I'm sick and tired of a kid at my school. I've been having a bunch of problems with this one kid at school and I've had enough of him. He has been doing stupid, abusive, and mean things to a bunch of people, but he has done a lot of stuff to me. So, let me give you some things that he's been doing to me. He has been abusing my Japanese last name for wrong, abusive purposes, he's been gossiping about me how I have a crush on a guy and a girl, (That's not true for either one of those) one time, he threw a FULL Aerohead water bottle at MY HEAD and he was like

wow i use to have the same thing but i ended by beating the c*** out of him.i think just igorne him for a while if he keeps on doing it

Violence is not the answer. Believe me, I've tried it once and I was lucky I didn't get into huge trouble, but thanks for the advise anyways.

I hope his punishment makes him stop bullying you and others

Yes hopefully. My mom told me a few hours ago when I came home from school that the principal would talk to my math teacher from last year and my math teacher this year about this situation and then the principal will find a "suitable" punishment for him. But here's another problem that I'm worried about. The kid's dad is very interactive and all that and helps the school a lot and I'm afraid that they won't give such a harsh punishment that the kid deserves. I think for the kid's punishment, it should be to apologize to me in front of the whole class and also get a detention.

This kid needs more then a detention he would not learn anything. He needs to just stop acting tough and start to act muture cause hes going nowhere in a hurry

Give me his address so I can get my cosplay Keyblade and go to his house and whack 'em about a million times.

 

Give me his address so I can get my cosplay Keyblade and go to his house and whack 'em about a million times.

 

 

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Let me come with you >:]

 

This guy's an ass. A complete, total jack@$$. He better get in some maaaaaajor trouble. Part of it with me...

Alright mates thats IT! I'm now officially in my "Freshman beating mood" WHERE THE HELL IS HE?

 

 

Give me his address so I can get my cosplay Keyblade and go to his house and whack 'em about a million times.

 

 

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Let me come with you >:]

 

This guy's an ass. A complete, total jack@$$. He better get in some maaaaaajor trouble. Part of it with me...

 

 

 

COUNT ME THE F*** IN!!

 

 

Anyways what i suggest you do is find a group of friends and STICK with them. You always do better with greater numbers, worked for me in fifthe grade and now in seventh grade we all do everything together.

.....give me his name and last name ...after that you wont ever haveto worrow or see him agian if you seeh is mother and father crying say nothign just walk away..but other than that just hand me his face ill make sure it's on the floor with one hit

Sounds like a typical school bully.

 

I had a girl that was in athletics in middle school, and she did EVERY sport because she thought she was amazing at it and she purposely cheap-shotted me whenever she could, picked on me constantly out of class (making fun of me, calling me names, the usual stuff). Eventually, "ignoring" the problem didn't work so I started being more and more aggressive in the sports. One day, we were going to play soccer, "my domain," -- when the time was right, I didn't care if my coach got extremely angry (which he didn't), but I tackled her to the ground, stole the ball and scored. <8D -- The coach had known she had been picking on me so I didn't get in much trouble for tackling her (forgot to mentioned she whined about her ankle? <8D), but eventually once I did that she stopped picking on me when she realized she isn't better than me at all.

 

But eh, you're doing the right thing trying to get your parents and authority figures involved if the situation was getting too far out of hand for only you to handle. Eventually karma will come to your bully and bite him in the ass. If you can, just try to either stay away from him or if he does something stand your ground which.. I think you're doing.

 

The little things like name-calling and pointing the middle finger, just try to blow it off. The more offended looks he sees from you, the more he'll continue. Just try to act like they don't harm you, though they may piss you off, show your anger when he isn't around.

 

Give it time, you seem like you're responding to the situation good, and it does seem like it's alright for parents and teachers to get involved if you felt that the should. So just hope that in time he'll get what he deserves. Bullies usually do get what they deserve in the end anyways.

Thanks for the advise guys I'll keep it in mind.

@VW, lexi, and LazorKittehs: I'll give you a clue. He lives in Palos Verdes

Thanks for the advise guys I'll keep it in mind.

@VW, lexi, and LazorKittehs: I'll give you a clue. He lives in Palos Verdes

 

 

 

HA I already have three main subjects for the crime.

(Cortesy of my grandma's CIA Site account. SCOREZ!)

TELL THAT BITCH TO WATCH BEHIND HIM WHILE HE WALKS.

 

 

I've never been bullied that badly, but I've seen it happen, so believe me when I say, the absolute WORST thing you could possibly do is show him that you're upset. Talking to him, insulting him back, or basically showing any reaction, is just what he wants you to do, and it'll encourage him to keep going.

 

Keep doing what you're doing. If it gets worse, tell the principal again. He/she might be able to help, but if he/she can't...just ignore him the best you can.

