Sex Positive Sex Ed

[Koko 3,944]

Hi, so I'm pretty sure everyone knows that I'm pretty sex positive. I thought it'd be a good idea to make this thread to have discussions and just educate everyone

 

First of all, sex is natural.

Sex is good.

Sex doesn't have to wait till you're married (but it's fine if you do).

Sex doesn't have to be between a man and a woman.

Sex doesn't have to be painful (sometimes it is, sometimes it's not, depending on the preperation prior).

Having sex at a young age does not take away your self worth or self respect.

Not having sex does not make you a prude.

Exploring your sexuality is fine and encouraged. 

 

I do not believe in the stupid sex ed abstinence programs that tell you horror stories about sex and scare you. That is bullshit. If you want to have sex DO IT. If you want to masturbate DO IT. If you want to watch porn DO IT. It's YOUR body and you can do what you wish with it. Just be safe and use protection to avoid STDs and unwanted pregnancies. 

 

Now I believe most kids actually start showing masturbatory tendencies at young ages (not really knowing what they're doing) and many times parents discourage them from exploring their sexuality. That is just no don't do that. It's fine and wonderful to explore your sexuality! Never shame anyone for indulging in sex or masturbation because it's perfectly natural to have urges. 

 

Now, I don't know how to explain everything about sex and what I do know I can't put into words so I'll share videos by one of my favourite youtubers lacigreen (who explains things very well) throughout this thread

 

My biggest problem with what most people are taught about sex is that having sex makes you lesser than others. Slut shaming is really awful and no one should judge someone else for enjoying sex. Some people even go to the extent of shaming people who LOOK sexually promiscuous. The amount of skin someone shows does not determine their self worth either. 

 

 

[LightningXIII 310]

...no comment. Seriously. But uh, thanks for sharing.

[Amon 4,279]

Half the forum after looking at this thread

 

Edited July 9, 2012 by Amon

[Aqua7KH 5,395]

I watch porn and hentai for the luls most of the time

And I completely agree. I'm going to try to wait until i'm married. I don't really care if I have sex before I'm married, but I would like to try.

[Koko 3,944]

People just need to mellow out and learn that sex isn't gross Everyone makes it a big dealIt is but it isn't???Like it's not a bad big dealIt's big deal between the two peoplebut other than that, people need to stop treating it like it's wrongALSO

[4Everbee 1,365]

I agree with everything you said but having sex at a young age.

 

I watch porn and hentai for the luls most of the time

 

 

Knew it!/shot

[Koko 3,944]

I agree with everything you said but having sex at a young age.

The self worth part?
Why not?
If someone has sex at a young age, it's really no one's business and not an indicator of their self respect. It's kind of silly to think that way. If someone makes that choice, it's their choice and you shouldn't judge them for it MOOOOORE VIDEOS

[_The Door To Light_ 1,507]

This was great of you to share. I wish more schools taught it like this.~

[4Everbee 1,365]

 

 

The self worth part?

Why not?

If someone has sex at a young age, it's really no one's business and not an indicator of their self respect. It's kind of silly to think that way. If someone makes that choice, it's their choice and you shouldn't judge them for it

MOOOOORE VIDEOS

 

I didn't see the ' does not take away your self worth or self respect..' Sorry.

And most likely ur gonna ask me why so...

I just don't agree. I don't care if you do just I don't agree with having sex at a young age.

[Koko 3,944]

This was great of you to share. I wish more schools taught it like this.~

yeaaah people think sex is like an evil thing when it's totally fine :ualso videos r good

 

I didn't see the ' does not take away your self worth or self respect..' Sorry.

And most likely ur gonna ask me why so...

I just don't agree. I don't care if you do just I don't agree with having sex at a young age.

 

Oh no I see what you mean.

I don't think anyone should have it at a young age, but that's just a personal thing because not everyone is educated about sex and that's how unwanted pregnancies happen.

I think everyone should wait until they're ready

[Amon 4,279]

Not going to lie, masturbating feels good.

 

Especially if it leads to other things with other people.

 

Just sayin'

[Koko 3,944]

No one can love you more than yourself.

[Sora96 17,256]

Once you start watching porn you can't go back. It'll make your urges worse.

[Loki 1,184]

One of the videos suggests lube, but I gotta say, lube is really hard to get if youre younger than 18. Its damn frustrating.

[Koko 3,944]

Once you start watching porn you can't go back. It'll make your urges worse.

 

FALSE

 

I watch porn, and I'm perfectly fine.

Porn is fine. There's nothing wrong with it as long as you know that's not how sex is going to be when you have it.

And there's nothing wrong at all with sexual urges.

[Setrex 1,031]

You said sex. *giggles*

 

 

But in all seriousness, these seem interesting thanks for sharing.

[Godot 513]

masturbation can actually help prevent prostate cancer in men and cervical (??) cancer in women. it also helps with depression and insomnia. Edited July 9, 2012 by Madotsuki

[Amon 4,279]

Though to be honest, Id rather people have super happy funtime with one or two long term partners then fool around with 50 different people.

[HarLea Quinn 26,501]

Sexual uges and curiosity is completely normal .If more education and communication about this subject was provided there would be less unplanned pregnancies, STDs and uninformed youth .Also , No one should feel ashamed about their sexuality and normal curiosities or to ask questions.

[Imoore4 687]

FALSE

 

I watch porn, and I'm perfectly fine.

Porn is fine.

And there's nothing wrong at all with sexual urges.

 

"There's nothing wrong with it as long as you know that's not how sex is going to be when you have it."

Role-Play anyone!

[Koko 3,944]

Though to be honest, Id rather people have super happy funtime with one or two long term partners then fool around with 50 different people.

 

Whatever floats their boat!

[TheDarKris 85]

I'm on the "IDGAF what you do" side of the spectrum but I feel like sex can be turned into something negative if done wrong. Using someone or tricking someone into having sex is one of the worse things you can do, and in that case, you SHOULD feel bad about using someone else. People aren't tools to be used then thrown aside when you're done.

 

Now that my rant is over, if you are responsible, practice safe sex, and don't hurt anyone, go ahead no one's stopping you.

[Koko 3,944]

I'm on the "IDGAF what you do" side of the spectrum but I feel like sex can be turned into something negative if done wrong. Using someone or tricking someone into having sex is one of the worse things you can do, and in that case, you SHOULD feel bad about using someone else. People aren't tools to be used then thrown aside when you're done.

 

Now that my rant is over, if you are responsible, practice safe sex, and don't hurt anyone, go ahead no one's stopping you.

 

YESSSS this too

[Loki 1,184]

Alright! Lets see how many people I can make uncomfortable, but its something I keep forgetting to look into.

 

So that girl tells women how to make their vaginas tighter/looser but is there anyway to get your ass looser? Im certain that being athletic doesnt help me at all, and Ive managed to have very pleasurable sex for the most part. But I get tired of being soar the next day. Think theres any other solutions other than use more lube?

[Koko 3,944]

Lots of stretching???

Like foreplay and fingers and yeah |DDD

I've never had sex okay

/shot