RULES

     1. Do not write about body measurements like ''I like girls with big boobs!'' or something like that. 

   

     2. This is supposed to be about what type of personality you would want in your boyfriend/girlfriend

 

    3. If you don't want to write in the comments and are afraid that it will ruin a friendship with a certain someone it's completely okay. 

 

                                                         Okay, here are my opinions:

 

  I'm into ''geek girls'' who are not shy to admit what TV Show, movie, book series etc that they like. 

 

How about you? Comment below!

Since I'm bi I'll say for both.For a girl, someone who is funny and has a great personality. But not somebody that talks your ear off because I had a teacher that just wouldn't shut up and I passed out. So some one who likes to have fun and is interesting too. Also I will not date a girl if they smoke I'm sort of against smoking.For a guy some who has a athletic body but not as tall as me and has a great smile funny and someone who had a terrible past because I would love to hug him and let him know that I'm a caring person, I don't mean it in a bad way just someone who just needs someone to hug and share out love with. I seriously feel that if they had a terrible past we can connect and we can have a strong bond from that.

Even though I'm a guy, that aside. if i were looking for a man i wouldn't have "an athletic body" as a necessity as that's the thing you shouldn't ever worry about. Their personality is what should matter then their looks.

Even though I'm a guy, that aside. if i were looking for a man i wouldn't have "an athletic body" as a necessity as that's the thing you shouldn't ever worry about. Their personality is what should matter then their looks.

wait are you bi too? Well I should of said I like guys that work out and give you the motivation to keep going so we can spend more time together. I honestly don't care what they look like just someone that is very interesting.

wait are you bi too? Well I should of said I like guys that work out and give you the motivation to keep going so we can spend more time together. I honestly don't care what they look like just someone that is very interesting.

I'm not, haha. But if i was then that's what i would be looking for. Sorry to confuse you, .

A guy who can tolerate me

Hah, other than that, a guy who isn't close-minded. Someone who I can be totally crazy with, but can also calm me down when I need it. Someone I can rely on, and can rely on me. Intelligent, funny, blah blah blah. I just don't want someone who's cold hearted. 

I'm not, haha. But if i was then that's what i would be looking for. Sorry to confuse you, .

haha it's okay

I mean I don't necessarily have a preference but  I guess they remind me of myself I will probably like them. So I'm into girls and guys who are intelligent, independent, and who can hold an interesting conversation but at the same time are comfortable with silence. If they like the same music and video games as me then that's a bonus.

You mean someone who is a Winner and is black?

What's race got to do with this? Are you trying to be funny?

What's race got to do with this? Are you trying to be funny

Race has everything to do with it. 

Girls like lalalablah

 

I have a few preferences but most people on here already listed them, ( Trust, communication , physical attraction, emotional connection etc)

 

A girl does not need to have a curvy/busty/thick body for me to be with her, guys like that have very unrealistic exceptions on women especially when not all women can get that type of figure easily, like skinny girls for example, its hard for them to gain any type of weight due to there body type

 

I would prefer if she would be outgoing but know when to relax and do nothing. I love smart girls because girls who are dense bore me and they can't hold a conversation that is not  about themselves or other people for 3 minutes without calling it lame. For example trying to talk to a dense girl about how GMO could cause cancer and she is all like "whatever that's lame, lets talk about my day again or that girl that pissed me off today over and over again "  Just thinking about girls like that gives me a headache.

 

A girl that likes me for who I am not for someone I am not. Because I see many guys in the real world who have identity issues because they are trying to act a certain way to please a girl. lol. If a girl says she is only into bad guys I would just stop talking to her right then and there instead of trying to fight every guy I see that looks at her for more then one second.

 

I prefer a girl that is a gamer but most girls/women I encounter don't really care about video games due to all the negative stereotypes about gamers and because many of them look at it as a "guy thing". Its even harder to find a girl I like that would care about anime also.

