Which one do you prefer?

 

A friend that always tell you his secrets, but he forget about you sometimes, doesn't call you alot, annoy you sometimes when you talk to him, but you should know that some of his annoying subjects are in your side, which means that he is saying these things as advies, but you get annoyed from it cuz u can't face it and he tell you the truth most of the time.

 

Or

 

A friend that doesn't tell you all his secrets, but call you alot, remember you but sometimes, you relax when you talk to him, but you should know he hide alot of things and he gives few advices but not annoying.Plus that he DOESN'T LIE.

 

Please guys I need you to think carefully.

and please don't give answers like: why ur asking?, can't decide or between them.

Also don't forget to give reasons for ur choice.

Both ! More friends are better than just one, and if all three hang out with eachother, they may rub some of their influence on that other friend, hopefully in a positive way ! (not related but a certain three come to mind (:

Edited August 14, 201213 yr by Master Juan

I would rather have an annoying friend, than a friend that lies.

The second one because he would be easier to manipulate

Honestly, probably neither. However, between the two, definitely the first one.

 

I, in truth, hate talking when not necessary. I am terrible at small talk, and often just don't have much to say. I also like to think over every response I make, in order to keep from embarrassing myself (which happens rather easily). Since I wouldn't be interacting with them too often, I could overlook their annoying factors. In addition, I would rather someone speak the truth, as lies or hidden facts can mislead and cause embarrassment (I am sensitive to embarrassment, so much that I feel embarrassed for other people, including people on TV, in video games, or in books).

 

Of course, I really don't have to worry about friends anyway, since my dislike of talking and hate of embarrassment keep me from actively making friends in the first place. Not that I mind too much.

The second one. Fishermen tell lots of lies too, but I'm friends with lots.

I chose; A friend that doesn't tell you all his secrets, but call you alot, remember you but sometimes, you relax when you talk to him, but you should know that he lie sometimes and he gives few advices but not annoying.

The 2nd one, it would be less of a drag really.

id rather be friends with the second guy

A friend that always tells me secrets and is annoying, I wouldn't want a friend who is probably lying to me and keeps secrets all the time. The first option

The second one and you don't even know if the first friend is telling you the truth.

A friend that lies is not a friend to me. One of Friendships bases is trust. You need that. And guess what sometimes friends get annoyed with each other. Your human and friends, of course it happens sometimes.

The first one is pretty much me. I wouldn't like the second one.

Neither, I dont like annoying people or lying

 

but if i had to choose no matter what, the 2nd one

First one definitely. A person who is completely honest to you and will tell you secrets, because, truly, I don't get annoyed easily. If he forgets about me, that's fine, I'm sure that if I'd forget about him if we're apart for that long. Lying isn't that much of a problem unless it's a really big lie. Sometimes I'll lie just to make someone feel better, just a little bit. Overall, I'd prefer numero uno.

Second one, i can deal with lies

the first one obviously. i woulndnt want a lieing and deceptive friend.

The first one, and I speak from experience cause one of my best friends is just like that, and I wouldn't give that guy up for anything in the world. Sure when he speaks the truth it might be annoying at the time, but I know it's all in my best interest, and I can learn from that. And I could care less if he doesn't call/text me a lot. He's got a life of his own, let him do his thing and it's all good. Someone will only tell you their secrets and such if you have a strong bond of trust, and that's important. I won't really care for someone like the 2nd person who will lie to me and not trust me enough to tell me everything.

 

Sure the second one might seem like the good choice for the here and now, but trust me, the first guy is the way to go in the long run.

I would have both of them as my friends. Both have their pros and their cons. I can talk to one for certain things, and talk to the other for others. People are human, everyone has their flaws. It's hard to find the "perfect" person to be friends with.

 

But since this IS a which would you prefer question... *thinks about it more*

Yeah sorry, I'm horrible at choosing one side. BUT, if it will help in any way, I'll give you my reasons to both.

 

To the first one: I love the honesty. That is something I really want in a person. But the forgetting about me thing... That itself is annoying. I like someone I can talk to a LOT. Maybe that makes me a bit clingy, But, if you aren't talking often, how is that really a friendship? Thats more like an aquaintence. At the same time... Why would you need to talk to someone ALL the time. You're saying the person is there and gives you advice. It may be annoying, but its truthful and some people need to hear that to snap back into reality.

 

To the second one: I personally, would love to know all the persons secrets. I want them to be able to trust me with it all. BUT, There comes a time when you have to realize that, some things are just PERSONAL. You don't have to know everything about a person. The person calling you all the time, thats great. I would love that. Feeling relaxed and all. But the lying... Thats a bit of a deal breaker... I try to be honest with people, and I hope for the same in return.

I don't care really Both are fine with me.

 

I'd be difficult for me to chose one of these options...more or less I'd rather have a mix of both of these..more like the first type but with the additional part of calling alot and remembering you from the second type

The anoyying one, really cuz I dont like the liers

so yeah thats what I think

I'd say the first one because the first one is someone you can depend on to hear the truth from. Which, as said before, is a key part of friendship. Not being able to handle the truth is something that the listener has to deal. It sucks having your perception of reality tampered with.

The 1st. Rob zones out sometimes.

Edited August 14, 201213 yr by Rob

I pick choice A. Lets face it when you know someone is lying it annoys you anyways.

1st one. I've never really stayed friends long with someone who hides a bunch a things. So I'll take the annoying one I'm used to it anyways

A friendship without trust and honesty is bound to fall apart.