Okay, so let me explain lot of stuff.

First, some of you may remember that girl I had a crush on a while back. She played with my feelings as if I were some toy.

We, though, were best friends. so I forgave her after a long time.

We rebuilt our friendship slowly, we had one big fight after people started spreading that I still liked her, but we worked it out. Until one day, she came to me and said:

"You're my best friend.".

I was glad we had finally gotten to the same point again. However, this time I had no intention of dating her.

By then, I was almost completely sure about my sexuality, and I told her one day, without any way of anyone else hearing. I gave her a paper, with the words "I'm bisexual" in it, told her to put it in her pocket, read it when she got home and flushed it down the toilet, or burned it. We had music class after school, and her house is right next to the music school AND the normal school, so by the time i got to music class, she revealed:

"I read the paper."

She told me about how it was alright and she was still my friend. Wait, why wouldn't she be? Would there people not be f I told them? I felt really bad.

Time went on, I found out my OTHER best friend's family was completely against homosexuals. i tried to convince him that just because his family was against it, he didn't have to be. He didn't hear me.

So TODAY, i got in school and this girl said:

"I know your secret."

She is kind of my friend, but nothing too big.I kept telling her to tell me, until she just replied she didn't know anything and was trying to see my reaction.

My girl Best friend told me she hadn't told ANYONE about that.

To make my day even better, I had a school group work to do and my team did it at school. In the library, the other boy in the team started saying how that girl who said she knew my secret masturbated, and I pretty much already knew that, she isn't innocent.

We started talking about masturbation, and he even told me what hand he did it with. I guess I had no problem talking about it with him too. the 2 girls in my group heard it though, and they were grossed out.

After it was over, I was talking to the girls. one of them got curious and asked me about masturbation and how guys did it. The other girl had just told her how women did it and she seemed curious on how men did it. I didn't tell her, I just said she'd be better off learning it at the right time.

After that, both of them turned to me and said, "We just have one more question." i wondered what it'd be. i told them "sure", and they asked me, finally...

"are you bi?"

I hope my expression didn't reveal it. I asked who told them that, and they hesitated at first, but then told me that many people in the class we're saying that, and they told me one of the people who said it was a boy in my class, trouble-maker, slight bully, slightly popular, and definitely a troublemaker, Tiago. I knew it wasn't just madeup by someoe, or else it'd be "Felipe's gay!" instead of "Felipe's Bisexual!". I guess bisexual just means the same thing these days for them. After that I asked my mom to pick me up, and BOOM. here I am.

I feel like a big crap now. She had to ruin my feelings once, and now she's spreading the feeling and troubles I most question about myself and the things that make me... me.

I feel like tomorrow I should just go up to her and do something.

 

Also, I've been changing too much. I just realized it. I'm becoming too distracted with my own fun and myself than my studies and my politeness. Why am I changing so much? I feel awfully bad today.

Teenaged life's a bitch, huh? I do feel bad for you. You live in America right? In the UK, that kind of thing doesn't seem like such a big deal. People deal with it. So, I really can't advise you other than just trying to get through life, ignore and accept it all.

As for changing, everyone changes. And some times it's hard to change back. But you will, someday.

Teenaged life's a bitch, huh? I do feel bad for you. You live in America right? In the UK, that kind of thing doesn't seem like such a big deal. People deal with it. So, I really can't advise you other than just trying to get through life, ignore and accept it all.

As for changing, everyone changes. And some times it's hard to change back. But you will, someday.

 

Actually, I live in Brazil... And thanks.

Actually, I live in Brazil... And thanks.

 

Yay, Brazilian!

That sucks man.

That's why I keep my secrets with me. If someone on my school knew my secrets, a guy named Lopes would surely spread it around school.

Actually, I live in Brazil... And thanks.

 

Brazil is in America lol...

 

But yeah.. Try to ignore it, or if things get too bad, change schools in the next year.

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Okay, so let me explain lot of stuff.

