Sigh.. I don’t usually need help but I need help and comfort this time.. =/.. I need hugs.. =/.. I just hate firetrucking love..

 

This story does get intense..

This is the base story;

 

It started last year, I met a nice and pretty girl, lets call her “Molly” (fake name of course). Well, I found her attractive and stuff, and I actually had a crush on her. She took note, and we became friends. As time moved along we became closer and closer friends, my feelings got stronger and stronger, etc, etc, etc.. She was always there for me, she helped me when I need helped and I helped her when she needed help. My feelings for her were higher and higher..

One day she was crying, she was upset because she felt that no man would ever want her. We spent the whole night that night talking, and I told her how I felt, that I really liked her, actually “more then like”. She listened, she told me she likes me more, and that she actually wants to be with me.. (ha firetrucking bitch)..

We never dated, and it was a month later, of us talking of us and other talks and actions, that I was convinced I was in love with this girl.

It was later in time that I found out she liked my best friend “Carl” (ofc fake name). They started dating. Jealousy and hurt started taking over my life as I watched them.. Each kiss was like a bullet. Though, this is where I started realizing (not really, I was head over heels in love with her) what she truly was.. We still talked, by then I had told her I was in love with her. THOUGH, she told me she loved me back, she still wanted to be with me.

Another guy “John” was her ex boy-friend, he was back, she was always hitting on him. So lets get this straight. She was hitting on me, hitting on John, and dating Carl. OK then..

She ended up cheating with Carl with me and John, she kissed us/held hands/told us she wanted to be with us/etc.. She told me she loved us. She wanted to be with us. Etc. I was blinded, I was heads over heals in love with her..

She told Carl she was cheating on him with me and John. It destroyed my best friends relationship.. He was my main man.. I feel like the worst friend ever, I am the worst friend ever..

This whole ordeal continued for almost a year… Playing cheating etc etc..

My love for her became hate, by the begging of the school year I figured what she was; a no good, cheating lying ass bitch.. (shouldn’t be so nice).. I hate her, we don’t talk anymore. I loved that girl though and she romantically scarred me, props forever.

 

 

Present: (again in short)

John was dating this one girl, cheated on her twice, and went back to molly about 4 months ago.. I really liked the girl he was dating “Rose”

Rose is well, very flirtsy (sexually and not) and we flirted blah blah.. She told me she wanted a real man who leave her/cheat on her.. Someone she would be happy with and also have fun with.. We Recently we started dating.. But; There was a misunderstanding.

She was flirting with all these guys since we were dating.. Um? Okay? You usually don’t do that when your dating someone, correct? (This was pretty hardcore stuff.. I was getting upset…)

She said we were “casual dating” 2 days ago. Meaning that she’s just trying to find “Who fits her best”… She says shes not tied down to anyone..

 

....

 

 

 

 

I really like this girl.. And this just tore at my still weak heart.. She told me she doesn’t want anything serious, but I want serious.. She doesn't know what she wants.. She might not want me.. But I want her.. She says we are dating; “going on dates” not in a relationship..

Sigh…

She says if we go on more dates, maybe something will happen.. but no promises… She will go on other dates with other guys to see what there like..

I never have heard of such a thing.. Never.. Im hurting, lost and confused… I don’t know if my heart can wait for her.. Because all I feel like is that im going to get hurt again..

I feel this is a repeat of last year with Molly..

 

What do I do :’[

Why are Women so firetrucking difficult..?!

Why do the nice and real men finish last…?...

 

Sigh :’c Give me hugs.. T_T

I hear you man. Women are real bitches sometimes.

 

Here's a massive bro-hug for ya, bro.

Sigh.. I don’t usually need help but I need help and comfort this time.. =/.. I need hugs.. =/.. I just hate firetrucking love..

 

This story does get intense..