I'll follow that advise DLC I'll keep it in mind

 

lol ok VW

 

Most bullies(like him) feel bullied or targeted themselves. That is why he must be gaining up on you. It's not you personally that he doesn't like it's just that he found that you were easier to pick on for some reason. If the principal doesn't do anything then you need to go to his/her office and confront him/her yourself and tell the prinicpal about the situation. And about the test thing, he probably got at least 1 bad or low grade on his test that contributed to the 89.9% thing, so instead of being mature about it and blaming it on himself, he took it out on you. Also, it could be that he has an unhealthy lifestyle at home as in something is wrong with him and so he feels that bullying other kids such as yourself will make his problems go away and he thinks that he'll feel bette about himself. You should ask him why he bullies you because I bet he'll gets all defensive but that's because he doesn't want you finding out.

thanks for the advise Zexion Lover

.....give me his name and last name ...after that you wont ever haveto worrow or see him agian if you seeh is mother and father crying say nothign just walk away..but other than that just hand me his face ill make sure it's on the floor with one hit

 

...Don't rape my joke

 

But seriously, I hope the kid gets punished.

Did they ever tell you the punishment? I hate how someone can do something so awful, and when you tell the teacher, they're like, "OHRARADON'TDOITAGAINRARAOKAYGOAWAYIWANNAEATMAHLUNCHEZ." They need to care more. Sometimes they see what's happening, and do NOTHING.

Well guys I have some bad news. Y'know how I said that the kid's father helps the school. Well the principal is EXTREMELY hesitant of punishing him. Plus my math teacher said that he didn't hear what the kid said. And also, only one teacher (my math teacher from last year) knows that the kid is a bully and a mean kid and every other teacher has no problem with him. I feel so helpless and hope seems so useless right now. And the principal says that he's gonna talk to the kid but I KNOW that the kid will just lie all the way.

Well guys I have some bad news. Y'know how I said that the kid's father helps the school. Well the principal is EXTREMELY hesitant of punishing him. Plus my math teacher said that he didn't hear what the kid said. And also, only one teacher (my math teacher from last year) knows that the kid is a bully and a mean kid and every other teacher has no problem with him. I feel so helpless and hope seems so useless right now. And the principal says that he's gonna talk to the kid but I KNOW that the kid will just lie all the way.

 

You should go to the principals office with him so that you can both talk it out. Have you ever tried talking to the kid to ask why he bullies you?

forgot to, probably going to do it tomorrow

Well guys I have some bad news. Y'know how I said that the kid's father helps the school. Well the principal is EXTREMELY hesitant of punishing him. Plus my math teacher said that he didn't hear what the kid said. And also, only one teacher (my math teacher from last year) knows that the kid is a bully and a mean kid and every other teacher has no problem with him. I feel so helpless and hope seems so useless right now. And the principal says that he's gonna talk to the kid but I KNOW that the kid will just lie all the way.

 

That's what always seems to happen at my school. D8 A student is sent to the principal's office for bullying, but gets away with little or no punishment because they come from a "good family" or they "have never caused trouble before". It really pisses me off. -_-

 

Don't give up; try not to let it bother you, but, if it really starts to get awful, keep telling the principal. In some states (or at least states in the New England area--not sure about others) bullying is illegal, and, not only can the student go to court for it, but the school too (I think. Don't take my word for it. ), if they don't do anything to prevent bullying.

There's no point in asking why. All bullies tend to do it for the same reason. They feel very insecure about themselves and stepping on everyone else makes them feel better. It doesn't make sense, but I guess it really doesn't have to. We all get insecure and feel unhappy about ourselves at times, but he's not dealing with it correctly. His opinion is that if you feel worse than him, than he's not as low down. I don't really understand the logic, but that's how the are =/

 

I really hope the principal doesn't hesitate, though. You should go talk to him/her about it. Look them straight in the eye so they know that you're serious, and that this isn't something they can just mess around with. This is a serious issue that needs to be adressed. Bullying isn't tolerable, and it shouldn't be treated as tolerable. I hate how everyone says that's just middle school. Well we can fix that if we do something about it.

 

If that doesn't get through, then try talking to the kid's DAD. That's more direct and if his dad isn't that close-minded, it'll be very helpful to your situation. He'd also get punished much more severely. School can only hold him for eight hours a day. They can't control his personnal life. But his dad can. A girl who really didn't like me saw me at Wegmans. She walked up and whispered something really mean to me, and her mom started yelling at her, telling her to say sorry and appologizing to me. She looked pretty annoyed at school the next day, and I heard her tell some of her friends that she was grounded.

 

I hope things get better and that this gets resolved. That kid needs a lesson.

@DLC(You can't take a bully to court in the South Western states such as California and Nevada lol ) Meh, I'll keep on trying to see how it works

@lexi: I plan to talk to the principal myself but if there isn't a punishment that suits the kid, then my mom is going to talk to the kid's dad.