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[Koko 3,944]

Well you can't fault him for what he believes. But what is most important here is you, and if he can screw with your emotions this much, then he has far too much control over your life.

 

This this this

 

Do not let a single person control how you feel

You are in control of your emotions

You are in control of yourself

 

@Austin

 

You need to get over him. I'm sorry I'm so blunt, but it's true. He doesn't support it, there's nothing you can do. You just need to move on, as hard as it may be. But do not let this one thing control your emotions and your life.

[FireRubies1 1,325]

This this this

 

Do not let a single person control how you feel

You are in control of your emotions

You are in control of yourself

 

@Austin

 

You need to get over him. I'm sorry I'm so blunt, but it's true. He doesn't support it, there's nothing you can do. You just need to move on, as hard as it may be. But do not let this one thing control your emotions and your life.

 

For some reason this made me stop thinking of him as much... I still enjoy talking to him but I don't feel that sad without him. I guess this site was so much fun he kinda popped out of my head

[SummerRain 185]

Ok so I know I posted a thread but I have other problems too

well two weeks ago my bf for a year and a half ignored me, broke up with me, and won't tell me why. I still miss him and care about him even though he flirts with other girls, and called me a bipolar pms-ing bitch.

my dad got re-married to his gf who I always fight with, and I fight with her spoiled kids. They got married in a courtroom and didn't tell me about it. That doesn't bug me. The part that pissed me off is my dad always wanted a church wedding. He even criticized my sister who's not having a catholic wedding. The he does this.

My mom is dating a guy who cares about her, but thinks my sister is a slacker cuz she had to pay for community college but had to drop out cuz she ran out of money.

I try talking to my friends but they don't understand. I have nowhere to go and my heart hurts. im considering running away

[Godot 513]

Ok so I know I posted a thread but I have other problems too

well two weeks ago my bf for a year and a half ignored me, broke up with me, and won't tell me why. I still miss him and care about him even though he flirts with other girls, and called me a bipolar pms-ing bitch.

my dad got re-married to his gf who I always fight with, and I fight with her spoiled kids. They got married in a courtroom and didn't tell me about it. That doesn't bug me. The part that pissed me off is my dad always wanted a church wedding. He even criticized my sister who's not having a catholic wedding. The he does this.

My mom is dating a guy who cares about her, but thinks my sister is a slacker cuz she had to pay for community college but had to drop out cuz she ran out of money.

I try talking to my friends but they don't understand. I have nowhere to go and my heart hurts. im considering running away

 

Please think before you run away. You already said you have nowhere to go; how would running away and ending up on the streets make your life any better? You have a family (even if you don't like some of them), you have a home, don't throw that away so easily.

[Koko 3,944]

Ok so I know I posted a thread but I have other problems too

well two weeks ago my bf for a year and a half ignored me, broke up with me, and won't tell me why. I still miss him and care about him even though he flirts with other girls, and called me a bipolar pms-ing bitch.

my dad got re-married to his gf who I always fight with, and I fight with her spoiled kids. They got married in a courtroom and didn't tell me about it. That doesn't bug me. The part that pissed me off is my dad always wanted a church wedding. He even criticized my sister who's not having a catholic wedding. The he does this.

My mom is dating a guy who cares about her, but thinks my sister is a slacker cuz she had to pay for community college but had to drop out cuz she ran out of money.

I try talking to my friends but they don't understand. I have nowhere to go and my heart hurts. im considering running away

 

honestly

you are just whining

 

your ex boyfriend is nothing but an ex.

what good is a guy who won't tell you why he acted in such a way and calls you horrible things.

get over him.

he's not a good guy.

he wasn't worth your time.

and definitely is not worth running away for

 

your dad can do what he wants. if he decided to have a courtroom wedding that is his own choice. i'd be more worried about the fact that he married someone you didn't approve of. that's something you need to talk to him about. but as long as she isn't abusing you, then really, there's nothing to complain about

 

and whatever is going between your mom and sister has nothing to do with you, so move on.