This is the base story;

 

It started last year, I met a nice and pretty girl, lets call her “Molly” (fake name of course). Well, I found her attractive and stuff, and I actually had a crush on her. She took note, and we became friends. As time moved along we became closer and closer friends, my feelings got stronger and stronger, etc, etc, etc.. She was always there for me, she helped me when I need helped and I helped her when she needed help. My feelings for her were higher and higher..

One day she was crying, she was upset because she felt that no man would ever want her. We spent the whole night that night talking, and I told her how I felt, that I really liked her, actually “more then like”. She listened, she told me she likes me more, and that she actually wants to be with me.. (ha firetrucking bitch)..

We never dated, and it was a month later, of us talking of us and other talks and actions, that I was convinced I was in love with this girl.

It was later in time that I found out she liked my best friend “Carl” (ofc fake name). They started dating. Jealousy and hurt started taking over my life as I watched them.. Each kiss was like a bullet. Though, this is where I started realizing (not really, I was head over heels in love with her) what she truly was.. We still talked, by then I had told her I was in love with her. THOUGH, she told me she loved me back, she still wanted to be with me.

Another guy “John” was her ex boy-friend, he was back, she was always hitting on him. So lets get this straight. She was hitting on me, hitting on John, and dating Carl. OK then..

She ended up cheating with Carl with me and John, she kissed us/held hands/told us she wanted to be with us/etc.. She told me she loved us. She wanted to be with us. Etc. I was blinded, I was heads over heals in love with her..

She told Carl she was cheating on him with me and John. It destroyed my best friends relationship.. He was my main man.. I feel like the worst friend ever, I am the worst friend ever..

This whole ordeal continued for almost a year… Playing cheating etc etc..

My love for her became hate, by the begging of the school year I figured what she was; a no good, cheating lying ass bitch.. (shouldn’t be so nice).. I hate her, we don’t talk anymore. I loved that girl though and she romantically scarred me, props forever.

 

 

Present: (again in short)

John was dating this one girl, cheated on her twice, and went back to molly about 4 months ago.. I really liked the girl he was dating “Rose”

Rose is well, very flirtsy (sexually and not) and we flirted blah blah.. She told me she wanted a real man who leave her/cheat on her.. Someone she would be happy with and also have fun with.. We Recently we started dating.. But; There was a misunderstanding.

She was flirting with all these guys since we were dating.. Um? Okay? You usually don’t do that when your dating someone, correct? (This was pretty hardcore stuff.. I was getting upset…)

She said we were “casual dating” 2 days ago. Meaning that she’s just trying to find “Who fits her best”… She says shes not tied down to anyone..

 

....

 

 

 

 

I really like this girl.. And this just tore at my still weak heart.. She told me she doesn’t want anything serious, but I want serious.. She doesn't know what she wants.. She might not want me.. But I want her.. She says we are dating; “going on dates” not in a relationship..

Sigh…

She says if we go on more dates, maybe something will happen.. but no promises… She will go on other dates with other guys to see what there like..

I never have heard of such a thing.. Never.. Im hurting, lost and confused… I don’t know if my heart can wait for her.. Because all I feel like is that im going to get hurt again..

I feel this is a repeat of last year with Molly..

 

What do I do :’[

Why are Women so firetrucking difficult..?!

Why do the nice and real men finish last…?...

 

Sigh :’c Give me hugs.. T_T

 

I'm sorry. I cannot help you. That is how life works there isn't a different way that girls can "love", they just want attention..girls are difficult to explain

