So yeah, I'm legitimately curious. I don't know why, but this (school) year I've had 3 different guys try to ask me out and it's making me extremely uncomfortable. I tell them straight up no, sorry, but one of them will not stop trying to talk to me. I have told him he's creeping me out and to leave me alone, but it's obviously not working. (BTW if you are a boy, hint: no one will ever respect you and will probably want you dead if someone says no and you keep asking) He has no concept of personal space and doesn't seem to realize that I've said NO. So how do y'all handle this kind of thing? Is there anything specific you've said that's gotten someone to lay off? Because I've gotten to the point I'm probably going to beat him up and get expelled if he doesn't shut up. 

I just threatened their nuts. Works every time .

You can just flat out ignore them, and avoid them at all costs. When I've said 'No' to boys, they just become angry and not bother to ask again.

Most girls don't ask guys out... You should just tell a teacher or an administrator 

When I was in High school I never turned down any girl. I was cursed with a good heart. So I couldn't.

I say most of the time something like "sorry, I'm not interested" or just like "nah not now"

Usually to get them to leave me alone I just say I've already got something going on with another guy (even if I don't) and they leave me alone sometimes

I want to to find this boy

I want you to walk up to him

get really close to him

kissing distance

look him in the eye

and tell him how much..... you hate him

When I was in High school I never turned down any girl. I was cursed with a good heart. So I couldn't.

 

That's actually probably the meanest thing I've ever heard.  

I say most of the time something like "sorry, I'm not interested" or just like "nah not now"

Usually to get them to leave me alone I just say I've already got something going on with another guy (even if I don't) and they leave me alone sometimes

Yeah, honestly I hadn't thought of lying about a relationship. It seems really obvious in retrospect omg

 

I want to to find this boy

I want you to walk up to him

get really close to him

kissing distance

look him in the eye

and tell him how much..... you hate him

As beautiful as this would be, he smells disgusting and I don't even want to be within a mile of him. 

I've never had to deal with this before but it seems like you should tell an adult or someone who is able to help. Obviously this person isn't listening to you or respecting your personal space, wishes, or answer. They need to understand no means no.

Edited February 5, 201411 yr by xoblivionx13

Nobody's really asked me out. I was invited to a party, though (and the girl asked if I was named Gable, omg), until I said I was 13. .-.

I've never had to deal with this before but it seems like you should tell an adult or someone who is able to help. Obviously this person isn't listening to you or respecting your personal space, wishes, or answer. They need to understand no means no.

I'm almost like scared to tell one of my teachers though?? I go to a very, very tiny school--there are only 6 other kids in my grade, and I know it's going to stir up giant controversy if I get a teacher involved. I just wish the "NO" would get through to them. 

"Sorry I'm a lesbian".  

I would just ignore them or do what Flaming Lea said. Most of the times when I turned a guy down they just get mad and don't talk to me again for a while. If that doesn't go tell the school administrator so they can handle the problem. 

I'm almost like scared to tell one of my teachers though?? I go to a very, very tiny school--there are only 6 other kids in my grade, and I know it's going to stir up giant controversy if I get a teacher involved. I just wish the "NO" would get through to them. 

If he keeps insisting just crush his soul. But not in a way that will provoke him to talk bad about you to everyone at the school

Just get up to face grab his head and out it by your butt and fart and walk away he'll think your disgusting and it will be a good laugh.

Haha, good thing I won't ever have this problem, right guys *laughter turns to crying* I'm so alone

"Sorry I'm a lesbian".

That might actually turn him on.

I just flat out say no. Some of them are so damn persistent though that it's annoying. No means no. Eventually they leave me alone but gaah

In Primary school i had that problem, not sure why though. They eventually started leaving me alone because i harassed and beat the schools bullies. After that, most people got scared of me  

So basically everytime you say NO this guys like ?

 

 

 

 

I'm almost like scared to tell one of my teachers though?? I go to a very, very tiny school--there are only 6 other kids in my grade, and I know it's going to stir up giant controversy if I get a teacher involved. I just wish the "NO" would get through to them. 

