Hey guys, I don't know if any of you has heard about this yet, but there is a movie coming out soon about bullying.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eUy2ZWoStr0

 

This is very close to my heart and it needs to stop. If you go to their website you can sign up to take a pledge, you can also demand the movie to come to your town, and today they are having a mass status update where you update your status on twitter announcing you are going to stop bullying. Please spread the word and see the movie March 30th!

Not just when their little. Even when their teens. And we CAN do something about it. And no not all go through bulling.

 

How can we stop "bulling" if they're just gonna keep on bulling?

Edited March 28, 201213 yr by ami

I don't think it's possible. How can we stop "bulling" if they're just gonna keep on bulling?

 

We can stop bulling.

If they put cams in the hallways of the school.

If the bus diver tells the school what kids are doing to other kids on the bus.

If every month the school says something about bulling. And there are so many other ways to put an end to bulling.

Oh and if the bus diver don't tell the school. A teacher should be on each bus to make sure no kids are getting hurt or bulled.

We can stop bulling.

If they put cams in the hallways of the school.

If the bus diver tells the school what kids are doing to other kids on the bus.

If every month the school says something about bulling. And there are so many other ways to put an end to bulling.

Oh and if the bus diver don't tell the school. A teacher should be on each bus to make sure no kids are getting hurt or bulled.

 

The case is solved.

The case is solved.

 

What do you mean the case is solved???????

What do you mean the case is solved???????

 

Problem is solved.

Problem is solved.

 

..........................-facepalm-

I'm sorry but WHAT? No. Just cause you didn't give a shit. Don't mean other's don't give a shit.

There are so many kids who try to not give a shit. But the crap they say about them. The things they do to them. It hurts.

And kids try to make it look like they don't care. And still people pick on them.

 

Did I say that everyone doesn't? Kids are pretty god damn wimpy if they can't stand to bullying. It's pretty easy to ignore and walk away, nothing they say is ever true LOL.

Did I say that everyone doesn't? Kids are pretty god damn wimpy if they can't stand to bullying. It's pretty easy to ignore and walk away, nothing they say is ever true LOL.

 

I don't think I'm wimpy at all

and it was hard to walk away because it started when I was like 6 and these kids would corner and ridicule me every chance they got

and they would call me fat, ugly and say everyone hated me and I should go kill myself.

I don't know about you, but my 6 year old self actually took this to heart. Because in my mind, it was true.

Looks like this one of those movies I'll go see by personal reasons.

 

Did I say that everyone doesn't? Kids are pretty god damn wimpy if they can't stand to bullying. It's pretty easy to ignore and walk away, nothing they say is ever true LOL.

 

If you have the physical advantage and the guts, there's no problem.

 

I'd like to see what you would do if you were short, skinny, without any friends and try to take on more than 5 kids who where tougher and taller than you.

I don't think I'm wimpy at all

and it was hard to walk away because it started when I was like 6 and these kids would corner and ridicule me every chance they got

and they would call me fat, ugly and say everyone hated me and I should go kill myself.

I don't know about you, but my 6 year old self actually took this to heart. Because in my mind, it was true.

 

I understand where both sides are coming from on this. Bullies can be cruel and can use a group mentality to make you believe that everyone thinks the same thing about you and beat your self esteem down. Its heartbreaking.However, in my case and in several other cases ive seen, bulliess hate to be confronted and called out. The moment you say firetruck off and who the h*ll are you and stand up for yourselves they often dont know what to say or do and get embarrassed. Ive seen it many times. You have got to stand up for yourself .Its the only way.I personally think bullies themselves compensate for their own personal inadequacies by making others feel bad to make themselves feel better .

I'd like to see what you would do if you were short, skinny, without any friends and try to take on more than 5 kids who where tougher and taller than you.

 

I'd like to say that I was short and skinny at the time (I'm now tall and skinny) and it was just me who brushed off the 'bullies'. Although, most of you talking to me are women so I guess there's a difference. http://kh13.com/forum/public/style_emoticons/default/smiley-confuse.png

I personally think bullies themselves compensate for their own personal inadequacies by making others feel bad to make themselves feel better .

