August 17, 201312 yr lol, i know. my dad acts like that, he walked in the house and he saw me watching lilo and stitch(not exactly a girly thing mind you) and flipped his shit
August 17, 201312 yr Well I actually like fairies (Tinkerbell rocks socks bro), but I'm not a fan of girly things. I don't flip out or get sickened or anything, just avoid them ^^
August 17, 201312 yr Author Well I actually like fairies (Tinkerbell rocks socks bro), but I'm not a fan of girly things. I don't flip out or get sickened or anything, just avoid them ^^ ..'avoid'?! A nicer word would be 'they don't interest you'.... Humans are soo mean T___T; Girly things aren't bad, right? lol, i know. my dad acts like that, he walked in the house and he saw me watching lilo and stitch(not exactly a girly thing mind you) and flipped his shit Is he on any medication? He sounds like he's f*ckin' ILL.... Edited August 17, 201312 yr by ~DawnStar2004~
August 17, 201312 yr ..'avoid'?! A nicer word would be 'they don't interest you'.... Humans are soo mean T___T; Girly things aren't bad, right? Is he on any medication? He sounds like he's f*ckin' ILL.... Sorry, that's what I do. I have a tendency to not go near anything I consider girly. And no they are not bad, it just isn't my cup of tea.
August 17, 201312 yr Author Sorry, that's what I do. I have a tendency to not go near anything I consider girly. And no they are not bad, it just isn't my cup of tea. Okay, now I understand. I don't understand your reason, but at least it isn't a good vs evil type of thing.... Well, okay, maybe you just like being a tomboy a lot... Edited August 17, 201312 yr by ~DawnStar2004~
August 17, 201312 yr My mum was more disturbed by me listening to death metal and songs screaming about killing yourself when I was little, not that she didn't like the alternative lifestyle since she was like a stoner punk when she was a teen (listened to Reggae though) just she's disturbed by lyrics like "I dream about how it's going to end, approaching me quickly.... .... I fantasize about my death, I kill myself from holding my breath ....voices telling me what to do....help me comfort me....the rope is here.... i'll kill myself I'll put my head in the noose" "So much to live for, so much to die for, if only my heart had a home ...Died for the beauty" "It is the end of all hope, to lose the child, the faith to end all the innocence, to be someone like me ...Turn off the light and let me pull the plug" "Everything was so worthless, I didn't deserve this, but to me you were perfect, I'm scattered through this life, if this is life I'll say goodbye... ....I was running in circles, I hurt myself, just to find my purpose... praying for some saviour... it feels like i'm killing myself...it's worth all it hurts me" I went off on a tangent based on someone else's response so I made it smaller Back to topic. I like Navi. She's a fairy
August 17, 201312 yr Okay, now I understand. I don't understand your reason, but at least it isn't a good vs evil type of thing.... Well, okay, maybe you just like being a tomboy a lot... I don't understand either, I've been that way for years. Yep. I enjoy rigerous athletic activities, picking mud off my cleats, showing off bruises and cuts, and wearing tube socks with sandals Edited August 17, 201312 yr by xoblivionx13
August 17, 201312 yr Popular Post What does it matter? You seriously need to stop doing this. You need to stop relying on us for validation for your beliefs, because if your comfort depends on the people who tell you "No, cute things aren't evil," then people telling you "Yes, they are evil" will always affect you. You'll always get rattled and you'll always have to keep asking us for that validation. Guess what: who's to say the people who like girly things are in the right? But who's to say they're in the wrong? Whether people like cute/girly things depends on personal preference. It has NOTHING to do with whether it's good or evil, or whether the person is good or evil. NOTHING. It is NOT good or evil, it's just a thing. People like it/hate it because they like it/hate it. You can't always explain why you like something, and you shouldn't have to. You shouldn't have to justify it to other people or even to yourself. It doesn't matter what it is: cute things, video games, a book or a show or a character or a mall, there will always be people who like it and people who hate it. The reason for that has to do with that personal preference. If you like something, there will be people who disagree with you and cite reasons for it. If you dislike something, there will be people who disagree with you and cite reasons for it. Make a decision that's based on your beliefs and ideals. Because if you keep asking us for permission on whether you're allowed to like something, then the people who don't like it will always rattle you and we're back to square one. Seriously. Just like what you like and MOVE ON.
