Hi, so I'm pretty sure everyone knows that I'm pretty sex positive. I thought it'd be a good idea to make this thread to have discussions and just educate everyone

 

First of all, sex is natural.

Sex is good.

Sex doesn't have to wait till you're married (but it's fine if you do).

Sex doesn't have to be between a man and a woman.

Sex doesn't have to be painful (sometimes it is, sometimes it's not, depending on the preperation prior).

Having sex at a young age does not take away your self worth or self respect.

Not having sex does not make you a prude.

Exploring your sexuality is fine and encouraged. 

 

I do not believe in the stupid sex ed abstinence programs that tell you horror stories about sex and scare you. That is bullshit. If you want to have sex DO IT. If you want to masturbate DO IT. If you want to watch porn DO IT. It's YOUR body and you can do what you wish with it. Just be safe and use protection to avoid STDs and unwanted pregnancies. 

 

Now I believe most kids actually start showing masturbatory tendencies at young ages (not really knowing what they're doing) and many times parents discourage them from exploring their sexuality. That is just no don't do that. It's fine and wonderful to explore your sexuality! Never shame anyone for indulging in sex or masturbation because it's perfectly natural to have urges. 

 

Now, I don't know how to explain everything about sex and what I do know I can't put into words so I'll share videos by one of my favourite youtubers lacigreen (who explains things very well) throughout this thread

 

My biggest problem with what most people are taught about sex is that having sex makes you lesser than others. Slut shaming is really awful and no one should judge someone else for enjoying sex. Some people even go to the extent of shaming people who LOOK sexually promiscuous. The amount of skin someone shows does not determine their self worth either. 

 

 

Once you start watching porn you can't go back. It'll make your urges worse.

 

Incorrect. If anything the more porn you watch, the more boring it gets.

 

One of the videos suggests lube, but I gotta say, lube is really hard to get if youre younger than 18. Its damn frustrating.

 

Use Vaseline/Petroleum Jelly. It might even be lying around the house. Careful though, its messy and destroys condoms.

koko I l u and this thread. Sex is a natural part of life and should be treated as such, learning what makes our bodies tick(If you catch my drift) is nothing to be frowned upon. As long as we educate ourselves and are aware of the repercussions that could take place sex is as healthy as a daily jog.

Use Vaseline/Petroleum Jelly. It might even be lying around the house. Careful though, its messy and destroys condoms.

 

Which is why I dont use it. Its worth the trouble to track down someone to get me lube than to get an STI.

 

Lots of stretching???

Like foreplay and fingers and yeah |DDD

I've never had sex okay

/shot

 

Tsk tsk. I told you to be ready for questions.

Edited July 9, 201213 yr by Loki

GUYS I AM BUT A SWEET INNOCENT HOLY VIRGIN WARRIOR OF GOD

GUYS I AM BUT A SWEET INNOCENT HOLY VIRGIN WARRIOR OF GOD

 

Liar

I'm not against anyone's way of doing chizz or anything, but I just can't bring myself to the thought of sex with... I don't know... a crapload of people.

 

I'm not a religious guy, and I see it as pure biology, but there's still just something about it that I can't put into words. I feel that this kind of relationship is something to be kept close between two people, something that binds them together. The way I see it, marriage has nothing to do with it. What I'm looking for is commitment in my partner; knowing that I have them with me forever.

 

Sex isn't dirty. Or perverted. Or just something to do when you're bored. I see it as a promise.

 

Which is why I dont use it. Its worth the trouble to track down someone to get me lube than to get an STI.

 

 

 

It's fine for fapping though

I wish that I would have had the experience, by now, but I suppose that it will only make it better when I finally have that special person.

What about fantasies or role playing? I've always been told that it's wrong and dirty. I tried to convince my ex (when we were together) to role play but he got really offended. But that might be cuz of who I asked him to be >> Now i'm too scared to talk about it any more.

What about fantasies or role playing? I've always been told that it's wrong and dirty. I tried to convince my ex (when we were together) to role play but he got really offended. But that might be cuz of who I asked him to be >> Now i'm too scared to talk about it any more.

That's normal too!

Even if it's not the 'normal' fantasies like that stupid school girl/maid/librarien(how's that spelt?) sh*t? I feel so guilty ><

Even if it's not the 'normal' fantasies like that stupid school girl/maid/librarien(how's that spelt?) sh*t? I feel so guilty ><

 

Your fantasies are your fantasies, there's nothing wrong with having them!

Your fantasies are your fantasies, there's nothing wrong with having them!

 

Yeah, don't stop having fantasies. There should never be such a thing as a persons Final Fantasy.

 

Seriously though there is nothing wrong with exploring your sexuality, just play safe children!

That's normal too!

I find role playing a great rut breaker sometimes couples get bored with their partner sexually this can lead to cheating.According to a survey I did for a research paper 90% of people that took the survey would be more prone to cheat if they were bored or unsatisfied with their partner.

...no comment. Seriously. But uh, thanks for sharing.

 

My dirty side approves this.

Sex is a great thing for a lot of people.

 

Masturbation relieves stress.

 

If you want to have sex alright, but be sure not to harm yourself also like getting pregnant etc.

 

ALSO ONE MORE THING:

 

Gays/Lesbians did not invent AIDS at all, stop with the bull crap, straight guys/girls also can give it too. It was created by nature but the cause was not gay sex.

 

I never thought it came from gays, I asked my health teacher where it originated and I think he said monkeys o.o

 

 

 

That's normal too!

 

 

 

Oh but when GUYS have fantasies its wrong?! UNSUBBED (jkjkjk )

Once you start watching porn you can't go back. It'll make your urges worse.

 

Actually, it'll satuate your urges. I mean you don't want to be thinking about sex all the time, so watch porn to help calm those thoughts and urges and not act out on them. Porn helps you "get off" when you don't have a partner to act those urges out on, it's basically the same thing as masturbation to help feed those urges. I don't really believe in having sex at a young age, although it is not any of my business, but I think a child should not have sex or have multiple partners. That's just nasty and a child should be a child, not thrown into some sexual fantasies or environment.

GUYS I AM BUT A SWEET INNOCENT HOLY VIRGIN WARRIOR OF GOD

 

I thought you were Satan.

$10 says half of the forum that read this masturbated last night.

$10 says half of the forum that read this masturbated last night.

 

10 bucks says Loki was one of them.

10 bucks says Loki was one of them.

 

 

Since I don't have my glasses on, I don't know one word he said/shot

 

HNNNNGGGGG

i'm just giggling at this thread. it gives me all sorts of feels