This might be a really question but...Why do SOME guys walk up to a random girl and slap thier butts? I mean...why would they do that? Whats the whole point of that? Doesn't make any sense...

I think that any guy who does that should be kicked in the nuts . I'm glad most guys aren't that stupid.

I assume it's male speak for "I like your ass.  I will tap that."

Well, because that would be a guy that has no respect for a woman and likes to defile a woman by slapping their behind.  Or it could be a group of naughty friends that likes to engage in butt slapping and other disrespectful things.  It all depends on the type of guy and girl that's in this particular kind of situation. Honestly, I find it a total lack of respect for guys to do things like that, unless you have a boyfriend/girlfriend, otherwise it's a playful/naughty gesture.  As I said, it all depends on the situation. 

I know that guy at school who likes to touch my butt sometimes. O_O

This might be a really question but...Why do SOME guys walk up to a random girl and slap thier butts? I mean...why would they do that? Whats the whole point of that? Doesn't make any sense...

Believe it or not, guys converse with one another about who has the biggest butts, the biggest boobs, and they think about it. It means they like what she's got. but it's the way it is. And they slap there butts. It's a sign of affection in  a sexual way.  In high school they did it all the time. 

It's playful, and naughty. 

I was never like that, I was taught common decency. 

Edited February 8, 201411 yr by Aang

I think Sir Mix A Lot said it best

Those guys have no respect or common decency, so they think it's acceptable to do that. It's annoying 

 Or it could be a group of naughty friends that likes to engage in butt slapping and other disrespectful things.  

I about died at that bit.

Believe it or not, guys converse with one another about who has the biggest butts, the biggest boobs, and they think about it. It means they like what she's got. ( Not trying to be rude ) but it's the way it is. And they slap there butts. It's a sign of affection in  a sexual way. 

 

Sign of affection ? More like sexual harrassment

Believe it or not, guys converse with one another about who has the biggest butts, the biggest boobs, and they think about it. It means they like what she's got. but it's the way it is. And they slap there butts. It's a sign of affection in  a sexual way.  In high school they did it all the time. 

It's playful, and naughty. 

 

Then I guess I have the greenlight to walk up to some random dude I don't know and grab his muscles, simple because I'm being "playful" or "naughty."  Personal space?  lol what's that?

The only time I've ever seen that is when there was a girl who "got around" and didn't care

Sign of affection ? More like sexual harrassment

Not if the girl responds playfully. But I agree. I was the odd one out in my "group" I had common decency.

Then I guess I have the greenlight to walk up to some random dude I don't know and grab his muscles, simple because I'm being "playful" or "naughty."  Personal space?  lol what's that?

lol, I wasn't defending guys who do that, I was just explaining from a guys point of view  

Well I know that all guys are not like that but I just wanted know...because this guy slap my butt. I slap him across the face and he said " I like girls who are feisty!” and walked away...Who does THAT!!!?

I about died at that bit.

Lol, haha, I know, I was laughing myself while I was typing the comment.

 

Sign of affection ? More like sexual harrassment

There  you go, that's the perfect definition for it!  No woman should have to go through sexual harassment, women deserve the utmost respect!  Now, if it's in the case of you and Demyx or me and Inori, that's a whole different story. X3

Not if the girl responds playfully. But I agree. I was the odd one out in my "group" I had common decency.

lol, I wasn't defending guys who do that, I was just explaining from a guys point of view

 

I don't know many 'random girls' who would respond playfully to a stranger slapping their ass.

 

Then I guess I have the greenlight to walk up to some random dude I don't know and grab his muscles, simple because I'm being "playful" or "naughty."  Personal space?  lol what's that?

 

Quota

Well I know that all guys are not like that but I just wanted know...because this guy slap my butt. I slap him across the face and he said " I like girls who are feisty!” and walked away...Who does THAT!!!?

 

A jerk .

Well I know that all guys are not like that but I just wanted know...because this guy slap my butt. I slap him across the face and he said " I like girls who are feisty!” and walked away...Who does THAT!!!?

Hormonally  stressed out teens. And boys with no respect for women.

Lol, haha, I know, I was laughing myself while I was typing the comment.

 

There  you go, that's the perfect definition for it!  No woman should have to go through sexual harassment, women deserve the utmost respect!  Now, if it's in the case of you and Demyx or me and Inori, that's a whole different story. X3

 

Exactly. Consentual touching is different though

I don't know many 'random girls' who would respond playfully to a stranger slapping their ass.

 

 

Quota

 

A jerk .

True. Throughout highschool, all my friends did it, but I never did. I just didn't value that. 

Edited February 8, 201411 yr by Aang

Exactly. Consentual touching is different though

Haha yes!  Because consentual touching is the most fun, because it's something that you do playfully to each other, because you know that it's just you and Demyx!

Edited February 8, 201411 yr by Golden Fighter

Either a crude barbaric attempt to say "Your ass, I would like to be in there" or at least here, it's typically a dare on a night out.

Haha yes!  Because consentual touching is the most fun, because it's something that you do playfully to each other, because you know that it's just you and Xaon!

I chose to do those things post-marriage.

Because there was a fly on the girl's butt and they were only trying to kill it.

Yeah it one thing to be sexually attracted to someone it's another to act on those feelings in a physical manner. Its unacceptable and gives us guys a bad name

I chose to do those things post-marriage.

Good call bro.

I chose to do those things post-marriage.

 

 

Xaon and i are married