 

But still you shouldn't feel uncomfortable going to school because you know he's going to bug you. The "no" isn't working and it doesn't seem like it will. I guess ignoring could work but even so it's best to at least notify someone about the situation. Does anyone notice that he is doing this to you? If they saw this happening then I would hope they wouldn't act that way toward you o.o

Your best bet is to bring in somebody who will make him back off like a teacher or a administrator. Tell them that he is harassing you, .that is the best option in my opinion

 

fighting him won't help at all. It would just make things worse for you ( like getting expelled)  

"Sorry I'm a lesbian".  

ahh I think he already knows I'm bi though because I've mentioned my ex boyfriend before 

 

But still you shouldn't feel uncomfortable going to school because you know he's going to bug you. The "no" isn't working and it doesn't seem like it will. I guess ignoring could work but even so it's best to at least notify someone about the situation. Does anyone notice that he is doing this to you? If they saw this happening then I would hope they wouldn't act that way toward you o.o

Yeah they notice but they're like, "oh, he's a nice guy, he just really wants a girlfriend. He's bipolar, you should feel bad for him." I'm like firetruck that I don't give a damn about him if he won't take no for an answer. I guess I'm probably going to end up telling my principal tomorrow, but that feels like chickening out. I know I'm letting pride get in the way, but dang I'd really like to beat him up. He's really tall and pretty overweight, and those are the exact kind of guys I had to fight in Tae-Kwon-Do. It would be nice to get to finally use those skills irl. But anyway, thank you. I'm gonna tell someone tomorrow and just cross my fingers that it works out okay. 

Edited February 5, 201411 yr by Think Pink

That might actually turn him on.

 

I hate that.  If someone's genuinely a lesbian, she is not going to let a guy "in" or "watch" because it does nothing for her, she's gay and attracted to female genitalia.

 

I've said it before and got something along the lines of "I hope you die of AIDS"

ahh I think he already knows I'm bi though because I've mentioned my ex boyfriend before 

 

Yeah they notice but they're like, "oh, he's a nice guy, he just really wants a girlfriend. He's bipolar, you should feel bad for him." I'm like firetruck that I don't give a damn if he won't take no for an answer. I guess I'm probably going to end up telling my principal tomorrow, but that feels like chickening out. I know I'm letting pride get in the way, but dang I'd really like to beat him up. He's really tall and pretty overweight, and those are the exact kind of guys I had to fight in Tae-Kwon-Do. It would be nice to get to finally use those skills irl. But anyway, thank you. I'm gonna tell someone tomorrow and just cross my fingers that it works out okay. 

 

"I'm now 87% lesbian and you are not in that 13% that could turn me"  

 

Maths and shit gets stuff done

my first boyfriend harassed me and bought me expensive gifts to try and guilt me into dating him so i ended up giving in and doing it so he would stop and it was really scary tbh?? he was borderline abusive and really manipulative and got me involved in things i didnt want to be in, so yea dont give in to that. you should really tell someone who can help like an administrator or get your friends to get him to back off because that isnt okay!!

ahh I think he already knows I'm bi though because I've mentioned my ex boyfriend before 

 

Yeah they notice but they're like, "oh, he's a nice guy, he just really wants a girlfriend. He's bipolar, you should feel bad for him." I'm like firetruck that I don't give a damn about him if he won't take no for an answer. I guess I'm probably going to end up telling my principal tomorrow, but that feels like chickening out. I know I'm letting pride get in the way, but dang I'd really like to beat him up. He's really tall and pretty overweight, and those are the exact kind of guys I had to fight in Tae-Kwon-Do. It would be nice to get to finally use those skills irl. But anyway, thank you. I'm gonna tell someone tomorrow and just cross my fingers that it works out okay. 

 

That still doesn't excuse his behavior nor does it make a valid reason to date him. Plus this situation is between you, him, and the adult, not your classmates. They need to chill out (unintended Frozen pun owo). It takes a lot of courage to alert someone of a problem instead of dealing with it alone or resorting to other methods like violence. So I think you're being rather brave by telling your principle. Now if he wouldn't stop touching or aggressively holding on to you then I would say go ahead and defend yourself.....then telling the principle the situation.

 

No problem. You have a right to feel comfortable and safe at school. Good luck!