The person I've loved for 7 years is calling me out on it. I know he doesn't love me but he wants me to date this girl who has a crush on me. But I'm gay (and he knows this) so I obviously don't have any romantic feelings for her. I know I should let go of him but I don't want to be alone... And I don't want to fake being happy with a relationship that wouldn't be real to me... I don't know what to do... Anyway... Sorry for my bitching but I just felt like I needed to vent...

What kind of friend tries to change you by trying to get you to date a girl fully knowing you're gay and wont be happy? Change for NO ONE..True friends care for your happiness and so should you .Dont date a girl just to make anyone happy. Its not fair to her or you .

If you don't like it, don't do it. And you'll find somebody who you really love and who loves you too. Just wait. Or don't wait, do something for it.

 

But until then, smile

You don't have to do anything you don't want to and if you're friend can't respect that, then he's no friend.

Someone who truly loves you won't risk to destroy your happiness. You deserve so much more than that. You're worth everything, and if your friend doesn't see that and hold you in that regard, they're not worth it. You'll never be alone, because the sooner you drop someone that is dragging you down the sooner your lifted up by a better opportunity.

The person I've loved for 7 years is calling me out on it. I know he doesn't love me but he wants me to date this girl who has a crush on me. But I'm gay (and he knows this) so I obviously don't have any romantic feelings for her. I know I should let go of him but I don't want to be alone... And I don't want to fake being happy with a relationship that wouldn't be real to me... I don't know what to do... Anyway... Sorry for my bitching but I just felt like I needed to vent...

 

Is this your first love, either if it is or not, the fact remains that you may have heard this already or not but you need to move on or at least im recommending you to do so because you'll never get any benefits at all if you "remain in the same place all your life" know what i mean and trust me i know what that is like, not exactly through love but through other things but i believe the same result still appears no matter "what route you take" and so that is why you need to force yourself to at least try and put the past behind you and move on and find someone else, one who will be accepting of your love and will appriciate you for it, just believe in that and i think and hope you'll do fine :].

Like the others said. No need to date a girl if youre not into girls. But staying stuck on a guy that isnt into men doesnt make sense either. Just like you cant change your sexuality, he also cant change himself from being straight. Its the sad truth so move on. He seems like a douchebag anyway.

Kinda what Loki said

He can't force you to be straight and you shouldn't be stuck on him if he isn't gay

You should just talk things straight and be just friends

Wow guys. Thank you for all the support. I never actually expected anyone to reply to this. You're all awesome!

I know I should let go of him but I don't want to be alone....

 

psst here's a little secret whatever happens u wont be alone u got us UR KH13 FAMILY!