a girl breaks up with you because you are too nice?

I can't know . I never had a girlfriend .

 

and then goes out with a jerk. later, gets sad  because he doesnt care about her.

humans are stupid. thats why im a saiyan.

Edited January 17, 201411 yr by Sakuraba Neku

Well if you're like overly clingy and boring she might not have fun being with you.Did you even consider the possibility that being "nice" wasn't the problem?

Edited January 17, 201411 yr by Col.Random

I can't know . I never had a girlfriend .

 

 

Isn't that gif... I don't know... Overused?

Isn't that gif... I don't know... Overused?

No , not really .

The majority of my break ups have either been mutual (just fell out of liking each other/got to know each other and weren't interested anymore)/were me cause I'm a strong independent black woman who don't need no man.  Or woman.

 

Well if you're like overly clingy and boring she might not have fun being with you.Did you even consider the possibility that being "nice" wasn't the problem?

 

^  This"Too nice" is usually a code for boring/needy/unexciting/unchallenging/clingy/insecure/too sensitive/awkward, all of the above or a mixture of them.  

No one wants someone who's texting them from the toilet saying they miss you so much while they take a dump.

 

ps. pretty sure there's a number of people who get ditched being told they're "too nice" who would happily swing their junk around town if they had the balls to pull and be successful about it.  

Sometimes I wonder if guys even listen to the words coming out of their mouths when they say a girl broke up with them because he was nice to her.  Then in the aftermath, they somehow reach the conclusion that girls only date douchebags.  Certainly, because that marriages are inherently broken; women lack the mental functions to decide for themselves what constitutes a healthy and functional relationship, and it's up to the guy to decide for her because he's nice to her.  Niceness, after all, is such a scarcity on this planet, and you are one of the few people who can provide it regardless of any other kind of compatibility issues.

 

Tip: if a girl breaks up with you legitimately because you were nice to her, she's not someone you wanna date.

I look at it as more of a sugar coat since they don't want to flat out say "I don't like you" or "your not my type".