I absolutely can not take my family anymore. I hate them all!!!!! I am scared of my father, hate my mother, and just could do away with my sister. They always boss me around and put so much stress on me. I can't take them anymore. I am about to turn 18, but because of my mother I can not grow up and do things like drive or get a job and so I can't leave this place. I am doomed to always live with a family that I can't stand living with anymore.

I wish you the best of luck in this difficult time.

I absolutely can not take my family anymore. I hate them all!!!!! I am scared of my father, hate my mother, and just could do away with my sister. They always boss me around and put so much stress on me. I can't take them anymore. I am about to turn 18, but because of my mother I can not grow up and do things like drive or get a job and so I can't leave this place. I am doomed to always live with a family that I can't stand living with anymore.

Don't worry, things will get better. Always does. Just pray to God for some help, he'll help you in time

They won't let you drive or get a job?  Parents typically holler at their kids to do both at this stage.  Why don't they let you?

sorry to hear that I hope things get better for you

It's a bit odd that they won't let you drive. I'm really sorry man, I wish I could do something to help you.

Hmm that's weird, you need to have a confrontation with them or something and sit down and have a long chat about you taking the wheel to your life.

 

Maybe try to live with some other relatives or something or stay over at a friend's for a while...or talk to a counselor about what is going on and they may be able to help you and intervene with your family. 

 

I hope all gets well and good luck!

I feel your pain dude. Like everyone says, Good Luck- and always remember us so that even in a harsh and depressing situation, you can think good thoughts <

Thanks guys. I actually would like to do something with my life, but they are holding me back. They say because of my anger, I cant live a life and drive and get a job, but I could do it and everything be fine, I am only angry because I cant grow up and live my own life, instead of having it lived for me.

Don't worry, things will get better. Always does. Just pray to God for some help, he'll help you in time

Praying doesn't help... at all.

Thanks guys. I actually would like to do something with my life, but they are holding me back. They say because of my anger, I cant live a life and drive and get a job, but I could do it and everything be fine, I am only angry because I cant grow up and live my own life, instead of having it lived for me.

Once you turn 18 they can't stop you. You're free and you can do whatever you want with your life. If they try to hold you it's somehow a crime.

we have the same problem only that when im 18 i can do what i want but im still my moms daughter there is no changing that. As long as you live at your parents house their still gonna treat you like a little kid and probably boss you around. Stand up for yourself. Do it for your freedom since you're almost 18 you have the freedom to do so.

Yes praying can help! Cause God can help you if you ask, he needs hear from us every once in a while.

Thanks guys. I actually would like to do something with my life, but they are holding me back. They say because of my anger, I cant live a life and drive and get a job, but I could do it and everything be fine, I am only angry because I cant grow up and live my own life, instead of having it lived for me.

I know it might be hard, but if their excuse is anger, you could try to get rid of all their excuses.Though like others have stated, once you turn 18 they can't really stop you from leaving them.  If you really want to get away, then start working on a strategy. Think of what stuff you can actually bring with you, plot out a place to go to. (if you can find one) Figure out what jobs you want to try to get, just ones that are easy to get (even if they suck).Please note, I am not telling you to leave, I am just saying if you truly can't stand it and feel like it is truly a prison. Then start working on your escape plans, if you don't care to escape it, or want to get out peacefully, then you have to figure out how to survive those paths.

Well , your family probably does that because they care for you and love you . Now I don't know about the "I am scared of my father " part  . Why are you so scared of him ?Oh and trust me living with your family is really nice . People call it "lame" and stuff but I think living with your family till you are like really old is great .Anyways , I just hope things turn out good for you . Remember , life is unfair .

Well , your family probably does that because they care for you and love you . Now I don't know about the "I am scared of my father " part  . Why are you so scared of him ?Oh and trust me living with your family is really nice . People call it "lame" and stuff but I think living with your family till you are like really old is great .Anyways , I just hope things turn out good for you . Remember , life is unfair .

I'm scared of my father because he is mean and yells a lot which scares me. But the fact is that I really want to move away as soon as possible, but I don't think my mom would like that.

I'm scared of my father because he is mean and yells a lot which scares me.But the fact is that I really want to move away as soon as possible, but I don't think my mom would like that.

I don't know. I don't really think movin away is such a good idea . My father yells a lot,too . But I love him and he loves me even with that . I don't really know.Moving out might be an option..

I don't know. I don't really think movin away is such a good idea . My father yells a lot,too . But I love him and he loves me even with that . I don't really know.Moving out might be an option..

Actually, I have just wanted to move away from my home for a while. It's always just been something I wanted to do in life.

Actually, I have just wanted to move away from my home for a while. It's always just been something I wanted to do in life.

Anyways , I just hope things are fine with you and your family soon .

I just tripped backwards and almost busted my head wide open, and my mother doesn't even care