There is this girl, and I'm a good friend of her and everything, I treat her like a princess, and as you see, I,m completly in love with her. However she told me that she only wants to be friends with me.

Till here as you see its the normal friendzoned guy case, however what is haunting me is that whenever I try to move on, I see other girls and honestly... I don't want other girls, I want her. And I'm starting to wonder if I'm obssesed with her. What I'm asking is for advices to move on, cuz I'm seriously getting woried about this.

Since you're "completely in love with her" you're obviously not gonna like other girls (so it's a bit impossible to try and rebound and move on when you can't even get interested in the first place). But if she doesn't reciprocate you have no choice. Typically the best thing to do would be to distance yourself from her, 'til you've either moved on from her or are dating someone else. When you "love" someone, being around them often only makes you like them more, which would be grand if she felt the same, but she doesn't. It's gonna take time but eventually you'll find someone else who loves you as equally as you love them.

I know that feel bro

There is this girl, and I'm a good friend of her and everything, I treat her like a princess, and as you see, I,m completly in love with her.

 

 

boy if i had a nickel for everytime i heard that...

boy if i had a nickel for everytime i heard that...

 

Not sure if your saying that being friendzoned is a common evil or if your saying that I,m lying.

Prove to her that you can treat her more than just a princess. Treat her more as a woman you love. Screw friendzone, be a man, and prove to her that you wanna be the man she can rely on. Not just get things/presents from you.

Prove to her that you can treat her more than just a princess. Treat her more as a woman you love. Screw friendzone, be a man, and prove to her that you wanna be the man she can rely on. Not just get things/presents from you.

 

This going to make sound like a loser/noob, but could someone elaborate.

This going to make sound like a loser/noob, but could someone elaborate.

 

To make things easier for you. Ask yourself this.

 

Do you love her as a woman? like someone who you wanna be with for the rest of your life?

 

Love and Obsession can have the same meaning in some form together.

 

What do you see in her? What did she do to make you fall for her? Because we don't know what she is like or what her personalities are. Only you know. So ask yourself that and meet with her again to make sure.

Not sure if your saying that being friendzoned is a common evil or if your saying that I,m lying.

 

I'm saying that every guy thinks he's treating his love like a princess and i have heard the whole "princess treatment" thing several times.

What if you just think you're treating her like a princess?

To make things easier for you. Ask yourself this.

 

Do you love her as a woman? like someone who you wanna be with for the rest of your life?

 

Love and Obsession can have the same meaning in some form together.

 

What do you see in her? What did she do to make you fall for her? Because we don't know what she is like or what her personalities are. Only you know. So ask yourself that and meet with her again to make sure.

 

Love and Obsession however are things completly different. Mainly because love is good, obsession is bad.

You gotta learn the difference. Either the hard or the harder way. Because there is no easy way...

 

Since you're "completely in love with her" you're obviously not gonna like other girls (so it's a bit impossible to try and rebound and move on when you can't even get interested in the first place). But if she doesn't reciprocate you have no choice. Typically the best thing to do would be to distance yourself from her, 'til you've either moved on from her or are dating someone else. When you "love" someone, being around them often only makes you like them more, which would be grand if she felt the same, but she doesn't. It's gonna take time but eventually you'll find someone else who loves you as equally as you love them.

 

I couldn't have said it better.

And... Thank you for proving me that the word Reciprocate actually exists 8D. I used it once while talking to my ex and she started laughing at me.

Love and Obsession however are things completly different. Mainly because love is good, obsession is bad.

You gotta learn the difference. Either the hard or the harder way. Because there is no easy way...

 

Like I said. It can be the same meaning in some form together. Obsession has a lot of meaning to it and is never always bad.

 

There is no such thing as hard or easy when it comes to loving someone, It just comes from experience.

I'm in a very similar situation right now and I know it sucks. Most of my life, I've wanted a girlfriend, any girl would work as long as there's some sort of mutual attraction. Now I've met the girl I want and she doesn't like me back. I don't hate her for it, but I am very hurt and the pain doesn't seem to be going away any time soon. Honestly, I've lost all drive to want a girlfriend that's not her. But maybe one day I'll get over her. I don't want to, but it's for the best. Only time will tell.

Since you're "completely in love with her" you're obviously not gonna like other girls (so it's a bit impossible to try and rebound and move on when you can't even get interested in the first place). But if she doesn't reciprocate you have no choice. Typically the best thing to do would be to distance yourself from her, 'til you've either moved on from her or are dating someone else. When you "love" someone, being around them often only makes you like them more, which would be grand if she felt the same, but she doesn't. It's gonna take time but eventually you'll find someone else who loves you as equally as you love them.

 

Spot on advice right here. I'd go with this one if I were you.

Screw friendzone, you have love.

move on i know guys who have been freind zoned and they still want to be with there crush even though there crush is married and has kids, and i dont think anyone wants to be in that situation