Yes, of all people. Dolan is asking for some help. Please do try to be serious here, as I will too:

 

Some time earlier this month, I got into a forced relationship withs someone. (yes, don't ask how it happened) Apparently, they've liked me for around a year. (personally, 13 years old is way too young for this kind of activities) I couldn't just break-up with her immediately, so thought I'd use this to my advantage for future experiences. I didn't expect it last as long as it did. Eventually, some personal problems came about (this is me) and she suggested a break-up. (which I was happy and a little bit sad about at the same time) I took it, and I've been able to get rid of the problems. My problem isn't asking her out again, (because I'm waiting some 5 years) my problem is that she took everything wrong, even though she suggested the idea to break-up! Recently, if you even bother to read statues anymore. I became a hacker, and I hacked my ex-best friend's accounts. (that exists now) The account that really matters was his Skype. I was able to read his chat history with my ex, and discovered that she's been lying to me this entire time. If I have to share specifics, I will at a later time. I don't know when I should approach her about this because I don't want to ruin our friendship (She's basically one of my last IRL friends, I only got 4 left besides her)

 

I really wouldn't mind some help from you guys. Thanks in advance, Dolan.

Just break up with her and don't bring up the chat history. If she isn't stuck up then you should be able to remain friends.

Well a key hint is Girls are the second biggest lead of cover ups besides the US Government in the world. But I have deep faith that you will resolve these issues and that everything will become well as it once was. Just don't get into any creepy relationships man.

Well, what did your ex tell your friend, and wait you're a hacker? Plus, your friend's business is his business, and if you approached your ex about it, you'll have to tell her that you are a hacker.

two words : friend-zone her

 

it might seem cruel to other ppl but it seems rational

Shes lying to cover up her embarrassment and its just easier to make the other person the bad guy instead of herself. I say if youve broken up and arent currently looking for a relationship, then what does it matter? Let her lie all she wants until she decides to grow up. You have better things to worry about.

Shes lying to cover up her embarrassment and its just easier to make the other person the bad guy instead of herself. I say if youve broken up and arent currently looking for a relationship, then what does it matter? Let her lie all she wants until she decides to grow up. You have better things to worry about.

 

I didn't think about that. Thanks.

Whatever you do DO NOT BRING UP THE CHAT THING!!! Girls hate to be told wrong (or that they did something bad)... Plus (i think your about my age 14 right?) Well my generation likes to over exaggerate shit so she`ll think you are a stalking and that can ruin your social life (it`s either that or im thinking too much... lol)

Edited July 8, 201213 yr by DarkRealm20

yea dude, just let it go .. I've been caught in similar messes and it's better just to move on and not look back, especially if you weren't fully into the relationship in the first place. And probably stop hacking your friends conversations ... that's just asking for drama.

yea dude, just let it go .. I've been caught in similar messes and it's better just to move on and not look back, especially if you weren't fully into the relationship in the first place. And probably stop hacking your friends conversations ... that's just asking for drama.

 

I never actually talked to her on his account, just snooped around.

 

Just break up with her and don't bring up the chat history. If she isn't stuck up then you should be able to remain friends.

 

We're already apart, but the problem is that she wants to get back together at sometime. I don't want to out with a lier, I'm also stuck at that too.

Seriously, I'd just move on from her. Friends dont lie to each other.

You should just stay on friends zone with her.

I know one very same sounding story which is about my big bro and his ex (not intrested to explain any detail about it. but can say that it ended up with something horrible)

so you should just say straight that you aren't intrested, you have better to do,

it may be pretty hars, but it is fast and not as painful as other ways.

AND don't lie, don't let her lie, that is important

doesn't seem like much of a friendship. She might be talking to other people you know. She'll probably just end up bringing you down. Move on there are much better out there that you can meet

Edited July 8, 201213 yr by mnamikaze101

two words : friend-zone her

 

it might seem cruel to other ppl but it seems rational

 

That was incredibly misogynistic and the wrong thing to say.

I agree with Loki. If you don't want a relationship with her, and you just want to be friends, and bringing this up could wreck that (which you don't want), then there's no reason to bring it up right now. If she brings it up with you, then you can talk about it, or in the future it becomes something that you NEED to discuss, then bring it up, but for now, it's not something you have to do.

 

Though in my opinion, hacking into your friend's Skype and spying on their chat logs wasn't exactly the greatest thing to do, either.

You should forget her..Once you broke up,it's done.So avoid hacking through other people chats and shit.About the lies,I definitly agree with Loki.

If you were still in relationship,her lies would be a big problem.So in future,find somebody more honest so you can trust him.Now ,you're too young be in relationship.

Maybe when you get older relationship would be better for you(Trust me,I'm 14 and I still don't have a boyfriend.

 

I hope I helped.

That was incredibly misogynistic and the wrong thing to say.

 

meh

The past is the past, what's already done cannot be changed, and no matter what you or her could have done, the events have already been laid in motion. Just keep her friendship. Don't show her what you discovered, just keep on being friends. Besides, sometimes exes get along better as friends than whey they were together as a couple.

 

 

 

We're already apart, but the problem is that she wants to get back together at sometime. I don't want to out with a lier, I'm also stuck at that too.

 

You can say no.

Friends do not lie to each. So I say forget her.

Edited July 9, 201213 yr by 4Everbee

You should forget her..Once you broke up,it's done.So avoid hacking through other people chats and shit.About the lies,I definitly agree with Loki.

If you were still in relationship,her lies would be a big problem.So in future,find somebody more honest so you can trust him.Now ,you're too young be in relationship.

Maybe when you get older relationship would be better for you(Trust me,I'm 14 and I still don't have a boyfriend.

 

I hope I helped.

 

I didn't hack him just to get this information, I just did it because I got bored.

 

 

Friends do not lie to each. So I say forget her.

 

I'm trying to avoid that.

meh

 

That is not something you casually dismiss.

That is not something you casually dismiss.

 

lol I "meh" to that too