 

 I would prefer if a girl doesn't do drugs but if she does she can't be high or drunk more then 50% of the time because I am not going to deal with a girl who is almost always on drugs like where is her real personality at. Unless she is a gamer of course then all of this part will be overshadowed ( for the most part) lol

 

She also has to be responsible , I can't have any type of long term relationship with a women when she can't focus on paying bills and just buy a whole bunch of useless sh!t all the time

 

She has to know how to keep her hands to herself, a good amount of women now of days take advantage of the fact that men won't hit a girl back due to the enormous BS backlash that they would get because due to patriarch and some feminist who are extremist, men are viewed as the only human being that can cause any type of abuse and physical harm due to us being Stronger then women despite the fact that women Punch faster and kick way harder ( due to most of there strength being in their hips) Too all the women out their don't hit men, its just as bad as we hitting you.  

Honestly, someone like Larxene. Someone feisty, empowered, dominant, never a dull moment with them around, physical, sarcastic, dark sense of humour and kinky.

 

And common interests blah blah all that jazz.

Someone...someone get this man...A GOLD STAR *Slow claps which slug into thunderous applause*

The type you rarely find, specifically this:

 

A women who doesn't just look after a man for looks and all that dumb shit, I want a women who can treat me right so i can treat her the same.

 

But I don't mind, I already know I'm destined to never find a girl with at least these tastes, or to put it in better words why go for a bad looking man who will treat you with respect when you can go with a good looking man with the same quality? 

 

My logic sucks, but that's how I see it in my own perspective. 

 

EDIT: Also, New York. lel

Edited September 1, 201411 yr by OmegaForte

The type you rarely find, specifically this:

 

 

But I don't mind, I already know I'm destined to never find a girl with at least these tastes, or to put it in better words why go for a bad looking man who will treat you with respect when you can go with a good looking man with the same quality? 

 

My logic sucks, but that's how I see it in my own perspective. 

 

EDIT: Also, New York. lel

That is true, but really they can just find a man with good looks but be a complete jackass.

Girls like lalalablah

 

I have a few preferences but most people on here already listed them, ( Trust, communication , physical attraction, emotional connection etc)

 

A girl does not need to have a curvy/busty/thick body for me to be with her, guys like that have very unrealistic exceptions on women especially when not all women can get that type of figure easily, like skinny girls for example, its hard for them to gain any type of weight due to there body type

 

I would prefer if she would be outgoing but know when to relax and do nothing. I love smart girls because girls who are dense bore me and they can't hold a conversation that is not  about themselves or other people for 3 minutes without calling it lame. For example trying to talk to a dense girl about how GMO could cause cancer and she is all like "whatever that's lame, lets talk about my day again or that girl that pissed me off today over and over again "  Just thinking about girls like that gives me a headache.

 

A girl that likes me for who I am not for someone I am not. Because I see many guys in the real world who have identity issues because they are trying to act a certain way to please a girl. lol. If a girl says she is only into bad guys I would just stop talking to her right then and there instead of trying to fight every guy I see that looks at her for more then one second.

 

I prefer a girl that is a gamer but most girls/women I encounter don't really care about video games due to all the negative stereotypes about gamers and because many of them look at it as a "guy thing". Its even harder to find a girl I like that would care about anime also.

 

 I would prefer if a girl doesn't do drugs but if she does she can't be high or drunk more then 50% of the time because I am not going to deal with a girl who is almost always on drugs like where is her real personality at. Unless she is a gamer of course then all of this part will be overshadowed ( for the most part) lol

 

She also has to be responsible , I can't have any type of long term relationship with a women when she can't focus on paying bills and just buy a whole bunch of useless sh!t all the time

 

She has to know how to keep her hands to herself, a good amount of women now of days take advantage of the fact that men won't hit a girl back due to the enormous BS backlash that they would get because due to patriarch and some feminist who are extremist, men are viewed as the only human being that can cause any type of abuse and physical harm due to us being Stronger then women despite the fact that women Punch faster and kick way harder ( due to most of there strength being in their hips) Too all the women out their don't hit men, its just as bad as we hitting you.  

Lotta gamer girls in gaming hotspots. Redmond Washington is one of em.

I don't know of any gaming hotspots in Florida let alone South Florida.  

I'm not going to pretend that I don't care about appearance, because I do.

 As for looks I kind of have a thing for girls who kind of have a goth type look, glasses are cool too.

