the class. yeah right. go to hell, bitch.

 

agree. completely.

damn..... I don't know what to say except:

DAMN

DAMN

These feelings pass. Much more quickly than you may initially expect them too. You'll be fine.

Oh, I feel bad for you. But that also served as an experience : You should only stay with those who you love. i'm sure you didn't love her, your only interest was to get a girlfriend. Next time, make sure you love her and she loves you.

Well, she sounds quite rude. :// If you wanted to, you could always make a joke out of it so as not to fuel the rumor mill. I wouldn't hang out with her anymore, though. People like her honestly need to get a life.

Oh, I feel bad for you. But that also served as a experience : You should only stay with those who you love. i'm sure you didn't love her, your only interest was to get a girlfriend. Next time, make sure you love her and she loves you.

 

How can you say that! I was sure I loved her!

But turns out I didn't know just what love was.

I would NEVER get a girlfriend to take advantage of it. I thought I loved her, but I didn't know what love was. I was confused between love and obsession, and, strong friendship. I won't accept this again, alright?

 

Oh, I feel bad for you. But that also served as a experience : You should only stay with those who you love. i'm sure you didn't love her, your only interest was to get a girlfriend. Next time, make sure you love her and she loves you.

 

How can you say that! I was sure I loved her!

But turns out I didn't know just what love was.

I would NEVER get a girlfriend to take advantage of it. I thought I loved her, but I didn't know what love was. I was confused between love and obsession, and, strong friendship. I won't accept this again, alright?

 

Wait, you sounds being traumatic for being in love again, don't be! There are lots of normal not-taking-cheers-upon-one's-ultimate-sadness in the world. Be fall in love again to someone else later in life, just when that time comes, know her well that you know she's not the type of taking-cheers-upon-one's-ultimate-sadness. Until you find a girl that's genuinely kind, don't fall in love without thinking deeply about it.

 

And actually I don't agree that you be mad to her, you're right to say no to friendship but just don't show anger to her, it's just further showing that you're lost for being obsessed with her. Anyway that's just burning yourself uselessly.

 

Oh, I feel bad for you. But that also served as a experience : You should only stay with those who you love. i'm sure you didn't love her, your only interest was to get a girlfriend. Next time, make sure you love her and she loves you.

 

How can you say that! I was sure I loved her!

But turns out I didn't know just what love was.

I would NEVER get a girlfriend to take advantage of it. I thought I loved her, but I didn't know what love was. I was confused between love and obsession, and, strong friendship. I won't accept this again, alright?

 

once i thought i loved someone. afterwards i realised that she was just a nice person.

 

she thought i asked her out (theres this stupid girl in our class who always tries to set people up with people, i never even told her that i like that girl) and later the girl i liked sent me a really horrible email. thanks alot

I just said that because you've posted a lot about : '' I NEVER HAD A GIRLFRIEND! I HAVE TO GET ONE!! in the date thread. A lot of people told you that a girlfriend isn't a tool or something like that. You need to chose right, just because she said she loved you doesn't prove anything at all. I can say that I love anyone but inside I don't fell anything.

Bud, I can tell you something right now... I've had a few girlfriends, and even more interests. Love was only a component in one of them (in the interests spectrum, she and I never dated)... and I'm lucky to have even experienced that at my age. Love is an unbelievably special and, truly, rare thing, and not something you can or should undermine or underestimate. All I'm saying is (and don't feel as if I'm attacking you by saying this, by any means), I can almost assure you that what you felt toward this girl was not anything close to love. Of course, I'd be completely out of line telling you how you feel, but chances are very high that you were just feeling a strong pull of attraction, or perhaps even just a pure desire to have a girlfriend. That's completely ok, those certainly aren't bad things. And they can, absolutely, easily be confused with... "love"... particularly when you haven't really experienced it, outside of your connection with your family and perhaps a very dear friend or two. I also can't tell you what love is, because I don't really know. It's something you feel, not something you know. It's very visceral. You'll figure it out.

ohhhhhh that sucks dude

aaaww, man that sucks. i've never known ANY girl to do that, and i certainly haven't. you should spend lots of time with friends and family and just have fun. trust me. it works for anyone who's been played like that

You guys will hate me for this, but she apologized

and then I accepted it.

and she wants me to forget we ever dated, which we never did. she also wants me to make everyone forget I told people about what she did.

and... well I accepted it. she's been nicer now, and she even told me on my face that she liked someone else when she "accepted" me. wow. ouch.

seriously, I don't think I ever loved tough. I feel like it was all a lie

Well, just forget her.

I never got asked out, and I never asked anyone out, so I'll never have that kind of pain.

If I did have that pain, I would do something that I haven't done in a looong time.

 

That would be grabbing the metal club I got from my grandfather when he died and KILL HER!

Well, just forget her.

I never got asked out, and I never asked anyone out, so I'll never have that kind of pain.

If I did have that pain, I would do something that I haven't done in a looong time.

 

That would be grabbing the metal club I got from my grandfather when he died and KILL HER!

 

what do you mean in a long time?

you've done it before? o.-'