Hi, so I'm pretty sure everyone knows that I'm pretty sex positive. I thought it'd be a good idea to make this thread to have discussions and just educate everyone

 

First of all, sex is natural.

Sex is good.

Sex doesn't have to wait till you're married (but it's fine if you do).

Sex doesn't have to be between a man and a woman.

Sex doesn't have to be painful (sometimes it is, sometimes it's not, depending on the preperation prior).

Having sex at a young age does not take away your self worth or self respect.

Not having sex does not make you a prude.

Exploring your sexuality is fine and encouraged. 

 

I do not believe in the stupid sex ed abstinence programs that tell you horror stories about sex and scare you. That is bullshit. If you want to have sex DO IT. If you want to masturbate DO IT. If you want to watch porn DO IT. It's YOUR body and you can do what you wish with it. Just be safe and use protection to avoid STDs and unwanted pregnancies. 

 

Now I believe most kids actually start showing masturbatory tendencies at young ages (not really knowing what they're doing) and many times parents discourage them from exploring their sexuality. That is just no don't do that. It's fine and wonderful to explore your sexuality! Never shame anyone for indulging in sex or masturbation because it's perfectly natural to have urges. 

 

Now, I don't know how to explain everything about sex and what I do know I can't put into words so I'll share videos by one of my favourite youtubers lacigreen (who explains things very well) throughout this thread

 

My biggest problem with what most people are taught about sex is that having sex makes you lesser than others. Slut shaming is really awful and no one should judge someone else for enjoying sex. Some people even go to the extent of shaming people who LOOK sexually promiscuous. The amount of skin someone shows does not determine their self worth either. 

 

 

Bisexuals don't get the best three ways. Pansexuals do cuz you never know what you're gonna get :]

Bisexuals don't get the best three ways. Pansexuals do cuz you never know what you're gonna get :]

 

I have been to places sexually a pansexual has never tread

i am not sure what sexuality i am

 

you know, being a kid

I guess it's because I don't really explore what I like. or i'm in constant denial about myself or some bullshit like that.

I'll find out eventually, even if 3 years seems like near forever

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6QFwo57WKwg&feature=related

 

I find this oddly relevant...

Lol Why are you sorry? Its not like I wear a sign on my face that says "HEY! IM A BISEXUAL!"

 

... but maybe I should

 

Welcome to NY, where they have gay parades almost everyday or week and they spray paint their sexual orientation on their stomach.

Yeah they are half naked almost all the time.

Lol Why are you sorry? Its not like I wear a sign on my face that says "HEY! IM A BISEXUAL!"

 

... but maybe I should

 

I dunno I felt rude for saying!

 

Btw being Bi is cheating man haha jks!

I love this board!

 

And I thought I might as well post it here, even though gender and sex aren't the same thing...

 

I came out to my mother as transsexual, and while she is accepting, she just doesn't understand. She thinks that maybe I've "misdiagnosed" myself, or says that plenty of girls are tomboyish. Also, she says that at my age, my hormones are out of balance and that might be confusing me(pretty sure that's not affecting who I am), or that since I have PCOS, maybe I saw the hormonal imbalance and testosterone issues and that affected my decision. She asks me questions that I don't know how to answer, like she asked me what I wanted that a boy has, and I just said "everything," because it's true. She asked me if I wanted to pee standing up, which I replied yes to, and then she asked me if I had ever tried doing that(I don't think it would end up well). Then she told me that transsexuals wanted to physically change and stuff, and it took me a while to respond that I DID want to physically change. I want short hair, though when she asked me how short, I had difficulty explaining the style I wanted it in.

She also asked if I like boys or girls, to which I replied boys, but I kept telling her that that has nothing to do with it. There was some other stuff we talked about, but you get the idea: she's seems okay with it, but she isn't sure that I'm really trans, and thinks that it is something else. I just don't know how to answer some of her questions, because I can't explain my feelings.

 

Also, she says she called an endocrinologist, and made an appointment I think...and she is trying to get in touch with my doctor as well. And I have been thinking about this since late March/early April, although I don't know when I started considering the possibility that I was trans(she asked me this a few times, to which I had no answer to).

 

So basically, I just want to know what I could tell her to help her understand that I'm not just "a tomboy," and that my feelings are real.

First of all, congrats on coming out to your mom! I'm glad it went mostly well (I know many people who've gotten kicked out of their homes after coming out as trans*). The best thing to do is just show her that you're a boy and you're not confused or anything. No one determines your gender except you! I'm sure she'll understand soon, just give her some time.

Thank you I knew she would never kick me out, but that was at the back of my mind all day-I don't think anyone deserve to get kicked out of their home(unless you're 30 and are capable of getting your own home)

 

And yea, I figured I should probably give her some time and try my best to answer her questions. Maybe once I get a hair cut and start wearing boy clothes all the time, she'll start to understand.

 

After that, I'll just have to deal with the rest of the family and school(bet that will be fun )

^^ good luck :] I came out to my mom as a panny and she doesn't understand. I'm too terrified to come out to the rest of my family. I'd get disowned so i'm glad your mom was accepting.

Sex is alright and not a big deal. Just make sure you and your partner feel comfortable about it and have the right mood. Don't be afraid to admit that you have a strong sexual urges. Not everyone in this world have the same mind and body.

http-~~-//www.youtube.com/watch?v=6QFwo57WKwg&feature=related

 

I find this oddly relevant...

 

Omg I saw this before its HORRIBLE

P.S.: Firetruck Kyle !!!

 

One of the videos suggests lube, but I gotta say, lube is really hard to get if youre younger than 18. Its damn frustrating.

 

I have 4 packs of lube (long story) want one?

I have 4 packs of lube (long story) want one?

 

Im good for now. Ill get back to you if I decide to whore myself.

Im good for now. Ill get back to you if I decide to whore myself.

 

Well they may be gone by then ;3

Life Lessons with Tom.

 

Sex is meh. Koko liez. Keep calm and become Virgin Heroes.

 

This has been Life Lessons with Tom.

It's not often that I will put on my serious face on this site. But I shall.

 

My personal opinion (meaning that you can't fault/bash/hate/anything me) is that sex is something special and sacred to be saved for a husband and wife. It is in marriage that they are ready to have and raise children. I am not against birth control because the number of children a couple will have is their private decision.

 

 

 

It's YOUR body and you can do what you wish with it. Just be safe and use protection to avoid STDs and unwanted pregnancies. 

 

 

I can't comment on this without being rude so I will just say I find this contradictory

 

 

I've never had sex okay

/shot

 

And this is why I think this rot should stop