For personality I like someone who's intelligent and fun to be around, also them liking anime/games is pretty cool too. 

Errm is it okay if I answer this in a non-boyfriend/girlfriend way?

 

Anyway I'll just list what I like in people ... In all honesty I don't mind how a person is, in fact, I am deeply fascinated by the diverse cultures and lifestyles people lead. I'm kind of an observer. I'll sit on a train or in a shopping centre and just try and figure people out. Yes kinda weird I know. I think it's really important that we all reflect and remember that not everybody is like us I like a good scientific/political /anime/book discussion with an open-minded person and I thoroughly enjoy hearing thoughts, opinions and experiences on pretty much anything! Although humour's good, I don't want to list it because I know not everyone can pull it off or are more the serious type which is totally fine

 

However, I really dislike when people are inconsiderate, complain over petty things and are immature. Yea.

 

And they have to have logic. Logic's important

For personality, a girl that is not a complete.. you know what. There are too many nowadays and I'm sick of this, my Heart can't stand it anymore. I want a girl that thinks with her own head, that doesn't do stuff just because fashion bullcrap commands it. A girl that loves me for what I am and not for what I have, a girl that loves my weaknesses and not for my strengths. Because everyone loves strengths, but if you manage to be loved for your weaknesses it really means you found the right partner. A girl that's strong and fiery but sweet and cuddly, a girl I can trust. Mutual trust and loyalty are fundamental in my opinion, even if a touch of "innocent jealousy" would be sweet because it means there's a strong attachment! Possibly a girl that loves Art, especially Music, and Kingdom Hearts. Wait, Kingdom Hearts is Art as well, lol Anyway, I'm not gonna lie: there must be a little bit of physical attraction. It may not be the most important thing, in fact it's not, but it does count. Trust me. Speaking of which, I'm physically attracted by short girls with red, black or blonde hair with green eyes. Green eyes are a MUST. And the smile. THE SMILE. Oh, the smile..that's the sexiest part of girls, by a loooong shot. I also love thin but curvy physique, I don't like skeletal and long-limbed ones ._. I know that the condition was not to speak about boobies and stuff, but this is kinda part of the physical description so yolo, lol ._. I like "mid-high" breast, a 3 or 4 out of 5. And a round booty Of course the personality is the most important thing, no doubts

I just want someone who is willing to put up with me at my worst so they can bring out my best, and vice versa. Not in the co-dependency / white knight / "I must save them!" kind of relationship, though.Alternatively, I want someone I can trust a puppy with.

I like girls who aren't secretly evil robots.

I'd want a girl who's intelligent to a level where I can have a deep conversation with her on a multitude of subjects. This doesn't mean genius level intellect (I'm not there either), just generally knowledgeable and capable of using sound reason and logic. Though the "dumb girl" stereotype is huge, I believe there are plenty of girls out there who'd fit this criteria.

 

Additionally, we'd need to have opinions that mesh well. I don't mean having the same opinion, but opinions that aren't in constant conflict. It wouldn't end well if we were total political/religious/philosophical opposites. I know it's said that opposites attract, but in this case I need someone whom I can agree with at least more than half the time.

 

I believe it's important that she be her own, independent person. We should compliment each other. Be able to cover each others' strengths and weaknesses. But neither of us should be "incomplete" as people without the other. I'm not saying that we shouldn't feel as though our lives would be empty without the other, but that we must both be able to function as human beings without each other.

 

Socially, I'd prefer if she was more introverted (since I'm introverted), but it wouldn't necessarily be a deal breaker if she was extroverted. So long as she'd respect that there are some social situations that I'm not comfortable with, we'd be good. For my part, I'd do the same if she were introverted, or make the effort to allow myself out of my comfort zone and try things out if she was extroverted.

 

(The following is probably where I limit myself severely.)