 

sorry to be so blunt.

 

there's no reason to run away

there's itty bitty baby problems

[SummerRain 185]

Sry for wasting your time

Edited April 26, 2012 by SummerRain

[Koko 3,944]

Sry for wasting your time

 

you didn't waste anyone's time honey but you need to think sometimes

'is this really something worth running away for?'

'is this really a reason to be so upset?'

 

you can't let a broken heart and a passing by anger tell you to run away because you'll regret it.

what will running away do anyways?

make you even more miserable

just think things through

[TheApprenticeofKingMickey 3,689]

This weekend I'm going for coffee with my best friends and their older brother. My best friends, J and A, are both sixteen and eighteen. S, the brother, is twenty five and has Asperger's Syndrome. Being an Aspie myself, I've never had contact with anyone who's had the same mental disability. This made me really eager to meet S because he has the same interest as me. Manga, anime, books and video games. But what's making me so uncomfortable is that S likes me. Which is ridiculous because I've only met him three times. I don't know much about him but he is always asking J and A questions specific to me every time he visits the house.

 

And then there's his entire family convinced he likes me because he's adjusting certain quirks of his just to make me feel comfortable which is in fact doing the opposite. I've been getting weird looks from people all day because they're convinced, "Geneviève is going on a date." One of the teacher aids at school and my parents are giving me advice and info how should act accordingly on a date. But it isn't one!

 

This probably won't make sense to any of you, but because of my synesthesia I often get sensory overloads consisting of colour. Heat colours give me pain while cool colours offer me comfort. It can range from a way a sound feels to the way a situation is. And when my friends give me these knowing looks and my parents are calling it a date the colours all feel so wrong I feel like clawing out of my own skin.

 

On top of that, this entire situation, whether it be a "date" or not, is so out of my comfort zone. I have absolutely no experience in this field. And I'm so uncomfortable I feel like I'm going to cry.

 

Maybe I'm being petty and childish for feeling this way but I needed to vent because I have all these pent up feelings.

[Koko 3,944]

Try taking a day or two for yourself to try to sort things out and relax?

I don't really have much advice ;n;

[TheApprenticeofKingMickey 3,689]

Try taking a day or two for yourself to try to sort things out and relax?

I don't really have much advice ;n;

 

It's fine.

 

I needed to let it out.

 

;A;

[FireRubies1 1,325]

I finally stopped loving that boy owo.

I have started to hate him... at first I thought I would be better off and I would stop thinking of him. But now I just think of him when I'm not around him even more. I never want to see him again........ but now I feel more lost without him. I don't know why this happens T3T, I wish I could just tell him I don't wanna see him again.... but going out of my way to talk to him (we haven't been as good friends as we used to be weeks ago, not sure why) wouldn't feel right to me.

Plus we have an after school club that we both attend and we (or just him) might take it over once our normal adviser is in college

 

[FireRubies1 1,325]

Edit: We are somehow friends like before. I still don't have feelings for him and he treats me like a human. I also don't think about him much....

[Rizzyy 736]

i have a bullying problem well bullying might be a understatement anyway this guy always harasses and punches me for a example so today i was already pissed off the my teacher banned my computer account for something my friend did (not getting into that story) so he comes an starts his usual harassing shit and so i just get so pissed off i tell him to firetruck off and then he starts saying "come on hit me you lil bitch come on!" after that i felt mix emotions of sadness, anger, and a little depression i swear im done with that class i feel like i should just skip the rest of that class for the rest of the year!!

 

any advice will help thx

Edited May 31, 2012 by FLASH45

[4Everbee 1,365]

i have a bullying problem well bullying might be a understatement anyway this guy always harasses and punches me for a example so today i was already pissed off the my teacher banned my computer account for something my friend did (not getting into that story) so he comes an starts his usual harassing shit and so i just get so pissed off i tell him to firetruck off and then he starts saying "come on hit me you lil bitch come on!" after that i felt mix emotions of sadness, anger, and a little depression i swear im done with that class i feel like i should just skip the rest of that class for the rest of the year!!