Hmmm....I will say this though, As long as there still the chance of making up with your friends then that's all that matters and also, The person who cheated on you is pathetic for just to find pleasure in cheating on you and others is just time wasting and stupid, It's like trying to get approval from a parent who may or may not even love you for the person you are or where you come from and what it is you want to do for a living or what it is you want to accomplish for a dream that may or may not even ridicule when in fact they should be supportive and shouldn't even think that they are above you and should at least try to be happy that you are who are, where you come from, what it is you want to do for a living and what it is you want to accomplish in your life, be it a dream or anything else but anyways, sorry for going off track but also let me say this, whenever me and you are online, feel free to allways come and talk to me and trust me, i will at least try to listen to what you have to say and what is bothering you and i will also at least try to be surrportive in any way i can be if it's both within my reach and/or power, as long as it's nothing bad at all and finally you shouldn't wait for a girl who says stupid things like she's going on dates with multiple men to see what they are, i mean you aren't doing the same with anyone else are you? and also, if she loves you then she should of stuck with you right from the get go and not do stupid things like going out on multiple dates with different men each time because where's the fun in that? i'll tell you what i believe-empty fun, the kind they think is fun but when they realise that this kind of fun is hurting others do they hopefully realise in the end it's empty, there is no joy and pleasure in fun that causes others to hurt and even there is, those are just horrible emotions they may or may even not just continue on with and if they do continue on with these stupid emotions then i pity them but you my friend, you should find someone who you should really care for and not just appearance wise though i admit that appearance isn't in itself bad but rather you won't find all the answers in appearance only, no you need to see them for their personality first and see if they are the right kind of girl you want to be with, welp i have said i wanted to say, i hope you cheer up soon :].

 

p.s

 

sorry for the long post.

Damn, I know how it feels like with the whole "Molly" thing. As for "Rose", dump the "Clueless" girl. She's not worth it. It seems like she's only into open relationships when clearly you want her to commit. Don't give her the chance to mess up your heart even more. It's not worth it, SHE's not worth it.You definitely needz hugs! I shall give you bro-hug! *Hugs* IM me or something and we can talk. I'll let you know how i can relate to this if you want.

Thanks everyone..

I don't like giving ppl hugs

Anyways.

Sorry to hear that dude. But if it makes you feel better. Someday your find the one who won't cheat on you. You just gotta keep believing. When a door closes,

Another one opens. You just have to look for it.

Break up with her and find someone who actually wants a serious relationship.

Easy fix.

Don't beat yourself up and don't blame her either because she shouldn't have to be in a serious relationship just because you want to. If she wants to go on dates with different guys and find someone she is willing to have a serious relationship with, let her.

Just stop going on dates with her if it bothers you and find someone else.

Dude if she's a wishy-washy girl who doesn't know what the hell she wants then just kick her to the curb.

You don't have to wait for a girl who might not even want to get serious with you.

 

I mean Jesus, who the hell says "I'll go on dates with you but idk if I like you or will ever like you lol"?

Seems nowadays everyone is having love problems. I love how we can all somehow relate to each other.

 

On another note, they're just wasting your time so leave em. There's a special Girl/Guy for everyone out there. Don't let the heartbreak rule you, otherwise you'll be in a spiraling depression for a while.

Basically try to find a girl who wants to be in a relationship with you. A girl who does not want to go out with guys too see who they are like. If she does not want to be in any serious relationship at all, then find someone else who can. There are over 50 billion girls out there, and probably a bunch of them wants to be in a serious relationship. Rose and Molly seems like they dont take anything seriously at all. Also for your best friends, do they still even communicate with you or anything? They probably can forgive you unless you guys aren't that close as friends. Anyways, love hurts, you should know that. You even got into the same situation twice.

 

1) You did nothing. You tried to be nice but these girls dont seem to take things seriously.

2) Not exactly unless you take notice of their Menstrual Cycle. Oh wait your talking about feelings? All women aren't like that, just as all men (some women say) aren't idiots and jerks. It depends on the person.

3) You picked 2 girls who dont take shit seriously. I just wonder how their lives are going to turn out in the future.

 

Anyways, I think you should find better girls who you know a little better, that way you dont get upset about the same situation.

*BIG BUCKET OF LOVE AND HUGS*

So part two yay! My rage rant.. cause i need to let my rage off some way other then punching walls http://kh13.com/forum/public/style_emoticons/default/sleep.png

 

As for me and rose: we fixed things. We are friends again and she doesn't want my cock as much ._.

 

 

I say this has been going on for the past three weeks with molly.. my best friend for 12 years (sister basically) and me..