 

actually, in most cases, bullies have very high self-esteem and put down other people because they feel like they can and because they think they're superior. very few actually do it to make themselves feel better.

Edited March 28, 201213 yr by Madotsuki

actually, in most cases, bullies have very high self-esteem and put down other people because they feel like they can and because they think they're superior. very few actually do it to make themselves feel better.

 

this

i have no idea where the whole 'BULLIES ARE INSECURE TOO' thing came from

that makes it sound like bullies are the actual victims

I'd like to say that I was short and skinny at the time (I'm now tall and skinny) and it was just me who brushed off the 'bullies'. Although, most of you talking to me are women so I guess there's a difference. http://kh13.com/forum/public/style_emoticons/default/smiley-confuse.png

 

Then it's just you and a few number of other people as well.

 

Most of the people that are bullied can't fight back.

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i have no idea where the whole 'BULLIES ARE INSECURE TOO' thing came from

that makes it sound like bullies are the actual victims

 

I never said bullies were victims. Just that in my personal opinion i think they find pleasure in putting others down to make themselves feel better due to their own personal insecurities. I know several " former " bullies who confess that they often bullied others for this reason.This is why i think this.

I never said bullies were victims. Just that in my personal opinion i think they find pleasure in putting others down to make themselves feel better due to their own personal insecurities. I know several " former " bullies who confess that they often bullied others for this reason.This is why i think this.

 

People bullie others for personal reasons.

 

Probably they have problems at home or something.

 

By bullying others they feel better about themselves.

 

But bullying also makes more victims.

 

They have to find another way to feel better, bullying can really make a person's childhood very bad, and probably scar them for life.

People bullie others for personal reasons.

 

Probably they have problems at home or something.

 

By bullying others they feel better about themselves.

 

But bullying also makes more victims.

 

They have to find another way to feel better, bullying can really make a person's childhood very bad, and probably scar them for life.

 

Yes i agree with this wholeheartedly. The scars never go away .I should know.

I'd like to say that I was short and skinny at the time (I'm now tall and skinny) and it was just me who brushed off the 'bullies'. Although, most of you talking to me are women so I guess there's a difference. http://kh13.com/forum/public/style_emoticons/default/smiley-confuse.png

 

.. So your saying girls can't fight? But boys can???????? Boys to can't just brush off bullies.

.. So your saying girls can't fight? But boys can???????? Boys to can't just brush off bullies.

 

Very few boys can.

 

The same goes for girls.

There are two kids that are bullied at my school. One is an ass and thinks he's superior, and I've tried talking to him, but eh. He needs to realize he's not better and he'll stop getting bullied. The other is the most kind, thoughtful, and caring person in the whole school. But he doesn't have friends. So yesterday, I stood up for him. I got punched in the face. But you what? Seeing that smile on his face, and the spring in his step the rest of the day made me the happiest person in the whole world. And you know what? I don't regret standing up for him one bit.

Edited March 31, 201213 yr by Number XV

There are two kids that are bullied at my school. One is an ass and thinks he's superior, and I've tried talking to him, but eh. He needs to realize he's not better and he'll stop getting bullied. The other is the most kind, thoughtful, and caring person in the whole school. But he doesn't have friends. So yesterday, I stood up for him. I got punched in the face. But you what? Seeing that smile on his face, and the spring in his step the rest of the day made me the happiest person in the whole world. And you know what? I don't regret standing up for him one bit.

 

That other kid who is an ass. He most likely just trying to be cool for he can stop being bulled.

Yes i agree with this wholeheartedly. The scars never go away .I should know.

 

As do I,

My elementary didn't teach me alot about various people,

and beacuse of that lack on knowledge some fat girl in my middle school and her friends turned those 3 years of my life into a living hell.

I wish I had the knowledge I have now to fix what happend then,but in spite of it all you can't live in the past.

But we can help stop bullying for kids who deserve a good future.

Edited April 12, 201213 yr by Lady Dreana