 

any advice will help thx

 

Don't do that. If he's bulling you then tell a teacher or your mom. If you skip class it won't do anything for you.

I don't have anything else to say. Just tell a teacher if one teacher won't do anything then tell another. Bulling is not okay and tell your mom to.

Sorry if I'm not helping.

[FireRubies1 1,325]

i have a bullying problem well bullying might be a understatement anyway this guy always harasses and punches me for a example so today i was already pissed off the my teacher banned my computer account for something my friend did (not getting into that story) so he comes an starts his usual harassing shit and so i just get so pissed off i tell him to firetruck off and then he starts saying "come on hit me you lil bitch come on!" after that i felt mix emotions of sadness, anger, and a little depression i swear im done with that class i feel like i should just skip the rest of that class for the rest of the year!!

 

any advice will help thx

 

You should go to an adult. Someone who knows about this kid and about everyone at your school overall. I was always really depressed about stuff before I went to my counselor, if they can't confirm that guy leaving you alone some times just venting and potentially getting advice can make you be more optimistic about the situation.

 

Your counselor will probably call your parents and you could tell your friends about it as well. Your friends could stick up for you and/or your parents knowing that you should get some help or something might make you feel better if you know they care ( probably not what you're looking for but me going through this definitely made me feel better )

[Think Pink 1,967]

I finally stopped loving that boy owo.

I have started to hate him... at first I thought I would be better off and I would stop thinking of him. But now I just think of him when I'm not around him even more. I never want to see him again........ but now I feel more lost without him. I don't know why this happens T3T, I wish I could just tell him I don't wanna see him again.... but going out of my way to talk to him (we haven't been as good friends as we used to be weeks ago, not sure why) wouldn't feel right to me.

Plus we have an after school club that we both attend and we (or just him) might take it over once our normal adviser is in college

 

 

Breaking away from someone you were friends with/romantically liked is always difficult. It sounds cliche, but it will get better as time goes on. In a few months you're going to wonder what on earth made it so hard to hang out with him less. If you don't want to see him again and you're too afraid to talk to him, then don't talk to him. Your body language can say a lot about how you're feeling. Just don't talk to him, don't wave, ect. and he'll get the message. If he's treating you badly it's the answer he deserves.

[MaybeSeptember 51]

I was told that I had Bipolar Disorder when I was 9, from the news of my Bipolar to my 10th b-day there were 3 attempts of suicide, these were the early stages. My parents and doctors treated me and I fought through my depressed state, everyone preferred the mania. When we moved my doctors changed, along with the medicine I was on. I went to the mental hospital 2 times for medicine changes, my parents thought that way was safer as did I, every time my medicine is changed or adjusted now I go there. When I turned 13 I was a victim of attempted rape, this occurred 2 more times when I was 15. I am thankful for the people who helped me when I needed help. When my parents were told they sent me to a mental hospital to get the coping skills I needed and to check my medication levels. I ended up at home with new medicines, which have not been changed. These parts of me are the hardest parts to remember, but they have made me the young woman that people see today. These are the problems that made me fall, but now I am back on my feet and standing strong

 

Your problems make you who you are. Because how you react affects your character.

[Geralt 4,874]

I was told that I had Bipolar Disorder when I was 9, from the news of my Bipolar to my 10th b-day there were 3 attempts of suicide, these were the early stages. My parents and doctors treated me and I fought through my depressed state, everyone preferred the mania. When we moved my doctors changed, along with the medicine I was on. I went to the mental hospital 2 times for medicine changes, my parents thought that way was safer as did I, every time my medicine is changed or adjusted now I go there. When I turned 13 I was a victim of attempted rape, this occurred 2 more times when I was 15. I am thankful for the people who helped me when I needed help. When my parents were told they sent me to a mental hospital to get the coping skills I needed and to check my medication levels. I ended up at home with new medicines, which have not been changed. These parts of me are the hardest parts to remember, but they have made me the young woman that people see today. These are the problems that made me fall, but now I am back on my feet and standing strong

 

Your problems make you who you are. Because how you react affects your character.