This is how it began:

 

Three weeks ago, my sister and molly got into huge ass fights almost daily. This is because Molly dated my sisters current boyfriend and is now jealous/wanting him back like she does with all her exs. (just to ditch them two weeks later for some other guy). Luckily my Sister's boyfriend doesn't believe in cheating/hates her and told her to piss off. My sister found out: shes the one that would attack someone full on for talking to her boy friend.. So yes... it was bad.. and fights were caused: started by Molly.

This is the thing: Molly started the fights, she said the worse parts of the fight. Always provoking. etc. Who got in trouble? My sister and friends who stood up with her..

Where was i: i was away from that area mostly because i didn't want to fight because if i got angered. i would of found a table to flip: at molly.

 

a week or two went by.. and things seemed to go quiet..

until.

 

Last Friday there was a dance at my school. I said eh, i guess i'll go so i did. Though none of my friends were there and in general suckish dance.. Though; my friend (carl) was there: my friend thats friendship ended up being broken apart due to molly.. We talked for the first time in a year.. i was so happy :') We acted like normal friends again.. it was amazing.. and now i kinda know our friendship is getting back together..

 

Everything was good, until that bitch showed up... (with one of her exsx3 to boot haha)

 

My friend and i were talking, and he went inside to get a drink. Though, from the corner of my eye i saw the bitch come right up to me. With her fake smile, fake goodness/intent, fake everything. She talked to me the first time in a year.

 

her: "Hi Kurt! Where did Carl go??"

me: "........................inside." (very nasty voice i should say.)

her: "Oh.. Are you mad at me?"

me: "..............................."

her: "Do you want my phone number??"

me: ".............................................."

her: "okayy.. well byee" *leaves*

 

me: "...." *walks over to wall, punches*

 

That.. That... im so enraged.. the pure firetrucking nerve... Specially when she knew me and my friend were talking...

I ended up leaving early that dance.

I didn't see my friend at all the rest night: probably that bitch was with him.

All i earned that night was bloody knuckles.. literally..

 

So now: im positive she is targeting me now. Attacking me. Cause shes a bitch like that.

For the past two days in study hall: all shes been doing is staring at me, and hounding my friends. (hound/flirt/all over each other/yuck)

Purposely walking as close to my table in study hall all over some guy.

Getting into my lunch and finding a spot somewhere in the lunch room so im looking exactly at her.

Shes always staring at me. She has a firetrucking starting issue: take a firetrucking picture it lasts longer.

My friends are being idiots. They hang/cling/flirt/all over/basic dry humping/ firetrucking disgusting shit with her each and every firetrucking everyday: no matter the warnings i gave. All they want is to get it in.. well they found their way to get it in. W.e. they can go ruin their firetrucking lives.

 

I just been getting so firetrucking enraged and i needed to get a way out.

Today when she walked extra close/all over some guy to my table i lost it.

 

I told her to get firetrucking away and get a firetrucking room.

She heard.

Nothings happened yet.

Nothing but her and her other friends staring at me at lunch.

 

haha okay then!

Im waiting for tomorrow to see what happens!

 

Wow i feel so much better to get this off my chest..

Edited May 1, 201213 yr by Wolfgang

Awwwwww man, u rlly need a hug. Yeah, there are bitches like her that like playing with others' feelings.. But haven't the other boys still figured out what kind of a bitch she is? Anyway, forget about her, i'm sure there's lots of girls just waiting you to ask them out, hopefully one of them is the girl for you.

*HUGS*

Edited May 1, 201213 yr by Setting Sun<3

 

This for a while.

 

Man, women are VERY VERY VERY confusing and hard to deal with. But hey, what can you do? Just try to make the best of having to deal with them. You'll find some that are a blast to be with. Life is full of things that are hard to deal with, jusy don't give in and keep learning. You figure out how to deal, man.

i feel u bro its those sluts that do that at my school like almost every week we have fights over stuff like this anyway if u ever need a bro to chat with im here