I made a friend at school today went to his house had a good time.then he says hes bi and wants to kiss me.i say no i respect you but i will not kiss a another man.so he trys to ask again to hold hands and its really awkward holding hands.then we play his ps3 and hes rubbing my leg and cheast.thats how it went then my mom came there picked us up.im home alone now.help what do i tell him http://kh13.com/forum/public/style_emoticons/default/smiley-neutral.png why is the first person that likes me this year a man :unsure: .i am straight.and if this offends you plz dont aruge.

Edited September 18, 201213 yr by venquaerra

"ignore" always work

If you don't like him like that, just be honest. If he can't respect that then don't hang out with him. There isn't a problem with him being bisexual, but he needs to respect that you aren't.

Don't do it...probably a prank hahaha lol

If you don't like him like that, just be honest. If he can't respect that then don't hang out with him. There isn't a problem with him being bisexual, but he needs to respect that you aren't.

 

yeah.i was having fun till then.i tell him at school tomorrow.my first friend this year is gay(no offense to gays)and likes me.damnit!

yeah.i was having fun till then.i tell him at school tomorrow.my first friend this year is gay(no offense to gays)and likes me.damnit!

 

One of my best friends is homosexual. He came out to me a year into our friendship. I was a sophomore in high school and I hadn't had much experience with this, so it was awkward at first. I just told him, that's cool. I don't have a problem with that, just as long as you don't hit on me, because I'm sorry but I'm straight. He told me: "I would never do that, we're friends and that's all I want to be." From there, things only got better. If your friend can't respect that then don't be his friend.

One of my best friends is homosexual. He came out to me a year into our friendship. I was a sophomore in high school and I hadn't had much experience with this, so it was awkward at first. I just told him, that's cool. I don't have a problem with that, just as long as you don't hit on me, because I'm sorry but I'm straight. He told me: "I would never do that, we're friends and that's all I want to be." From there, things only got better. If your friend can't respect that then don't be his friend.

 

your right.ill see what happens tomorrow.its just now i cant get those pictures out of head being gay with him oh god im scared

your right.ill see what happens tomorrow.its just now i cant get those pictures out of head being gay with him oh god im scared

 

You shouldn't be scared. Just be honest and if things don't work out, don't hang out with him. He has every right to be bi and you have every right to be straight.

You shouldn't be scared. Just be honest and if things don't work out, don't hang out with him. He has every right to be bi and you have every right to be straight.

 

ok yeah im gunna be honest with him. he doesnt like it then we cant hang out

Tell him straigt to the face that you r not into men.And if u could till be friends and if not it would be understood.And if that doesnt work get a girlfriend.and if failure again say ur into older/younger men depending on ur age.

Don't do it...probably a prank hahaha lol

 

That's really not something you joke about on a thread like this. It's inappropriate behaviour. :c

 

yeah.i was having fun till then.i tell him at school tomorrow.my first friend this year is gay(no offense to gays)and likes me.damnit!

 

your right.ill see what happens tomorrow.its just now i cant get those pictures out of head being gay with him oh god im scared

 

There's a difference between gay and bisexual. Bisexual and gay aren't the same. Bisexual is when you like men and women, gay is when you like men. Calling him gay is the wrong thing to label him with. He's bi and you shouldn't call him anything otherwise.

I know that feel bro, i have nothing against gay/bi people. but i would just tell him that your straight, and you really dont like him like that, but want to be his friend, im sure he will understand.

If someone, REGARDLESS OF GENDER, if making unwelcomed sexual advances towards you, you need to tell them to STOP. You never know if it can evolve in to sexual harassment. Tell him his advances are making you uncomfortable and that if he doesn't stop, you have every right to report him for sexual harassment as well as ignore and avoid the shit out of him.

If someone, REGARDLESS OF GENDER, if making unwelcomed sexual advances towards you, you need to tell them to STOP. You never know if it can evolve in to sexual harassment. Tell him his advances are making you uncomfortable and that if he doesn't stop, you have every right to report him for sexual harassment as well as ignore and avoid the shit out of him.

 

Took the words right out of my mouth.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IuXOkGvZNaI

Edited September 18, 201213 yr by Johnny Madman

If someone, REGARDLESS OF GENDER, if making unwelcomed sexual advances towards you, you need to tell them to STOP. You never know if it can evolve in to sexual harassment. Tell him his advances are making you uncomfortable and that if he doesn't stop, you have every right to report him for sexual harassment as well as ignore and avoid the shit out of him.

 

This is pretty much what I was gonna say.

 

No matter what the background of this situation is, if it makes you uncomfortable or you don't want it, then say "No.". You not saying anything will make him think it's okay, just say no if you don't like it. Don't be outright rude though! Try to say it in a civil manner, hopefully he will understand. c:

just tell him no and the oppa with him