First, some of you may remember that girl I had a crush on a while back. She played with my feelings as if I were some toy.

We, though, were best friends. so I forgave her after a long time.

We rebuilt our friendship slowly, we had one big fight after people started spreading that I still liked her, but we worked it out. Until one day, she came to me and said:

"You're my best friend.".

I was glad we had finally gotten to the same point again. However, this time I had no intention of dating her.

By then, I was almost completely sure about my sexuality, and I told her one day, without any way of anyone else hearing. I gave her a paper, with the words "I'm bisexual" in it, told her to put it in her pocket, read it when she got home and flushed it down the toilet, or burned it. We had music class after school, and her house is right next to the music school AND the normal school, so by the time i got to music class, she revealed:

"I read the paper."

She told me about how it was alright and she was still my friend. Wait, why wouldn't she be? Would there people not be f I told them? I felt really bad.

Time went on, I found out my OTHER best friend's family was completely against homosexuals. i tried to convince him that just because his family was against it, he didn't have to be. He didn't hear me.

So TODAY, i got in school and this girl said:

"I know your secret."

She is kind of my friend, but nothing too big.I kept telling her to tell me, until she just replied she didn't know anything and was trying to see my reaction.

My girl Best friend told me she hadn't told ANYONE about that.

To make my day even better, I had a school group work to do and my team did it at school. In the library, the other boy in the team started saying how that girl who said she knew my secret masturbated, and I pretty much already knew that, she isn't innocent.

We started talking about masturbation, and he even told me what hand he did it with. I guess I had no problem talking about it with him too. the 2 girls in my group heard it though, and they were grossed out.

After it was over, I was talking to the girls. one of them got curious and asked me about masturbation and how guys did it. The other girl had just told her how women did it and she seemed curious on how men did it. I didn't tell her, I just said she'd be better off learning it at the right time.

After that, both of them turned to me and said, "We just have one more question." i wondered what it'd be. i told them "sure", and they asked me, finally...

"are you bi?"

I hope my expression didn't reveal it. I asked who told them that, and they hesitated at first, but then told me that many people in the class we're saying that, and they told me one of the people who said it was a boy in my class, trouble-maker, slight bully, slightly popular, and definitely a troublemaker, Tiago. I knew it wasn't just madeup by someoe, or else it'd be "Felipe's gay!" instead of "Felipe's Bisexual!". I guess bisexual just means the same thing these days for them. After that I asked my mom to pick me up, and BOOM. here I am.

I feel like a big crap now. She had to ruin my feelings once, and now she's spreading the feeling and troubles I most question about myself and the things that make me... me.

I feel like tomorrow I should just go up to her and do something.

 

Also, I've been changing too much. I just realized it. I'm becoming too distracted with my own fun and myself than my studies and my politeness. Why am I changing so much? I feel awfully bad today.

 

eu tambem moro no brasil,tenho um amigo que tambem eh bi,eu sei como se sente,tente resolver as coisas e esquecer as coisas ruins,eu sei que vc vai ficar melhor,esses idiotas nao entendem oque as pessoas acham melhor para elas.got it memorized do ya ?

This forum has quite a few Brazilians. Sadly, I live in America, but at least my father is from Paraguay which is close... sort of...

 

It's hard putting your trust in someone and even worse when it blows up in your face. Its moments like these you learn who you can and can't trust. It really sucks that it was such an important secret it had to happen with. Just hang in there. There will be a time where it's the big thing people are gossiping about but it will blow over and people will move on. If you have another close friend, maybe someone who doesn't go to your school, you can talk with them to let off some steam.

one word revenge!!! that is all just get revenge or just ask her why she did it

one word revenge!!! that is all just get revenge or just ask her why she did it

 

Whoa whoa whoa whoa WHOA,

Revnge?

Yah srs sis?

Revenge aint gonna solve a thing there will be bad blood between them,

and thats not good,

And how are you changing kindoe?

everyone changes,

BUT!

But but but,

remember to be yourself

Thanks everyone!