August 17, 201312 yr I can't stand most if not all girly things, they just don't appeal to me in the slightest, but I don't rage war on them. It's just preference. People like what they like, and if they happen to love or hate girly things that's up to them entirely. People hardly need a reason to justify their likes/dislikes. If people are sickened by girly things they've every right to be (though it's a bit of an overreaction, I admit). Edited August 17, 201312 yr by Xalaru
August 17, 201312 yr What does it matter? You seriously need to stop doing this. You need to stop relying on us for validation for your beliefs, because if your comfort depends on the people who tell you "No, cute things aren't evil," then people telling you "Yes, they are evil" will always affect you. You'll always get rattled and you'll always have to keep asking us for that validation. Guess what: who's to say the people who like girly things are in the right? But who's to say they're in the wrong? Whether people like cute/girly things depends on personal preference. It has NOTHING to do with whether it's good or evil, or whether the person is good or evil. NOTHING. It is NOT good or evil, it's just a thing. People like it/hate it because they like it/hate it. You can't always explain why you like something, and you shouldn't have to. You shouldn't have to justify it to other people or even to yourself. It doesn't matter what it is: cute things, video games, a book or a show or a character or a mall, there will always be people who like it and people who hate it. The reason for that has to do with that personal preference. If you like something, there will be people who disagree with you and cite reasons for it. If you dislike something, there will be people who disagree with you and cite reasons for it. Make a decision that's based on your beliefs and ideals. Because if you keep asking us for permission on whether you're allowed to like something, then the people who don't like it will always rattle you and we're back to square one. Seriously. Just like what you like and MOVE ON. Well, that was...blunt. I've gotta agree with Draco though, it isn't a good vs. evil sort of thing, or rather, it's not all black and white. It isn't wrong to be into what society considers "girly", nor is it wrong to exist in the first place. But neither is it wrong for people to not be into it, or to even be a little disgusted by it, though they shouldn't get too carried away either (same goes for those who ARE into it). No one was born liking or disliking anything. A newborn girl has just as much promise to dislike girly things as she does to like them, it's not predetermined. If you've seen KickAss, you would know how easy it is to raise a child to be a cold blooded murderer..... Wait, what was talking about.... OH YEAH, PONIES! In your case, sure some people you know dislike girly things, and a few may even go out of their way to keep you from being "converted" or whatever. Does this mean you have to change for them? Of course not! Whether you are into something or not is entirely up to you, but it should be up to you and you only. Don't go making a habit out of relying on internet forums to make all of your decisions (remember those suicides you heard of? yeah, that's one of the things that could happen). Once in a while is okay if you really need some outsider's opinion, otherwise, you should be competent enough to make your own judgments and decisions. But before you give up all hope on humanity, like I said, it's not all black and white. There are people who do like most or some "girly" things, but can be pretty turned off towards other things that fall into that category. I guess I'll use myself as an example. I love Ariel, Tinkerbell, pretty much every Disney Princess, and of course, My Little Pony: Friendship Is Magic. However, I'm not entirely immune to the natural weakness that society says boys are supposed to have towards anything pink and sugar coated. I avoid most other girl targeted shows like Strawberry Shortcake (still love the dessert though) and Sailor Moon (I may have considered it once, but seeing how ditzy and shallow the main charter was, I don't think I could wait that long for character development), all of the versions of My Little Pony that came before Friendship Is Magic, and pretty much anything designed for three-year olds: all of the sugar and glitter, but NONE of the character development. There are a lot of people in this grey area, which proves that it's okay to both hate AND love these things in the world. And it's not all targeted against girly things, other genres tend to get mixed opinions too. A lot of people find horror movies amazing, me, I want nothing to do with them. Everyone is obsessed with shooting games like Call of Duty and Halo, I could care less (though I am a little curious about Halo). The list goes on, but it just shows that people are always going to have differing preferences towards things. It's not your fault that you have your own preferences, and it's not their fault that they have their own either. We all share the same planet, and thankfully, there's something for everyone. Sorry if I ramble...geeze, maybe I should just make youtube videos.
August 17, 201312 yr I like and dislike what I want. People can dislike Kingdom Hearts and I don't care (only if you've played it before). I understand what the series really is. The list of likes and dislikes of people can go on and on. No one is the same. No one has the like the same things you do. Ignore the ignorant. Did that make sense? Also, random info, Marluxia has pink hair, wields a scythe, and has the element of flowers. He does everything like a badass. I do not support the "gay" theory.