I'd definitely want someone who's not interested in heavily romantic stuff. I have a hard time explaining what I mean by this, but picture pretty much any stereotypical romance (not rom-com) movie and you've probably got a decent picture. I frankly find it all cheap and boring. If the only means to get a girl's attention is to go the heavy romance route, then I'd rather not try for her attention at all. For me, my ideal romantic relationship would pretty much be like a very deep friendship. We'd do most anything for each other. We'd do fun things together, spend time together, etc. Yeah, we'd also hug and cuddle and all that jazz. Candle lit fancy dinners with music, rose bouquets, mushy poetry, constant reminders that I love her (notes or whatever else), etc. No. That's just not my personality. I believe it should be enough to spend time with her, to make efforts to understand her, to do things we both love together, to devote myself to her. I realize there's likely many people out there who wouldn't agree, who thinks that that kind of "heavily romantic stuff" is necessary. Maybe you're right, but I don't have to like it if you are.

 

In conjunction with my opinion on romance, I dislike the idea of chivalry. Opening doors, offering to pay the bill for a date, etc. are things I'd do because that's just what I would do. I'm not trying to impress people by doing this, I'm just trying to be nice. I'd do these things for men or women, for friends, family, or a potential romantic partner. I'm not going to be extra nice to anyone just because they're female. Yes, of course I'm going to be on top behavior for a girl I really like, I'm trying to impress her. But at the same time, I'm not going to go extremely out of my way. If she offers to split the bill, she darn well better want to do so, because I'm going to accept. I'm not going to help her get her dang jacket off, she's not a toddler. If she tells me not to pull out her seat for her, then I won't.

 

*I would like to add to these last two paragraphs that I may have worded it a bit too extremely. I'd of course want to take her out on real dates, and I'd still offer to pay and what have you. I think it would have been better to say that my ideal romance is different from the cliche kind of romance. But I already spent so long typing all that, it'd be a shame to delete it.

Edited September 1, 201411 yr by DragonMaster

Well, kind. I mean. i like it when a girls upbeat and happy, and its pretty cool if shes also funny. But kindness is really the only thing that i seek out.

if shes kind, shares interests, and likes me, im set.

I like funny guys. Giant dorks. Guys who are able to talk with me for a long time about like, the universe, and life, maybe not in a serious, "textbook" way, but in a rambling-on sort of way. Guys who are, in that same way, able to talk with me about the stupidest things. Guys who joke around with me. Guys who will watch anime with me and play Animal Crossing with me and go on adventures with me. 

 

Also, they must not be jerks. I met a guy last year who was a big dork, but he was a jerk. He found out I like kpop and wouldn't shut up about it. He wouldn't stop teasing me for it and he was constantly going on about how insecure my liking it made him, even though once he told me he didn't like it I never brought it up. That's the other thing -- insecurity to the point of making me feel like a big a-hole is a huge turnoff. And knocking me for what I like is, too. The best guy I ever had doesn't like kpop at all but will listen to me talk about it because he knows it's a big part of my life and means a lot to me. I never force him to like it, but he tries to understand me, and I love that. I need that kind of thing. We don't have to like all of the same things, but we should respect it.

 

So... I think that's about it. I've never really thought about this too much before. Hm.

Imma tell it like this: I want someone who knocks my socks off. No, not physically......but spiritually, mentally, and emotionally. The kind of person who wanders into your life one day, and their very soul is so in-sync with yours, that for a split-second you swear your heart stops beating. The kind of person that you can reveal your deepest, darkest sides to, and they don't run away......but rather pick up a sword, and charge through the fires with you. The kind of person that you can sit next to for hours, without saying a word......because their company is enough. Someone who doesn't mind dancing while it's raining, laughing in the midst of tears, sticking around even when we're both angry, and turning up the music when the world's whispers become too much to bear. I will be thankful just to have someone who is willing to look past all of my flaws,  and see me for what I am on the inside. We would help each other become better people everyday, and have a freakin' good time doing it.

I'd really hate to lump both together, sooo...

I like PEOPLE who are smartish, not an airhead, but not, like, a genius. 

Someone who's normal, not a fashion model. 

Likes don't matter a ton, just don't expect me to like everything you do and vice versa, and we're good. 

And someone who can act like an adult in a store. T.T

That's all. 

Idk. I guess someone who more of a bestfriend that a boy/girlfriend.

I'm not all that attracted to people at all. Their personality is something I look more at, so uh...in short a bestfriend like person.