I guess I will never find love. First Jayden rejects me and now Shana. I will never find love! I am doomed to always fall in love and never get the girl! I just am destined to be a loner.

You're seriously giving up after 2 "rejections"? C'mon man get a hold of yourself, you have your entire life ahead of you and I'm sure one day you'll find the one

So since you had two crushes that never worked out, you're quitting for good? A lot of people have to spend ages trying to find the right person for them. Just because two rejected you doesn't mean that you'll be a loner for life, you're generalizing the whole situation.

Oh really, well I beg to differ, I never have had a girlfriend before, I have never been kissed by a girl, no girl ever wants to take a chance on me. I am so done! I am doomed to be a loner, but at least I get to find this out at an early age instead of later, that way I have time to know that I will never find love.

Oh really, well I beg to differ, I never have had a girlfriend before, I have never been kissed by a girl, no girl ever wants to take a chance on me. I am so done! I am doomed to be a loner, but at least I get to find this out at an early age instead of later, that way I have time to know that I will never find love.

Since when did never having a girlfriend mean you're instantly a loner for LIFE? You never know what will happen in the future. I've never even asked a girl out, and I'm not getting upset over it.

I think you're generalizing a bit too much here

 

two failed attempts aren't the end you still have a great chance to find another love

 

Though one tip and I hope you understand me here on this:try it in real life instead of internet dating,internet dating is something that's never guaranteed regardless of how long two members were dating on a site.Because in internet dating it's easier to reject people cuz it's the internet or get shocked when sometimes(and I'm not kidding I witnessed that on other sites) get shocked when someone finds out he was dating a male who registered his account as a female during all this time.

 

I'm telling you that as a friend not because I'm being a smartass or anything.But next time you date try it in real life cuz internet dating is not as easy as it seems

 

And who knows,one day you'll find your true love that will last forever and even start a family

Edited May 14, 201411 yr by Red Tribal

I guess I will never find love. First Jayden rejects me and now Shana. I will never find love! I am doomed to always fall in love and never get the girl! I just am destined to be a loner.

Xeveemon, two girls online rejected you? And you act like this? You and I both know this is unnecessary! Please know that love is a big, and sensitive subject. It cannot be rushed. And, one day love will come to you, and you will truly know. You are a divine person that will one day find the one that suits you right! Don't get down, and don't moan about this. Just look at it like this:  you've got someone out there that you have yet to meet, it will come, with time. You just need to be open

Xeveemon, two girls online rejected you? And you act like this? You and I both know this is unnecessary! Please know that love is a big, and sensitive subject. It cannot be rushed. And, one day love will come to you, and you will truly know. You are a divine person that will one day find the one that suits you right! Don't get down, and don't moan about this. Just look at it like this:  you've got someone out there that you have yet to meet, it will come, with time. You just need to be open

Actually Jayden was a real life girl that I knew

Actually Jayden was a real life girl that I knew

Regardless, just know that your love life is not over, and it has just begun. Love is a delicate feeling, and is only felt between two people who share a passion with each other. Real love will come to you in time, and you'll know it  

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Well you know what, I am going to try, at least, with Shana. And if that doesn't work out then I am going try again when the time is right!

 so what if youve never had a girlfriend before and no girl (so far) didnt want to give you a chance? niether have i! just becouse yu got 2 rejections doesent mean your doomed for life! on the contrary! ever heard the phrase "what doesent kill you makes you stronger"? also, this is egsactly how you acted when jayden rejected yu. you got over it didnt you? this is why i said to wait and let it soak in. once your done then try again. no matter what you think, your not doomed for life. there are so many people out there and you cant say that none of them want to be with you becouse just 2 girls rejected you. remember that feeling when you posted what i quoted you saying? do what you said in that post! "And if it doesent work out then i am going to try again when the time is right!" im not mad at you at all. pls dont get that impression. your just beating yourself up by saying that youre done. say even if you were doomed to fail (which is not possible. youre too much of an awesome guy for that) do you want to say that you gave up on love when you were a teenager? or do you want to say that you tried youre absolute hardest and never gave up? your NOT doomed to fail. i can tell you that right now. as you said before, take some time and then try again with a new girl when the time is right.  pls dont give up on love. im asking that as a friend. it will do the opposite of help you. i care about how my friends feel and i dont want you to feel bad. take some time and try again when your ready and found a great girl.

Edited May 14, 201411 yr by benj0818

Dude you're 18. I think it's about time to take off the panties and step into some big boy underwear

hold up. WHAT

Personally, I think judging the rest of your 70+ future years of existence on the circumstances of what's going on at firetrucking eighteen--especially in regards to your love life--will not do you any favors.  People change, circumstances change, stuff changes.  And honestly?  Feeling sorry for yourself like this is going to do the exact opposite of finding someone.  Are you honestly getting brokenhearted over an online relationship?  With someone I never even witnessed you directly speaking to or referencing?

 

Instead of searching and failing to find anything and becoming a drama queen whenever it happens, take time for yourself, and meditate on things.  And no, don't be cute and assume there's nothing good about you, because that's the easy answer and it's also the incorrect one.

Oh really, well I beg to differ, I never have had a girlfriend before, I have never been kissed by a girl, no girl ever wants to take a chance on me. I am so done! I am doomed to be a loner, but at least I get to find this out at an early age instead of later, that way I have time to know that I will never find love.

 

Oh boy, like there isn't many like you out there who fit this description. Oh wait... *looks at some friends and myself* Yet here I am, trying to progress in life.

