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I'm a pretty sensible guy sometimes. Today, some people were making fun at me in class saying "Oh, he's not gonna get any girls", or "He is a dumbass." And I was pretty upset by all this. I didn't even do anything to anybody, and these guys are just being assholes toward me. I tried to tell me "friend" about this. But he took my situation as a joke, and was laughing. He could clearly see I was upset, and he just totally betrayed me like this! This is all firetrucked up! Why am I always getting firetrucked with?!?!

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Because society's messed up. Everyone (in general) hates anybody who's different or not well known to them, which leads to prejudice. Just deal with it; once you get older and start/pass college, it's not really as much of a problem anymore.

So sorry that happened. :O

It's best to just ignore what people say to you sometimes. I know it can be difficult, but by saying nothing to them that makes you the better person.

They just don't know that they should treat people they way they would want to be treated (people seem to forget about that) just keep your head up and pity them for not knowing how to be nice to other people.

I know it's hard, but those people don't even know you, so don't pay attention to what they say. The more angry you get, the more they'll keep making fun of you. Giving advice is much easier than actually doing it, but you got to at least try. 

And about your friend, well maybe he was just trying to cheer you up, or didn't understand how you felt. Try talking to him. Say it's annoying you.

And sometimes friends just do that. They act like this because they're intimate with you, and in one way, to say, "Don't worry about it." 

So... Don't worry about it xD 

*Sigh* Sadly, there are a lot of mean people out there. I can't remember a day when I WASN'T made fun of for all sorts of things. 

 

The best thing to do is just to ignore people, that's what I do. It's hard at first, but it gets easier.

Looks like you don't have very good 'friends'. Try making some new friends, someone who will respect you and care about you instead of just laughing when you are down.

Welcome to the real world. It gets worse from here.

Happened to me often in High School, I just ignored them and gave them the stinky eye, everywhere you go people will talk shit. Just ignore it, because while they sit around and act like dumbasses you'll be successful living out your own life while them and their pals are getting drunk acting like idiots possibly contracting an STD of some sort one day.

Because not everyone is gonna be nice to you for whatever reason.  Sometimes it's out of spite, sometimes it's out of ignorance, and sometimes it's out of apathy.  I dreaded going to school and was reduced to eating lunch in the bathroom alone when my friends didn't share my lunch period because I got teased so much, and I don't blame society or humans in general for what happened to me--not anymore, at least.  It's best to develop thick skin and the ability to brush things aside while you can, because you'll always have to deal with dicks in life; not everyone will treat you well, but that doesn't mean no one will.  It's that last part that teenagers tend to forget.

Just firetrucking ignore it and live your life.

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Thanks guys. I really appreciate what you guys are saying. I just need to be strong from now on, and not let anyone bring me down. I know it's easier said than done, but I'm gonna do it. You guys are awesome.

I couldn't agree with you more.  The best thing you can do is ignore them.  If they're just saying these things to entertain themselves, then they're not worth your time.

People tend to envy those who are more mature, or  more special than them. You just keep on moving, don't ever let them get you down. Once you are all older, whoever got the most girls or wasn't called a 'dumbass' isn't going to be any better than the rest of the people in this world.

Ugh, sorry to hear that happened to you. :( I go through something similar every day. The best thing to do is ignore them. It's easier said than done, but it's possible. Your friend doesn't sound like a very good friend, either. :/

Well, I could start with some other things but pretty much the point is that some people are mean. Just don't listen to them. If they're bothering you that much try ignoring them and if that doesn't work then tell someone about it. Good luck with everything and I hope things get better.

Some people in the world genuinely want to help others, whereas other people just want to hurt whoever they can.  I'm really sorry to hear those guys picked on you like that.  Unfortunately, the world is built up of people like that.  The best thing you can do for yourself is learn to ignore them, because really, they're never going to stop.  If they discover you're unaffected by their words and don't care, chances are they'll start feeling stupid.  Not saying they'll stop, but they might at least second guess themselves.

 

I have a friend who likes to make light of every situation, even if I think it's serious.  Sometimes it's annoying, but I really just think she's trying to make me smile.  Maybe your friend was trying to do something similar? 

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