Still, I don't know how I'll face her tomorrow...

I'm sorry Kinode! D:

It's not much, but just keep holding your head high. If they can't seem to rile you up or upset you, then eventually they'll stop. You shouldn't be ashamed of what you feel. It doesn't matter if they're okay with it or not, as long as you are.

Ouch, demonstrates why I never trust anyone with my secrets. I have revealed a few secrets to one of my best friends but they are harmless really. As for how you should act, depends on what you want to do really. If you want to hide it, make a moderate denial, not excessive or it will be unbelievable but make it firm. If you want to just admit it now that everyone knows, just walk with your head held high I guess and ignore the rumors. If you do want to admit it, I have no idea on how my advice will turn out- I don't have that kind of experience. Good luck though, whatever you decide.

I was thinking maybe I should just admit it... I shouldn't really be afraid...

I'm just scared of what my father would do if he found out, or my sister...

They'd hate me for it, probably say I was too young anyway, and possibly my dad would hit me, hard.

I just don't know what to do now...

Dude first of all just be sure who U are it doesnt matter just be u . Second believe me DONT TAKE REVENGE solve it calmly revenge will make things worst . Third the DOUCHEBAG from ur class will pay in someway sooner or later . Try 2 talk with ur "bestfriend" . Try to slowly talk 2 ur parents they need 2 now parents must love their sons no matter what . I wish u the best dude ^W^,

Aw man Kinode I'm so sorry for you, I had the same problem in 7th grade, except people kept calling me gay instead of bi but I can relate. First of all, I tried though I wasn't a big poplar kid in 7th grade so I couldn't really fix it as much as I wanted but it eventually died down and I had a better school year, though when it died down it was the end of the school year. But I just want to say that, first of all, you are who you are don't try and change yourself. If people don't like you then thats there problem, don't care what there feel and care about yourself. And to help you get it to die down, try and get your really good friends to help you with it if its still bothering you. Though don't believe what they believe, believe in what you believe and what you think is right about yourself. And with your parents, try and think of a way to tell them as good as you can to get them to understand. Hope your problem gets better Kinode.

If you want to be friends with her, just forgive her.

 

Or if you don't want to be friends with her, just ignore her like she doesn't exist or confront her saying you couldn't trust her anymore.

 

All of these answers came from yahoo answers.

This is why I don't trust anyone, and if I feel bad for not telling them a secret, I just lie and make up something absurd, then I laugh at them when they think they are cool by revealing it only to realize that I proved how gullible they are.

If everyone does know, say, "Yeah, I am. Got anything else to say?" Shuts them up 97.87% of the time.

I think the best thing to do is to talk to your friend. As for the other people bothering you about being bi , just ignore them. Don't let them hurt your feelings, and if they still hurt your feelings don't let them know it. Most of the time if people don't get a reaction out of the people they are bullying, they won't really do it too much anymore. Idk if that helps, but I hope everything gets better for you!

I......I don't know what to say......It's the same thing that happened at 3rd and 4th grade....i went to this "birthday" party which it was actually just a trap for me.....i was stuck there for 6 hours with no help....they kept throwing food at me, drinks, rocks, sticks, etc.....i did tell their mothers and they didn't believe me, but right when i came back looking how i looked, my dad made a huge scene (don't wanna remember it) but now that i'm in 11th grade, i see them one more time in this one school...apologizing for all those years of scaring me... uh i'm getting off topic...

 

But here's the thing, don't trust everyone. Only trust those who are truly your friends. leave that b!tch and never talk to her again

Agh, I can't do it.

I told her, and she said it wasn't her. She said that maybe someone read the paper or something, she seemed as freaked out as me.She told me that if anyone made fun of me, I should just accept who I am, and not let them. then she said "Per example, if i were lesbian, people couldn't just make fun of be for being lesbian." Now she's trying to find out who and how found out.

I think she also would want me to just admit myself.

Maybe I should.. news would get to my sister's ears quickly, though.