....if people gave up after 2 tries, I seriously doubt anything would get accomplished. Chill out, it's not the end of the world. You have to learn to move on, otherwise it's going to be a loooong process. Yeah it's a bit upsetting but seriously, is all this really necessary? Let things unfold naturally. Don't go looking for something that isn't there or forcing something to happen.

 

Plus love isn't something that just happens. Or experience at the age of eighteen. It develops over a certain period of time.

 

You find these things out now so you can keep trying rather than sit there and stay upset for the rest of your life.

Edited May 14, 201411 yr by xoblivionx13

It's ok if you think like that. If you wanna give up it's ok. You know what? When the time comes, you'll find the person that will make you change your mind. Trust me, I thought like you before. I was rejected 2 times and give up on love. But then someone appeared and made me change my mind. I'm sure that the same will happen with you.

Also, it doesn't matter if the person you like is someone you know personally or not. Some found their true love on sites like this and get married ( like my best friend did) and some after givin up on love met the person that will be with them forever ( like I did).

The rest is bullshit nonsense. And don't take pity on yourself anymore. You're bigger than that.

 

The rest is bullshit nonsense. And don't take pitty on youself anymore. You're bigger than that.

My friend, as a fellow eighteen year old, let me just say: lighten up.

 

Two rejections, and you instantly judge your life is to be doomed eternaly alone? Dude, I'm the most depressing, sarcastic, emotional unsocialible person you'd ever meet, and even I don't give up on life just beause of that. There will be plenty of time to find a partner who will like you as you like her. Give it time, simply. Believe me when I say: love will come to you. It always does.  

 

Besides, so what if you're single? What's so wrong with that? Being single is just as great as having a relationship, I should know. But don't let that fool you; just keep waiting.

Allright Xeveemon listen to me, you are only 18 right? I am also 18 I have tried the same as you, and you just need to come over it, because there are many fish out in the sea. You just need to keep going on, because when you find the one you love, you will know it. This may sound like a cliche, but your heart will know when it's the right person. Trust me, do not give up hope, you are young and have many years to find the person you will truly love.

Dude, I'm in the same boat as you. But I've been in it a little longer. I'm 23 years old, and I've NEVER dated. Yet. Oh I've had crushes before yes, but I've never been out with anyone. Sure it sucks being alone all the time, but that doesn't mean I'll give up on love. I just need to be patient a little while longer. I know I'll meet the right guy one day, just not right now. The same thing goes for you too my friend. Just be patient. Enjoy your life right now. Have fun!

Oh really, well I beg to differ, I never have had a girlfriend before, I have never been kissed by a girl, no girl ever wants to take a chance on me. I am so done!

Aaaaannnnnd how old are you again?

 

It's ok if you think like that. If you wanna give up it's ok. You know what? When the time comes, you'll find the person that will make you change your mind. Trust me, I thought like you before. I was rejected 2 times and give up on love. But then someone appeared and made me change my mind. I'm sure that the same will happen with you.

Also, it doesn't matter if the person you like is someone you know personally or not. Some found their true love on sites like this and get married ( like my best friend did) and some after givin up on love met the person that will be with them forever ( like I did).

The rest is bullshit nonsense. And don't take pity on yourself anymore. You're bigger than that.

 

The rest is bullshit nonsense. And don't take pitty on youself anymore. You're bigger than that.

 

 

*Coughs

You're giving up after TWO people. Come on mate, there's tons of women out there. Just get over it, and move on.

*Coughs

 

Don't be too confident because of that.

Let me tell you a little story Xevee. It's about me back when I was in Elementary school. I would develop deep feelings for girls I'd have a crush on, and I'd fall in love. Let me just say that I failed every single time. The girls I liked never liked me back, and after a while, I started to question myself, about why I couldn't get girls. I thought that I wasn't handsome enough, that girls thought I was nothing but crap, but luckily, thanks to my best friend Jonathan and my friends and family, I'd feel better. But I always felt an emptiness inside.

 

When I joined this site, I had a crush, but it resulted in heartbreak because she loved three other guys. Then I fell in love with my ex, but our relationship never lasted. When I was in deepest sorrow, a girl by the name of Ami came to me, giving me advice and helping me in my moment of pain. She understood my sorrow, she helped me overcome my own insecurities and self hatred, and with time, my feelings for her grew stronger. We'd talk about the most random things, and we'd talk about our favorite games, movies, etc. Then she told me of her past, and I told her mine, and we connected ever more. Then I realized I loved her truly and deeply.

 

But I was scared of confessing my feelings to her, because I was afraid of going through another heartbreak, and at that point, I couldn't take it anymore. But to my surprise, she confessed to me, and I was shocked and speechless, and well, you could imagine how happy I was at that moment! And so, on July 18, 2011, we officially began our relationship, and I've been a happy man ever since. Sure, we've had our ups and downs, like any couple, but we've overcome our struggles. We had also hurt each other deeply, but we forgave each other and learned from our mistakes, which resulted in our love growing stronger. Right now that girl's current username is Inori, and she's the love of my life!

 

What I want you to take away from this story Xevee, is that love is a powerful and wonderful emotion. There is no right way to love. Everyone has different ways of showing it. Stop living in fear of what might be, and take a risk and discover what love is bit by bit. I've been with my dear Inori for almost 3 whole years, and our relationship has been built upon love, trust, understanding, and most of all, learning. Xevee, I know you'll be able to experience true love in its greatest form, so I wish you the best of luck with your love life! I'm sure you'll find your girl sometime soon!

Adding on a inside joke, you should be like your tamer, Davish, who can't get a date with Kari but is so positive about everything. 

Dude, I'm in the same boat as you. But I've been in it a little longer. I'm 23 years old, and I've NEVER dated. Yet. 

Same here.