 

I gotta be honest that's a pretty inspiring story there. I've kinda went down on a large depression state for a few years 2009-2011. Smoking cigarettes and marijuana, suicide attempts, barricading myself in my room without food or drinks etc. Rough path I went through. The cause of my depression was mainly man terrible family. Both of my brothers are psychopaths and the oldest has been to an Asylum, a few foster homes, etc. then He finally came home and he once again went to another place for people of his type. Anyhow the point of him coming and leaving was he always tried to kill me and my family and such. The second oldest brother just liked to steal my valuables and things of meaning and destroy them and he would mess my room up too. My mom she never cared about me but only them always grounding me and blaming things on me and when they get caught in the act they never get grounded meanwhile I always was. Smoking I got into from my oldest brother who forced me to by threats became a habit and i started doing it often then quitting then often once more then quit again. I have officially quit thanks to the guy I love http://kh13.com/forum/public/style_emoticons/default/happy.png But I think everyone has rough times in life and the times of happening vary i suppose. Me I tried suicide quite often jumped off a bridge survive no injury held knives to my throat and other things that I'm not proud of but I'm glad all of that's over But if anyone's going through a rough time just know the bad times will end

 

Don't think I wrote a bit of the story but that's a large majority of it in a few easy sentences.

Edited June 24, 2012 by Libirica

[Xer 670]

Ok so my college partner Ema[Which I like] is acting weird lately, what is going on? Sometimes she looks serious to me, but other times she is being sweet to me and everything, she says that She wants to see me more time.

 

What da heck is happening and how can I solve this?

[Koko 3,944]

Ok so my college partner Ema[Which I like] is acting weird lately, what is going on? Sometimes she looks serious to me, but other times she is being sweet to me and everything, she says that She wants to see me more time.

 

What da heck is happening and how can I solve this?

 

I don't see how this is any sort of serious problem If she likes you, she likes you, if she doesn't, she doesn't. Just ask her yourself.

[Weedanort 8,787]

I have a party this weekend. My buddy told me to be at his place at 18:00. He said that the party would last until 05:00.

 

The problem is that I have a concert the day after the party. The bus leaves at 06:30, and we'll be back at 04:00 of the next day.

 

He really wants me to be in his party, since he turns 18.

 

What can I do?

[Xer 670]

I have a party this weekend. My buddy told me to be at his place at 18:00. He said that the party would last until 05:00.

 

The problem is that I have a concert the day after the party. The bus leaves at 06:30, and we'll be back at 04:00 of the next day.

 

He really wants me to be in his party, since he turns 18.

 

What can I do?

 

OOOH thats a hard one....

[4Everbee 1,365]

I have a party this weekend. My buddy told me to be at his place at 18:00. He said that the party would last until 05:00.

 

The problem is that I have a concert the day after the party. The bus leaves at 06:30, and we'll be back at 04:00 of the next day.

 

He really wants me to be in his party, since he turns 18.

 

What can I do?

 

Leave before the party ends? Stay 2-3 hours then leave.

[Weedanort 8,787]

Leave before the party ends? Stay 2-3 hours then leave.

 

The problem is that this party will rock hard.

 

And now a girl I know wants to stay with me in that party long enough if you know what I mean

Edited July 11, 2012 by Sora's Little Helper

[4Everbee 1,365]

The problem is that this party will rock hard.

 

And now a girl I know wants to stay with me in that party long enough if you know what I mean

 

Ew. Just ew. I really don't need to know that dude.

Anyways.

I say tell your friend that you can't go. If you have things to do then you shouldn't go.