I actually do like Shana, but I just don't know how to love. I have never been good with love, and I just don't want to be heartbroken ever again. My heart is in pain from my first love, and I just don't know how to love. I have never even be comfortable about love, and I just don't know what to do. So I would really like it if people could back off of me for having a crush, haven't you all had a crush before?

Xeveemon and Shana sittin in a tree.

K-I-S-S-I-N-G

First comes love. 
Then comes marriage. 
Then comes a baby in the baby carriage.

I'm not going to pretend I know whats going on, but i did read the shipping thread on the forum between you and Shana, and I was dissipointed by what I saw from the other members. and to the other members: It is fine to joke, but when the victim of the joke tells you to knock it off you should listen to them. It's not your business anyway. Sorry if I seem out of hand, I just thought the other members on that fourm need to know that some outside people didn't find what happened... funny.

Edited May 14, 201411 yr by Oblivian474

Xeveemon and Shana sittin in a tree.

K-I-S-S-I-N-G

First comes love. 

Then comes marriage. 

Then comes a baby in the baby carriage.

Don't be mean! 

I actually do like Shana, but I just don't know how to love. I have never been good with love, and I just don't want to be heartbroken ever again. My heart is in pain from my first love, and I just don't know how to love. I have never even be comfortable about love, and I just don't know what to do. So I would really like it if people could back off of me for having a crush, haven't you all had a crush before?

Aw, that's sweet. And no, i never have. Though i wish i did T-T.

I also read the shipping thread. (of course I was gonna post The Goo Goo Doll's latest single which the song is seen as a wedding song, and comment "Here's the wedding song!"), but you have to understand. This thread was made in the RANDOM Section. Meaning, crap will go out of control in just a matter of one second. Don't take the thread seriously, though. Ignore it, or play along with it. That's how to handle random topics, including the random topics that has a serious nature.

 

One cannot simply state he or she can't love. You experienced it before, the first one, which would be the first penguin (dammit, fricking English teacher). Clearly, you understand the process a little better since you had experience. Just chill man, you find your love soon, and a better one than your previous one. And if you got a crush on Shana, so what? Start talking or just go on with your daily basis. You can't avoid girls and love forever. Just remember, on KH13, anything posted in the Random thread will go out of control in less than a second.

Dude, I understand how your heartbroken from the girl you last liked but that doesent mean that love ends becouse of that. You have been given time to let it soak in. Now you like someone else. Thinking of your last love every time you think of love is not a good idea if you want love. I say you say to yourself "ok. Last time was bad, but I'm not giving up! I'm going to keep striving for love! The past can't hold me back!" It's like pokemon in a way. If you lose your first battle, that doesent mean that you stop battling. You keep trying until you succeed! I say you brush of the frustration and keep trying! Rock on man!

 

At the same time, if you don't want people to get involved then you should either say it of don't post it. I'm sorry if I'm only making things worse. It's not my intention by any means.

Edited May 14, 201411 yr by benj0818

So you were just embarrassed? Nothing to be embarrassed about mate.

So you were just embarrassed? Nothing to be embarrassed about mate.

I beg to differ. I am not the lovable type, and that's makes this even harder. My first love didn't want anything to do with me, so I don't think anyone else will

I actually do like Shana, but I just don't know how to love. I have never been good with love, and I just don't want to be heartbroken ever again. My heart is in pain from my first love, and I just don't know how to love. I have never even be comfortable about love, and I just don't know what to do. So I would really like it if people could back off of me for having a crush, haven't you all had a crush before?

You can't control love. You can control fear. If you want to get by with it, it's best you start moving on from the past and try something new to mend what you call "a broken heart."  Love is an emotion that you feel, fear is only what's in your mind. 

I've been through fear of the past time and time again. It's not a fun place to be, the past. It's not even healthy to delve into the fear caused by it.  

I beg to differ. I am not the lovable type, and that's makes this even harder. My first love didn't want anything to do with me, so I don't think anyone else will

 

Yeah...that's one person. You never know unless you try.

And what if I mess up again? What if I just fail at it again?

And what if I mess up again? What if I just fail at it again?

 

You move on. It's not the end of the world if you get rejected.

I just don't know how many times I could take be rejected. That's why I am starting to think about being alone, away from everybody.

I just don't know how many times I could take be rejected. That's why I am starting to think about being alone, away from everybody.

 

You only live once, take some risks. Rejection isn't that bad.

And what if I mess up again? What if I just fail at it again?

If that happens then you do the same thing as before. Take some time off to let it soak in and then get back on your feet! I say you keep trying until you succeed. It WILL be hard but I say that you let it soak in for a while and when your ready, try again. Sry to bring up pokemon again but it is a good example. Ash experienced the same thing when he lost after a winning streak. I can't remember the details but I remember Brock and his other companion at the time said you keep trying and that you shouldn't quit after you lose. If it happens again then I say you take as much time as you need to soak it in and accept it (just make sure your life isn't ruined in this time) them when you find someone that you like again, try again.Again, I'm sorry if I'm just making things worse. It is not by any means myIntention.

Edited May 14, 201411 yr by benj0818

Why can't love be simple like in a Disney movie? Even if the first love doesn't work out in the movie, at least they still find somebody

Why can't love be simple like in a Disney movie? Even if the first love doesn't work out in the movie, at least they still find somebody

 

You haven't even tried this time though. And you will find somebody if you actually try. Just go for it.

You can´t live a life full of fears, I will only said this once, YOU WILL FIND SOMEONE THAT LOVE SO MUCH AS YOU LOVE HER!

 

Believe me, if you keep being afraid, you'll never meet that person.

 

If you get rejected, just do like I did, eat a lot of chocolat and ice cream ( it works). And tomorrow will always have something better

Well you know what, I am going to try, at least, with Shana. And if that doesn't work out then I am going try again when the time is right!

Shanamon 4 lyf

Why can't love be simple like in a Disney movie? Even if the first love doesn't work out in the movie, at least they still find somebody

I'm sorry. I feel bad that I don't know how you feel. I've never "liked" anybody the way you feel now. I REALLY wish I have but I haven't. All I can give you is advise that I think I would try to do if I were in this situation. There is something I can say for sure tho. Don't let think ruin your life. You only live once so I say you make the most of it.

Well you know what, I am going to try, at least, with Shana. And if that doesn't work out then I am going try again when the time is right!

 

GO XEVEEMON! You can do it!

I can't wait for the Shanamon fan fiction.

GO XEVEEMON! You can do it!

Sora, god dammit! Quit making me wanna like your posts!  I'm still on my quota.

I've never had a crush . And I don't want one . I was cool with you partner . And there's nothing to feel bad about . Ignore the "weird" posts. Just a tip . From a guy that does not know anything about .... "love" .

Edited May 14, 201411 yr by Nick Sideris

Yeah I know nothing about love...but I do know regret so remember which option will you regret more...Distancing yourself from love and living in fear or facing your fear and giving love a chance.