August 17, 201312 yr My mum was more disturbed by me listening to death metal and songs screaming about killing yourself when I was little, not that she didn't like the alternative lifestyle since she was like a stoner punk when she was a teen (listened to Reggae though) just she's disturbed by lyrics like"I dream about how it's going to end, approaching me quickly........ I fantasize about my death, I kill myself from holding my breath....voices telling me what to do....help me comfort me....the rope is here.... i'll kill myself I'll put my head in the noose""So much to live for, so much to die for, if only my heart had a home...Died for the beauty""It is the end of all hope, to lose the child, the faithto end all the innocence, to be someone like me ...Turn off the light and let me pull the plug""Everything was so worthless, I didn't deserve this, but to me you were perfect, I'm scattered through this life, if this is life I'll say goodbye.......I was running in circles, I hurt myself, just to find my purpose... praying for some saviour... it feels like i'm killing myself...it's worth all it hurts me" I went off on a tangent based on someone else's response so I made it smallerBack to topic. I like Navi. She's a fairyI wouldn't exactly call Nightwish "Death Metal".
August 17, 201312 yr I guess the only thing close that happen to me when it comes to girly things, is... Well, I keep getting nagged about me wearing some close that has bright colors and looks pretty... (Nail colors too...) Thing is, I'm not really a big fan of bright colors. To me its too loud. I'm into darker colors. Right now, I just want to experiment things when it comes to styles. I wish to "toughen" up my wardrobe.
August 17, 201312 yr My mum was more disturbed by me listening to death metal and songs screaming about killing yourself when I was little, not that she didn't like the alternative lifestyle since she was like a stoner punk when she was a teen (listened to Reggae though) just she's disturbed by lyrics like "I dream about how it's going to end, approaching me quickly........ I fantasize about my death, I kill myself from holding my breath....voices telling me what to do....help me comfort me....the rope is here.... i'll kill myself I'll put my head in the noose" "So much to live for, so much to die for, if only my heart had a home...Died for the beauty" "It is the end of all hope, to lose the child, the faithto end all the innocence, to be someone like me ...Turn off the light and let me pull the plug" "Everything was so worthless, I didn't deserve this, but to me you were perfect, I'm scattered through this life, if this is life I'll say goodbye.......I was running in circles, I hurt myself, just to find my purpose... praying for some saviour... it feels like i'm killing myself...it's worth all it hurts me" I went off on a tangent based on someone else's response so I made it smallerBack to topic. I like Navi. She's a fairy.......I wish I knew you when you were little.
August 17, 201312 yr One time when I was a wee lad I played with an Action Man figure and a barbie doll at the same time. My sisters ridiculed me for ages after. Edited August 17, 201312 yr by Mog
August 17, 201312 yr .......I wish I knew you when you were little. I was the coolest child ever I don't even think I was depressed or anything then, I just like that style of music...
August 17, 201312 yr Author I guess its hard when all I liked as a child were girly things...soo I accociate like *all* of them with innocence/purity...... I *DO* understand wanting to, yes, avoid Sailor Moon for being a 'ditzy' character (i actually don't like that very much either tbh ) and even some other stuff in this thread. I think i'm just blinded by my childhood too much. And the autism. And how a lot of boy things seem kinda 'negative' to me (they arent all negative) soo i assume 'girly' HAS to equal to 'good' or theres something REALLY wrong with it... .... Having autism sucks. :s
August 17, 201312 yr I agree with draco girly is not evil NOPE it never was. This world isn't perfect there r people that r gonna hate the stuff you like. And you have to accept it. Humans can be mysterious creatures but thats how we live. If they are sickened by your girly likes then you should just ignore the negative comments instead of saying "is cute/girly thing evil?" No just no
August 17, 201312 yr I completely agree with Draco. I REALLLLLLY adore cute things as well as some girly things. While embarrassment and shyness does tend to pull me away from it sometimes, I do try to ignore those feelings, because, well those things are what I really like and love! From how I've been with you before, I think I like about 80%+ of what you like. I could be an example of people in your kind of preferences, but alwaus remember other people have different ones! Also, Dawn, I haven't talked to you in awhile, and I really enjoyed doing so before. We should start talking again~
August 18, 201312 yr Author Whats with the h*te word usage... I need to remember cute/girly things aren't evil. I wish I didn't have to find ANYTHING evil. It makes my stomach hurt too much.
August 18, 201312 yr try explaining why you draw angel with black wings or with swords to your christian family haha
Seriously. WHAT THE HECK IS WRONG WITH A FAIRY!!!!!!!!!!
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